Life Coach

Oh boy... I too had once those feelings (and still have) ... for Putin. nohomo Nah just kidding, I used to love Leo too but only the pre-enlightenment Leo. He was humble yet raw and real and he spat out some profound life advice and philosophy, he changed my life forever back then.

Yeah this sounds reasonable

I proudly accept the challenge...but all the poor wasted tomatoes make my heart cry. They could be wonderfully used in a fruit salad

And real maturity is when you stop caring what other people expect from you and use the tomato as you please, while still aknowledging what you are doing and taking full responsibility for it. You take things light heartedly and in being mature you can actually embrace immaturity again. (I may or may not just make this stuff up in my head as I type this)

I love reading posts like this, so refreshing and healing. No wall of text, no bullshit around it, just straight real truth short and juicy in a single sentence, saying it like it is. Like a scalpel to the heart with the precision of a surgeon and the power of Thors Hammer.

Check this guy out, not sure if he is legit or not. eats only one meal a day, yet he looks like a hetero Xerxes.

You did nothing wrong, relax. You don't have to be in a sexual relationship with a woman, it is perfectly fine to just be friends. You don't need to excuse yourself, you do not need to explain anything. And if you chose to date, you can date as much women as you like at the same time. Really if the girls have a problem with you talking to a lot of other girls and being friends with more than just them then that is their problem and their problem only. They seem pretty insecure. Only you can decide for yourself how many friends you can have and with how much girls you can talk to, and no one else has a say in it. I find it amusing how every girl can lead guys on, date multiple guys all the time and friendzone them as they please and that's perfectly fine, but when a man does that then it's suddenly a bad thing? Pathetic. I suggest you give less fucks and do what you want. But on the other hand, don't be an asshole, be humble. If you start a sexual relationship then don't lie and don't cheat.

Of course, as long as they have a little memory from the time when they were not in solitude. Imagination and mind will not turn off or become unhealthy when you are enlightenment or in solitude. However, if a baby is born and he grows up mostly in solitude and the baby doesn't learn much from the world then he probably will have not a good imagination or knowledge and his creations will look like what we call modern aka...aka massive bullshit. Also it depends if they have access to the internet while in solitude or not lol

Just as they hold what in your eyes seem positive power over you, they may just as easily hold negative power over you. Sure, you used that motivation as a kickstart, but now since you are on the way it is time for you to completely and absolutely take all your power back and never be "powered" by anyone else, only by yourself. Get intrinsic motivation and be free.

Pure gold. Best video of Leo ever!

That's the basic outline of what all the guides are teaching, but it's easier said than done. Anyway, thanks for the brief outline zen-master

Porn is one of the most miracelous and wondrous and most beautiful and freeing things to be ever invented, for which I am forever grateful. This thread reminds me of how much I regret cutting porn out of my life. "To clean my mind and spirit" I said. Without porn life is not the same...I may break my vow and return to porn once again.

lol maybe some of those tips will help him even if hes a guy

I have been into this topic lately but I am still trying to figure it out. Supposedly you can have multiple whole body orgasms without ejaculation, and some even say you can have multiple orgasms all WITH ejaculation. What one can really do is to strengthen their pc muscles and learning how to control their energies via breath, just as described in countless guides which you can all just google. You may even try to press down your Jo-men point or je-mon point or whatever its called shortly before ejaculation to stop it and maintain boner while still having an orgasm, but it will not always work. Leo really should do a topic on multiple orgasms for men, pc muscle, prostate orgasms and controlling your sexual energy. Unless he has no idea of course

@outlandish Of course no one should be expected to be celibate lol, that would be a disaster. Since almost all people cannot bend their very nature to their own will and are simply too weak for this to be successful. All those sexual abusers in religious orders (especially christian) are a joke, they are not the real deal spiritual people. What I meant are real spiritual seekers and enlightened people. It's possible. But don't try it out, unless you are a god-like zen master who has completely control over him/herself. I wanna tell you a secret....I myself am a monk celibate for over a year now. I have no desire to have sex and I see it only as a distraction...but I still masturbate like once or twice a week, don't know if that counts or not. Entirely without it my task would be insane. Maybe I will get there sometime

Everything can be related to spirituality, even sex. Although the ego wants it so bad that sometimes spiritual people will make excuses and tell you it is very important and tell you something about unite of the devine feminine and masculine and energy transmission and this kinda stuff. In fact they are just horny assholes who look for excuses to endulge in pleasures and practice as little self control as possible. so yeah it's related but nothing special. I personally think it may be even a hindrance, no matter what tantra fans will tell you, and actually being celibate helps you grow spiritually faster. The hardcore monks and nuns of all religions gotta have it right. But don't tell anybody, because everyones ego will be ultra offended.

While relaxation is a need, being with friends most likely isn't. Think of the minimalist lifestyle episode from Leo. Is mindlessly wasting your time with friends and distracting yourself really worth it?

This is the only answer.

Your posts are full of ego. You ignored my question before, maybe you are not too full of yourself to ignore this one: What is living life really for you? Why do you make fun of that other poster even if you have no idea about him?

The perfect age is never. Marriage is a sick construct of the past that should have never been in the first places. And it has gotten even more rotten in recent years. Never ever get married.

Trump is by far more self actualized

As soon as you leave the relationship all ties are cut. It is already over, it is only your ego playing tricks on you as always and it makes you suffer still. Just know there are no ties and let go. btw we are all one anyway, the same energy, so one could say that you and your ex will be forever tied as one and the same energy. But that's not to bother

I am in no way enlightened or even near enlightenment, in that regard I am a quite ordinary person. But I can assure you it is very possible for some humans to be happy in complete solitude. So in that matter it doesn't even take enlightenment to be happy completly and forever alone.

I have forgotten what I found attractive in women or what traits I wished to find in my partner. However I got like 1000 things that repell me in women, if someone is interested. Somehow I only focus on the negative in those things

So you are not really concerned with enlightenment? I pick up the energy from your post (by reading the word jazz) that you aren't that exited about it. What is your view on things? Shouldn't we bother with it?