Annoynymous

@Leo Gura 1. I live in a third world country. I feel miserable with people around me. I mostly think of myself as green person and i get critisized judged and rediculed by people. Many times i feel confused about myself after hearing them. I get emotionally irritated and triggered. It becomes a massive roadblock in my journey of personal development. Do you have any advice for me? 2. Assesment about myself in terms of SP gets tricky for me. Sometimes i feel i am overrated and underrated by myself when i try to figure out where i am in terms of sp. What to do with that to reduce my confusion? 3. Its not a question, but gratitude for you. You have opened a way through actualized.org for those of us who are questioning literally everything for decades. Thank you dear leo and looking forward to your spiral dynamics application video. And thanks a lot

What is self fulfilling prophecy? How does it work?

What do you think about interest? Different people tends to have different interest? Why they have "different" interest? What motivates one to be interested in a certain thing and uninterested in others?

Is relationship essential? What is the true purpose of relationship? How can one develop more conscious relationship? Sometimes relationship brings emotional turmoils. How to deal with those?

@winterknight What are your views on human relationships?

What is the relationship between ones income and his/her relation with other people? Many says that those who have big income and lives a fancy lifestyle his/her rltn goes pretty well with people. Like they are respected and loved. If the same person's income goes down, his/her existing rltn starts to change in a negative way. Anyone has any perspective on this?

@winterknight what is the difference between intellecualization and actuality?

@Joseph Maynor Thank you for sharing such valuable informations

@Mezanti Thank you@Joseph Maynor I think he will in the future.

@winterknight whag can be achieved through breathing properly? Some people says breathing can be a way to have access to spiritual truth, is it true?

@winterknight Why give up and letting go are two important components of spiritual seeking?

@K VIL I think these self fulfilling prophecies come in a repititive manner. I can almost caught myself 100 times a day thinking ' I am not good enough'. This becomes hard to ignore and as a result, most of the time i become anxious sad and depressed.

@K VIL I asked because often time i find myself in a position where i predict something negative about myself and more often they become true. I have some limiting belief about myself that i am not good enough, i don't deserve a girl to be my gf and so on. I don't know whether these are self fulfilling prophecies or not. If those are self fulfilling prophecies, how to break out of those?

@winterknight what do you think of rationality and logical thinking? What are the positive side and limitation of of rationality and logical thinking?

@winterknight i often find myself in a position when i ask too many questions to myself of which i dont have answers. In my mind i try to answer those but in the end most often those answers arent satisfying to me. It feels like paradox and i discover myself as confused. What do u have say on this matter?

@winterknight do you feel irritated while answering so many question? I can feel unease in myself while asking you because it feels like i am asking a lot of questions tirelessly. In fact, i imazing myself as a child who asks stupid questions to adults! Although to me the questions are important....

@winterknightwhat is addiction? Why do we become addicted?

@winterknight there are certain areas in my life, i don't feel like doing a thing. But at first when i chose to do it, i was happy. in fact i feel irritation now doing those thing. I find myself in a position where i can't stop doing those things and it brings misery and sufferings. What is your suggestion?

@Anirban657 I can feel for you brother. Just hang on. You will solve your problem by yourself regardless who is doing what. You will be fine. A lot of love for you

@winterknight if enlightenment doesn't make one productive of efficient, what is the point of attaining it? Isn't there any benefit at all?

@winterknight Why calmness of the mind necessary for self inquiry?

@winterknight what is the benefit of meditation? Why meditation is advised to spiritual seekers? How does it help?

@winterknight If i find out my true desire, should i pursue that? Will it be good for me?

@winterknight My negative emotion leads me to do things that i dont wanna do, but in most cases i do it anyway. Even if i don't do it, i feel heavy irritation inside. I feel like i am being restraint. What can be done in this case?

@winterknight thank you for your answer. I would like to ask you another question. You talked about jealousy. It is usually labelled as negative emotion. Whenever i feel these sort of emotion like anger greed jealousy anxiety, i usually find myself in a difficult position to act according to it. For example, whenever i tend to be depressed, i smoke a lot. So how can i experience such negative emotions without acting on it impulsively? And why it is important to experience negative emotions at the very first place?