MsNobody

I see more and more people single nowadays (myself included) and would like to brainstorm the reasons and hear other people's opinion on the topic: One main reason that I can see as a woman is that before we would marry for survival and financial stability, but things have changed and there are many women making more money than men nowadays, before men could offer provision and protection with those needs being met they would have to offer more, like emotional intelligence etc and talking from my experience here ( I've been meeting many cave men lol, in the sense that they do almost no self development work) and I also think that as we got out of survival mode, our priorities independently of sexes have shifted from duty to self actualization, another thing I see is that we are becoming more and more diverse, we are becoming more and more complex, which makes it more difficult for us to be willing to bend and be flexible to commit to a relationship, like a piece of a puzzle (image below) you become so unique and eccentric that you don't really fit anywhere easily, I feel like an alien doing self actualization work cause the the circle of men Im interested in keeps getting smaller and smaller the more I work on myself. There is also technology in the mix and the paradox of choice, where we have so many options on dating apps that we don't even want to chose, finding a partner became way too difficult so we dont even bother. Another point is the unbalance between masculine and feminine energies, with feminism and "me too" movements men are kind of scared of being manly or approaching women, the pendulum swung to the the extreme and I see lots of my girl friends complaining of men being princesses. Lastly there is a huge decrease of religion belifs, less and less people see the sacredness of being in union, being in partnership is seen as a loss of time etc.

Sounds like something Donald Trump would say Is it going to be Sasha Shulgin style? Do we have a date already? We need to prepare!!

@Jowblob whopsss you just brought it up

@How to be wise I cant believe you saved this omggg I had forgotten what was written lol it was all so fast and it just disappeared, we had no time to apply but well I wouldn't qualify cause I have tattoos. Its surprising that Leo talks a lot about Eben Pagan's relationship, if you look closely to the work of Annie Lala (his wife) much of who Eben Pagan is was just because of his romantic relationship, but Leo is not really open to talking about love, his advice when it comes to relationships is contained in pick advice and totally directed to men, I think he low key hates women Here is a good talk from Annie if anyone is interested

okaaay now im feeling pretty uncomfortable hahaha thats some freak creep stuff to be saying dude, chill out, if you really felt me you would meet me where Im at instead of trying to bring me to where you are at. You are not adding to the discussion, you are just saying lets not discuss this cause only God in important, and where do you think God is at?

@Princess Arabia yes he said "we all die alone" instead of giving an honest answer about what he thinks about the subject, but if it was a young boiii asking for pick up advice he would write a bible lol

Loooove this Emerald! There is so much that only happens in person and dating apps took this away

The fish is the last to discover water

I also find it to be very suspicious, cause in reality enlightenment makes you enjoy life more, you enter life with full satisfaction and experience it through the eyes of a child, enlightened people don't seem to view human needs as shallow or something to be simply overcome disregarding the preciousness of IT.

@fabger yes its pretty concerning, another thing I've noticed (since im from brazil) is that the people having more children are the poor people, they dont even raise the children, they are just left by themselves to face the world, Im talking about 7 ~ 10 children per family in the slums. Conscious people are having less and less children, although Im hopeful about the future, the math doesn't add to bring us to a good future. That being said, if my parents really though too much about having me, I definitely wouldn't be here cause I came from one of those families too, and I think everything I went through was like a curriculum that shaped me to be where Im at, anyways the decline in birth rate is an interesting topic thank you for bringing it up.

@Jowblob You clearly haven't found God through sacred union and it shows lol to experience external union yes you need to have it first within yourself This POV is the same as saying God made a mistake creating the other. Negative side effects or relationships? We might as well kill ourselves since its all an illusion To transcend the game you gotta play the game well, not dissociate your way out of it, it's easy to be enlightened when you are alone in a cave, the real work is out there, being in close relationship with others is one of the best ways to have your wn stuff bubble up so you can address it.

@EternalForest I think you are pretty young, whatever you do at this age wont affect your body much, eating bad and not exercising is a perfect combination to die early, exercise is not only good for body weight, its also good for cellular renewal, bone density, muscle gain, mental health etc, if you eat fast food your whole life you will clog your arteries real fast lol better to have some long term thinking. As for porn I think you are being quite simplistic and seeing humans like chimps, which (I like to believe) its not the case

@Bjorn K Holmstrom yes dating apps are fairly new, I guess in the future it will definitely include more complexities to it. So much is missed in the virtual world that only in person connections can offer.

