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@Rilles What is psychodrama?

@purerogue don't you think in some situation we are really victim and we find it difficult to change our situation?

@Emerald I sometimes feel that I don't understand feminine. I don't understand why some girls do what they do and find them illogical. For example, a girl who is attracted to me tends to complain a lot and always keep nagging about things. I find it difficult and very hard to cope with. Sometimes I get confused and think its going well, so why she is complaining? and the very same day she seemed to be completelyyl fine, which puts me in a puzzling situation. I kept wondering about her complains and the very next day she seemed to be okay as if nothing happened! most of the times it stresses me out. what is your thinking on that?

I want to know about what ego backlash is, how does it work and is it a normal thing or harmful? Thank you in advance

@TheAvatarState so my work is to observe and nothing else? What about the consequences that i face because of ego backlash? Can't it be solved with some method?

@Adam M Thank you for your insight. I have another question. Suppose if you try to make another person to accept the validity of ur point of view, and they at first seems to accept it with confusion but later reacts negatively and blames you and continue with their own Point of view, can it also be ego backlash?

Which truth are you talking about? Relative or absolute?

@SoonHei I do not choose thoughts/action. But i have to be responsible for the consequence of my thought/action. How would you define that?

People here all the time talks about fear, how it is helding us back, how it is an illusion etc. But what fear actually is essentially? And how to dissolve or overcomw fear? Thank you in advance.

@non_nothing no

@Preetom Thank you for sharing your insights. Btw can you tell the name of echart's book?

@Preetom when i feel, i don't rationalize or i just cant rationalize. That is the way it is for me. Uncomfortable feeling comes, and i become agitated. I dont have on/off button. It happens in auto mode.

@non_nothing if i had magic wand that i would have used it to erase all the events that happened in the past which brought undesirable outcomes in my life and i would change them in accordance with my desireable outcome. In present, i would use the wand to stop happening those circumstances which make me feel weak, unwanted, unlovable, worthless piece of shit.

@winterknight do you think crying can change our psychological state in a positive way? Whenever i cry, i feel lighter, feels like a heavy burden that resided within me has been removed.

@non_nothing i have done it. Then?

@Black Elephant how can it be used for self actualization?

So how to overcome fear guys? It is crippling me

@Leo Gura if enlightenment doesnt make me developed, why pursue enlightenment? If development and enlightenment both necessary, which one to pursue first?

@now is forever @Leo Gura they are consistently communicating, but i am confused about following them or not. Many times i follow them, many time i suppress.

@Leo Gura I am very confused about my emotions. When an emotion arise, i feel the pull like it is trying to make me do something. On other word, it is trying to send message to me. In this case i become very confused. Should i follow it and do whatever it is telling me to do? Or should i ignore it? What is your insight about this?

I was and am thinking about having a mystical experience, because i think it will lift me up from my suffering and i deeply want that. I was thinking about how to get that experience. Today at 3:00 pm, i fell asleep for a while. I was having some weird dreams. Although i do not fully remember them. But there are some things that i remember which draw attention of my curious mind. I saw in dream that i was deeply wanting to have mystical experience. Suddenly the place where i was sleeping began to move right to left and i feel dizzy. I thought in my dreams i am loosing my mind. After that i felt that something inside of me telling me that you will now begin with your mystical experience. Suddenly in my dream everything was stopped and i could hear a deep bothering sound. That sound was getting louder and my heart began to beat faster. I was losing my mind and i felt joy that the experience is about to begin.... But when it started to go deeper i felt resistance and i somehow also felt that the resistance was coming within me. I was like nooooooooo please dont stop the experience, but it stopped anyway and i was awake. What do you think about it guys? Feel free to share your perspective.

@Leo Gura i had a mystical experience in my life when i didnt even have meditation practice, self inquiry etc spiritual work. But at that time i was suffering deeply in my life. Now as you recommended a lot of time to have psychedelics, i tried to find those substance. But unfortunately where i live, psychedelics are not available and very very rare to find. My question is, if i build up meditation practice and shamanic breathing, will i be able to get mystical experience? As it happened to me in the past without any spritual work. Well i would like to mention then, from my early childhood i would question everything and even in my adult life, i tend to be very confused and not finding any absolute truth which was bothering me. Then mystical experience happened.

@winterknight i have found a good psychologist and planning to go to him soon. You had suggested to chant OM 64 times. I started to do it, felt like bullshit but slowly it felt good. It is calming my mind slowly. You had also suggested fo express my feeling through writing and discussing elaborately. I have also started to do it. When i do that, i become more emotional at first, but gradually it feels good. Though the progress is slow. I have got one questiom for you. Are Phychological issues barrier for spiritual growth?

Leo had said someting like that "human rational linear mind can not get to understand nonlinear system". I am not clear about the concept linear and non linear. What are they? How these both function? Is it possible ever to understand non linear dynamics? @Leo Gura @Emerald

What is desire? Is it ok to pursue our desire? Can it possibly bring misery or happiness into our lives?