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Ive been contemplating why people do what they do and got to the conclusion that many people who do really evil things actually think they are doing a favor to humanity, is this just because they are lazy to think and its easier to conform? Does real evil exists? Are people aware of the evil they are creating? It's just so crazy cause it appears that the more evil they are the more blind they get, cause the further you go the more difficult it is to come back to your senses. I believe evil is just unconsciousness, a lack of God realization but would love to hear what you think

I came across this test a year ago and it’s helped me understand myself more. I was quite shocked with my results actually lol I feel like BDSM explores a whole new area of the unknown terrains within my mind. https://bdsmtest.org/select-language BDSM and tantra are two main things that helped me tremendously in unlocking my sexuality and my body. That’s why I love the work of Osho, he was one of the few spiritual gurus that spoke openly about sex and the wisdom of the body, without blaming or shaming it. Some quotes from him: "That's why orgasm is becoming more and more difficult. Ejaculation is not orgasm, to give birth to children is not orgasmic. Orgasm is the involvement of the total body: mind, body, soul, all together. You vibrate, your whole being vibrates, from the toes to the head. You are no longer in control; existence has taken possession of you and you don't know who you are. It is like a madness, it is like a sleep, it is like meditation, it is like death." So really it happens that the more sexual a person is, the more inventive he can be. The more sexual a person is, the more intelligent. With less sex energy, less intelligence exists; with more sexual energy, more intelligence, because sex is a deep search to uncover, not only bodies, not only the opposite sex body, but everything that is hidden."

@How to be wise probably 10 or 15 min, there isa. short and long version of the test

@Natasha Tori Maru I think in bed we try to compensate and experience the other side of the polarity. You did score each one of them tho, there isn't any that equals zero, but I did think your results would be crazier (with all due respect) I love reading your posts here and you have a very nuanced and complex mind, thank you for sharing your results

@NewKidOnTheBlock yet, here you are from thousand of topics in the forum you thought: "let me check this one cause it looks InTerEsTing.." "let me show how sUpErioR I am by telling them they are doing PeAsAnT things" "Enough for me to not take it sErIoUSly but here is where I decide to invest my time" lol gotta love the haters

@Schizophonia men in Brazil hug and kiss on the cheeks too, there is no male loneliness the nickname game is dark and strong I miss that about Brazil, we would all hangout to do nothing together, here its very formal, you need a reason and a time to meet, whenever I see my girlfriends I slap their ass, we are very touchy and roast each other like crazy, call each other cu** etc, if I do this here I will go to jail lol

@Salvijus I was just laughing because it's true lol

@aurum wonder what you are hiding lol I think you are a brat tamer

@NewKidOnTheBlock I bet you would score everything lol

@Emerald that's super interesting, thank you for sharing your results Emerald!! I took a Shibari class once and a woman tied me up and I tied her up, it was so profound I noticed that since leaving Brazil the only people I touched were romantic partners, I didnt even know what PDA was lol Im not bisexual but in Brazil when we are hanging out with girlfriends we are always holding each others arms and braids each other hairs.. the class made me remember the importance of touch. So about the shibari class, there more women there than men (the few men were gays or were there with their female partners) and all the women were talking about how they have a deep desire to be tied up to fully surrender and "relax" which I believe is theresult of the unbalance and push back of extreme feminism, I have so many really strong women around me that also super submissive and you wouldnt say it cause they are extremely independent etc, I guess we try to balance things out in bed.

@UnbornTao 🤣 @aurum @Emerald curious to see your results!!

@Schizophonia I know how it feels cause Im a sub a lot of men mistake me for a dominatrix, not sure why lol Its rare to find dominant men, specially here in the bay area

The more religious background, the higher the scores lol

@Schizophonia that’s interesting, usually either dom or sub is high, but you have both

@Salvijus my goodness you scored all of them lol

I see more and more people single nowadays (myself included) and would like to brainstorm the reasons and hear other people's opinion on the topic: One main reason that I can see as a woman is that before we would marry for survival and financial stability, but things have changed and there are many women making more money than men nowadays, before men could offer provision and protection with those needs being met they would have to offer more, like emotional intelligence etc and talking from my experience here ( I've been meeting many cave men lol, in the sense that they do almost no self development work) and I also think that as we got out of survival mode, our priorities independently of sexes have shifted from duty to self actualization, another thing I see is that we are becoming more and more diverse, we are becoming more and more complex, which makes it more difficult for us to be willing to bend and be flexible to commit to a relationship, like a piece of a puzzle (image below) you become so unique and eccentric that you don't really fit anywhere easily, I feel like an alien doing self actualization work cause the the circle of men Im interested in keeps getting smaller and smaller the more I work on myself. There is also technology in the mix and the paradox of choice, where we have so many options on dating apps that we don't even want to chose, finding a partner became way too difficult so we dont even bother. Another point is the unbalance between masculine and feminine energies, with feminism and "me too" movements men are kind of scared of being manly or approaching women, the pendulum swung to the the extreme and I see lots of my girl friends complaining of men being princesses. Lastly there is a huge decrease of religion belifs, less and less people see the sacredness of being in union, being in partnership is seen as a loss of time etc.

Sounds like something Donald Trump would say Is it going to be Sasha Shulgin style? Do we have a date already? We need to prepare!!

@Jowblob whopsss you just brought it up

@How to be wise I cant believe you saved this omggg I had forgotten what was written lol it was all so fast and it just disappeared, we had no time to apply but well I wouldn't qualify cause I have tattoos. Its surprising that Leo talks a lot about Eben Pagan's relationship, if you look closely to the work of Annie Lala (his wife) much of who Eben Pagan is was just because of his romantic relationship, but Leo is not really open to talking about love, his advice when it comes to relationships is contained in pick advice and totally directed to men, I think he low key hates women Here is a good talk from Annie if anyone is interested

okaaay now im feeling pretty uncomfortable hahaha thats some freak creep stuff to be saying dude, chill out, if you really felt me you would meet me where Im at instead of trying to bring me to where you are at. You are not adding to the discussion, you are just saying lets not discuss this cause only God in important, and where do you think God is at?

@Princess Arabia yes he said "we all die alone" instead of giving an honest answer about what he thinks about the subject, but if it was a young boiii asking for pick up advice he would write a bible lol

Loooove this Emerald! There is so much that only happens in person and dating apps took this away

The fish is the last to discover water

I also find it to be very suspicious, cause in reality enlightenment makes you enjoy life more, you enter life with full satisfaction and experience it through the eyes of a child, enlightened people don't seem to view human needs as shallow or something to be simply overcome disregarding the preciousness of IT.