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Heh, earlier in my life I used to laugh at stuff like that and called it retarded bullshit from idots who have nothing better to do in life than coming up with this nonse. Basically just like modern art. Today I still do not understand that stuff, but at least I don't judge it anymore.

I wasn't even sarcastic

My mind can asbolutely not comprehend what has become of modern men. But I feel that is what society has done to them, so it's not the individual mans fault. It can't be that so many, many men are scared of women and have gotten so weak that they cannot even talk to a girl they like. Not bashing the op, because I was like him back then. And not only me, but all my guy friends and guy relatives too. I feel for ya op and of course you can work this out, but when I watch at the issue from a wider perspective then I see that something is horribly horribly wrong. For a man to be scared of women, even talking to them, this is sick. And it's a huge, world wide problem.

Yeah I see it. I have actually had this thought before, and I like where it's going. I think you are onto something my friend. I often secretly reflected about dropping all the fucking hard work, but I had this belief deep down inside of me that told me I had to do all the hard work and it was the only way. Now I see, thanks to you, that it was just my ego all along. There is no need for hard work, but there is also no need of taking dmt. I will see when I am dead and till then I can enjoy material life and be a lazy fuck. That's the reason we play this game after all, to enjoy it. Enjoy being alive and endulging in all sorts of unhealthy shit. Why were we born in the first place? To sit and meditate our whole life and suffer and do all this hard work? Don't think so...don't think so. Thank you my friend.

So you basically took it as a quick fix, the lazy mans way of avoiding the hard work? To me it's like skipping the whole adventure, the whole film, the whole game and just getting instantly to the ending, to the reward. I have nothing against instant gratification and quick fixes, I often take the cheap route or the lazy mans approach to things, but especially in this case this ain't right in my eyes...not wanting to work on your midnfulness and not wanting to meditate for years. I dunno man...and you still don't know what you have got there. Your brain on chems, you really had a glimpse of the truth? Or were you just dreaming, or halluzinating? People with near death experiences often think they see what happens after death, see the afterlife...and people think they actually leave their body and astral travel....but the truth is both are wrong, they are merely dreaming. Lucid dreaming at best. I would not skip the hard work. Sure take drugs as much as you want, but actually do the work...just to make sure you know.

There is no need to use drugs. Realizations, Truth, enlightenment and the state of bliss can all be attained the drug free way by working hard on yourself and staying on the spiritual path, being aware and meditating, sharing love with others and loving yourself. Don't let anyone pressure you into stuff that you geniunly do not want to do. There may be a good reason for your feelings.

That's the whole point. I did in no way attack the guy or his work, I just had a good laugh and wanted to share this. The way in which he replies to comments is ultra chill and light hearted, especially to all those Leo comments, which I really appreciate.

The thumbnails, the backround, the topics...even the youtube header. From now on I have to check the thumbnail twice before I click on the video just to make sure I am watching the real @Leo Gura and not this fake old Leo. But wait a minute...maybe this is the real Leo from the future after he got enlightened. Or are psychedelics the secret to aging fast?

I once knew a person who loved it and always claimed this is the real deal. Personally, for me it seems like placebo at best. But hey, if it works, it works. You gotta try it out and actually see for yourself if it works or not.

Yes me mad. Also this Tried it, lost weight, suffered from hunger and energy problems and metabolism problems all the time, decided this can't be for me. Maybe for someone with a different body type and metabolism. I am too skinny for this shit and my metabolism is way too fast

Fake it till you make it, if you think you are fooling yourself keep fooling yourself until it becomes real. Also, you gotta do the work. Lots of stuff in life will not fall automaticly into your lap. You understand you have to put hard work and sometimes even force into things if you want to achieve something. Of course you can just sit down and do nothing and accept yourself, but that won't advance you and that won't make you detached. Instead you can sit down, accept yourself, then stand up again and actually do the hard work that you have to do to better yourself. And if you object with "When I accept myself, why do I need to work on myself?" Oh man...Leo got that covered in several videos. You can accept yourself and still become a better person for the well-being of all. A lot of things are natural, and like Leo said in a video: "What's natural is shit". Being full in my ego is natural to me, being fearful and scheming is natural to me, being lazy and eating unhealthy is natural to me. Doesn't mean it's good. Doesn't mean you don't have to better yourself.

It's a weird phenomena, so much people claiming all is illusion and a joke and nothing matters and stuff of the likes, but nobody ever would actually do something like this or something completely crazy or fucked up in general. I guess it's not so much only jokes and illusions after all eh?

There is no such thing like ego faking passion. If you have passion, then it's passion. Do it!

