Annoynymous

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  1. Thoughts on Orgasm it is almost an established fact that women have been sexually repressed by patriarchal society for many centuries. It was only 50-60 years ago when feminist movement and 1960s green revolution took place thus women started to express their full sexual potential. It was a good start but i think it's a long way to go for them. Sexual repression does not mean loss of ability. It has been scientifically shown that a woman's vagina has got more nerve ending than man and therefore they are capable of multiple orgasm through penetrative sex, stimulation of clitoris etc. It is also shown then some women can have orgasm even by touching their nipples! It's amazing how they can be multi orgasmic. But for men, orgasm's been a series of disappointment. I wonder why this topic is so undervalued by society. I think we have mixed up the concept with sexual oppressor and sexually able. Men were the oppressor, but that doesn't make them same as capable as women. There are several books on multi orgasm for men. But i doubt if these books are scientifically proven like in case for women. Thus orgasm for men boils down to explode of sperm. But is it really serving them? I think not. Both men and women suffer from man's incapable of multi orgasm. Men who are seeking orgasm by ejaculation can not last long in bed, thus making their orgasm shorter and succumbing into limbo due to it. Yeah, according to taoism, men can also be multi orgasmic and i have discovered it for myself. But i wonder how many man knows about it and how many of them who knows are willing to follow it. In my experience, i assume that it would take at least 2-5 years to fully master taoist sexual practice and become multi orgasmic. One has to practice zen like. For me, i am not sure whether i could do that or not. But pursuing it is not only tough but also matter of delicate balance. It's a paradox. I will write about it later.
  2. @Arcangelo if you wanna rely on fortune teller, go for it. I don't know about astrology, but i think it's essential to discuss policies and systematic changes when it comes to politics.
  3. I think it will be to fast to predict the outcome of 2020 election. Much more thing to happen. Election is not about low vs high conscious. It's more about majority. If 51% of the people decides to vote for trump then he will get elected, no matter how low conscious and evil he may seem. I think the election system needs to be changed. Majority rule is not always rule of just. We have seen many governments in many countries where evil people got elected and did a lot of vile things including committing atrocities against humanity. On the other hand, people's consciousness is reflected by the leader they elect. From that point of view, i am not sure whether we are ready for systematic change in electoral process.
  4. @modmyth yet it happens most of the time. I think it can be related to being judged or get rejected by a person. If you ask someone if they would have sex with you without commitment, chances are you will fear that they will reject/judge you. I think men can ask it from time to time. But for women, i think they would never ask someone to have sex with them just to have sex. They do not like to be seen like that by others. But would they like to have sex without commitment? I think many would. But they won't tell anyone about it because of "slut-shaming" by men/society.
  5. Sex and Fantasy I think sex and fantasy goes hand to hand. Now a days, i try to explore my sexuality through fantasizing, not by seeing porn and other sexual stuff. It amazes me that sometimes fantasy can turn me on more than porn or masterbation. It feels like i am on the rise, although i am not sure where exactly am i rising. It feels like an elevation. I have also tried to massage my penis with oil or lotion but at the same time not ejaculate ( i have been trying to explore this domain for a while), while doing it, i had some amazing orgasmic experience which i don't remember having by ejaculation at all. It felt so good and my whole body shaked for a short period of time. It was, in a sense, very painful also. It felt like trying to do something and at the same time trying not to do it. It is like a paradox. When i massage the oil on my penis, it becomes more sensitive and slippery. So when i was rubbing it through my hand, i was going into a alternative state, felt like a vibrational force which rapidly builds up. I was aware that if i build that force too much, i will ejaculate and all would be lost. But if i go too slow on rubbing, then the force will wane and the feeling would be gone. So it was a process of delicate balance. You can not do too little or too much. I have seen ejaculation causing dreadful numbing feeling. It's like death. On the other hand, oiling the penis and rubbing it was giving me orgasm, which felt like life. But to balance between both? I think it is called Mastery. I know that i may have tasted it here and there, but never have actualized it. I failed a lot. In that process, i have overdone it many times, expected a lot but got disappointed by burst of semen out of my penis even though i did not expect it. And it feels worse than normal day mastbation when it happens, it feels like a failure. Maybe this explains why most men can not hold themselves not to ejaculate. Because it's really tough. One has to have a lot of motivation to pursue it. One need to give a lot of effort. If a person can achieve it, then metaphorically, he becomes a superman. I think it has also got connection with emotional and psychological state of a person. I will write about it in the future.