@Inliytened1 I think its a problem, but men cannot see it because society taught them to be hyper independent and we know the current situation of mens mental health as a result of that. Statistically speaking married or long-term partnered men live aprox 10 years longer than single men, they tend to commit less suicide, they are more successful, they are healthier, they have lower cortisol levels. Talking about humans in general, people with strong social and romantic connections have a 50% higher likelihood of survival when compared to those who were isolated or single. The worst thing you can do to a human is to put him/her in solitary confinement, it's funny how little effort men put into relationships given the data. Maybe Im a hopeless romantic but I think there is so much value in having a sacred union, a supportive partner, to help each other grow through life, there is a lot os goodness that was discarded with religion, we threw the baby with the bath water and now wee qre ll suffering in silence and dont even know why.

@How to be wise I dont think its much an issue with procreation itself, sexual energy goes beyond sexuality, it's raw creation energy, if you are not horny you are not healthy, and not only horny in the sexual sense, but a deep desire to live life, to go out there ad build something. I believe this is missing in the new generation. Also the majority of men dont take care of themselves, dont exercise, dont do routine blood tests, eat lots of fast food, or food in plastic containers, burn their dopamine pathways watching porn, you would think that only men that are older have low T, but its a general problem.

@Schizophonia yes I believe we are going through a loneliness epidemic right now, and it definitely doesn't affect only romantic relationships. Social media creates a false sense of connection and we are left with an emptiness. Wee can only grow in relation to others, if we were alone in an island we would become savages, there is a reason why stage yellow grows where there is more people and diversity, its where all the mix of cultures happen, and like the bacteria in our stomach that needs a big range of different foods to be healthy, humans need exposure to experiences and connection with other humans to perfect itself, to mirror back.

@Leo Gura don’t pretend you don’t care about being in a romantic relationship, I still remember the post you made about finding a gf 😌 Being in denial doesn’t help much, if we were all one we wouldn’t be having this experience in different bodies.

@How to be wise oh yes I totally forgot to mention low testosterone!

@How to be wise He hasn't aged, he has matured** first videos from 10 years ago were recorded by baby Leo, I dont think he looks old at all, your comments are always a lil mean.

I totally agree, whenever the world gets too crazy I come here to ground myself. This forum brings me sanity and the people here are true gems, I've met many in person, some of them have trip sat me through some of the most intense moments of my life, I traveled physically and out of reality with others, it's been 10 years that I found Leo and I always come back, it's like an anchor, a point zero, a place I come before going on another trip, another phase of my life, and like Natasha said, people joke here a lot but all the fuckery aside, most people here value Truth and end up goin back to self and contemplation. That being said I feel like I need to be more present here cause its a wild world out there right now. Thank you Leo I really appreciate your work, your mere existence creates a chain of positive events in the lives of everyone who is touched by your work, insights and love.

Yes first time I took I was sleeping so well and woking up super rested!! Now its part of my sleep stack, Magnesium Theanine L-Threonate Apigenin + Glycine + Mag Glycinate, I dont wake up at night anymore and if I wake up I go to back to sleep easily. My sleep game has totally changed after that, I started supplementing because my Oura ring was showing interruptions in my sleep. That being said I take little, if I take two pills of Glycine which equals 1g the next day I wake up feeling groggy and super slow, my eyes dont really want to open, so taking 2g would probably be terrible. Makes sense you feel this way

I will be there for sure!!!

@Natasha Tori Maru 🤣 do you work in engineering? Loved your analogy. he is so full of bs, I remember when he had a car accident, he romanticized the shit out of the accident, in any moment occurred to him that maybe it was the universe trying to shake him to wake up. I did watch his videos in the past tho, so I start questioning my discernment, the masks of so many people are falling, can’t trust anyone. I haven’t even been watching any YouTube videos lately. Also so crazy the extent he goes to justify his bs, it seems like spirituality makes the individual more complex and thus more capable of embellishing his self deception, really throwing some glitter on shit 💩

@Husseinisdoingfine what’s happening here lol I always wondered why the best sex of their lives (for men) is always a one night stand/ random woman, and for women is always their most profound relationship.