Not gonna lie, if you are into self development and you hang around here you can get all the advice for free and you can learn this stuff on your own. You can even become a life coach yourself. You realize a life coach just asks questions and you gotta figure it out yourself right? They rarely give advice. This site and all self-actualization stuff you will find is like a big life coach. If you are poor only hire a life coach if you are really struggling, because you will pay much cash for only short sessions like once a week. Here on this forum you can just post a question and get answers, you can get answers on youtube and everywhere on the internet. If you are rich, then you surely can try it out and see where it goes, no big deal for you. Edit: Nothing against life coaches. I want to become one myself.

For most people yes, if you are enlightened maybe not. But most relationships are built on selfish desires, because the ego wants to feel safe, it wants to have comfort, it wants to use people, it wants its needs met, it wants to trade and make business to achieve sth and so on. No need to lose trust in people because of this. It is in peoples nature, so forgive them. Forgive their ego, for they don't know what they are doing. They only want to survive and get the most out of life for themselves and they are running on autopilot. It's human. You as a wise man can be better tho, you can use relationships to spread love and make everyone feel better because they have come in contact with you. Without wanting anything back, you can be independend and completely detached. But please don't become a victim and a doormat and a people pleaser. Don't let people abuse you and leech off of you

Conscious choice and willpower. If detachment won't come natural for you, you need to practice it with your will. That means whatever feelings and needs arise, you gotta tell yourself you are detached and act this way. You must learn to not give a fuck. A lot of self-development work, relationship work and spiritual work must go into this for you to learn that attachment is bad. There is no quick way and a lot of stuff comes together to enable you to grasp this wisdom. But it's good you are here, so you can learn it. You have already taken the first step; you know that attachment is bad and you realize that detachment is the way to go. You did good, congratulations on that! You got farther than most people. You will learn that attachment ruins relationships and it makes you miserable, it creates suffering. By being detached you free yourself and you also free other people, it's a win-win situation. When you are detached you realize that no one can fulfill you but yourself and that you don't need anything or anyone in your life to be happy. Just don't have any expectations from anyone

Fav philosopher? Leo hands down. Who I relate most in life? Probably Leo too.

It is indeed. Can people use this skill to haunt you in your dreams? Like annoy you for purpose, so you won't forget about them or to unnerve you? Is there a way to protect your dreams from travelers? Also, how can you travel to other peoples dreams yourself?

Jesus Christ is supposed to live already among us (according to some prophecies...new age). Maybe it's Leo? lol... It may be Matt Kahn, or he hasn't shown himself yet. Not sure if we get a new ultra master to lead us or if an old one simply gets reborn. It's certainly an interesting time to live in, but stay alert my friend. Don't get blinded by new age bullshit and religious cult prophecies. It may, or may not be true what they teach.

This reminds me why I mostly reject modern society and dating

When your needs are not being met then why the hell are you in the relationship in the first place? So the other person can leech from you like a fucking parasite and use you? You still giving and trying to meet their needs while they don't care? No, this is not the way to go. If this happens then there is no need for a relationship. Also a lot of people have those needs, that's why relationships are formed in the first place. You will find that most relationships are shit and can be dropped. But there are still healthy relationships where you help each other grow and meet each others needs and both sides have a benefit. Those relationships are the ones you can keep. But as you advance in your development, you will soon find that even those relationships are an illusion and a distraction. You then see that no one can ever fulfill you or meet your needs but yourself. You then become free of the need for relationships, however you can still be in one or some, not because you need or want anything, but just because you enjoy being with someone and giving and helping them. You don't expect anything back. In that way you went full circle. But you also don't mind being without a relationship or even in complete solitude. I am not that advanced yet. If someone wants to be my friend or partner but they won't meet my needs and only use me for their own benefit or waste my time then they can go fuck themselves. If a thing doesn't make me or/and my life better, bigger and contributes to my well being, health, wealth and growth then I don't fucking need it. No matter if it's a person, a thing or an activity. Generally I don't see the point in relationships anymore and I stay alone most of the time. Nobody ever can meet all my needs or contribute so much to my life that I would say sacrificing my cash, time, mental and physical energy is worth it. It's not worth it, never was and never will be. It's merely an illusion. However, should I advance in my development I may return to relationships, but only to help people and give love, then I may not care anymore for my own benefit at all. This can be only possible when you are very advanced and have let go of your ego and you should not try this before you are this far. Just stay out of shitty relationships, get your needs met in healthy relationships and grow.

Come at me bro. Back in the days when I was in the gulag I murdered 20 inmates and 10 guards with my bare hands before I escaped. You wanna risk it bro? Edit: Nah I changed my mind, I'm too scared. Cheers

It's called mgtow and even though most of those man are indeed bitter, angry suffering drama queens and in generally broken and unpleasant, there is a lot of truth and wisdom in that philosophy to gain for a man. I agree with you on being a purple pill with a red glow, but you can also be completely red pill just without the hate and the bitterness.

Someone posted this yesterday As I read your question I immediatly thought of this. The perfect answer. RAW experience, pure living

tho music can be highly addicting and becoming a huge distraction and mind waster. I have had this