  6. Things that i like about Sex : # i find woman's breast very fascinating. I like round shaped brest (i am not judging anyone as ugly, just stating my preference). I am also fascinated by different colour of nipples. It's indeed, beautiful. # I would like to pleasure a woman before pleasuring myself while engage in sex. Satisfying them by giving 3-4 hard orgasm will satisfy me more. # I like to see naval piercing on a woman. It almost all the time turns me on. # i like women who have higher sex drive and those who express their sexuality quite openly. # in terms of sexual position, i like doggy style, missionary and women on top. I think these three approaches are three different artistic expression which represents energies like domination, union and submission.
  7. Sex expectations (?!) Well, to me, sex is like animalistic. I think one do not need to draw a connection between love & sex, although there can be sex with love and sex without love. But to me, no sex is without "love". One can find love in animalistic sex but it won't be same as " traditional notion of love". Sometimes i feel sex is over rated, but in other times i feel it is absolutely necessary. I think there is a period for every man who is high and low on hormones from time to time. I do not like sex with commitments. It's like being dishonest. If i want sex, then i want sex, not commitment. But if i pursue commitment in order to have sex then that seems quite unethical to me. But this things are happening. Many are pursuing so called "love" when they are naming it like that just to have sex. I think by playing all these tricks here and there makes sex over rated. What if one have sex with a girl without these rubbish deception? Wouldn't the situation then be less complicated? Well, it can be true for many man, but i think it isn't largely true for women. They want commitment before sex (this is although a generalization) , therefore the situation becomes conflictual in nature. Men want sex Women want commitment before sex So men give commitment in order to have sex. This dynamics leaves a lot of room for deception and "playing games".
  8. @Raptorsin7 thank you for advising
  9. They were defeated yesterday. Torries claimed the majority with a landslide victory. Corbyn to step down. What went wrong with labour and its policies?
  10. @whoareyou you wanna call for left wing bias, then go for it. Understand the FACT that no one is without bias. What Leo said about right wing propaganda is right. You are arguing unreasonably.
  11. @Key Elements dealing with blue is one thing and try to bring changes in them is another. As i live in an area which is predominantly blue, i know it is not hard to deal with them. But to change them? Lol. I have to have willingness to die if i try to do that in south asia But it is possible if i encounter them in progressive areas like the west.
  12. @Key Elements i think you are over generalizing. Obviously not every people in China are at stage Blue. You can find several stages. But most of them are stage blue. As i said earlier, those who have migrated in the states will be more open minded and conscious. Also you have to understand when these people enter the states they are bombarded with new reality which can feel like a lot at a time. So if you wanna teach them something new, take it slow. Obviously they are gonna resist, but slowly with enough exposure to new environment, they will start accepting and understanding.
  13. @Key Elements well i was assuming the you are from US or atleast living in the states now.
  14. If someone is visiting the US from China, then there is a fair chance that the person is willing to embrace some degrees of change. If you meet one like that, it will be quite easy for you to bring some changes in them. Do what you would call "normal" in your county. For example, it is easy for you as a us citizen to critisize the president openly. But a Chinese people can not even think of it doing in their country. So he/she will get the idea of freedom of speech. You can do a lot of things to teach them. Most chinese people are at stage blue. You can expose them to corss cultural communities and how they live harmoniously with each other. I bet it will be a foreign and eye opening experience for them. These are a few examples. You can do a lot more than that. You have to understand that situations in China is lot worse than the west. Even the most conservative person in your country will be assumed as liberal in China. In terms of you going to China and bring changes, i will say don't even think of doing that. I repeat, just don't. If you go there and introduce progressive ideas to people, chances are high that you will be detained by the authority and if you are lucky, then they would let you return to your country. Otherwise it can go worse than your worst nightmares. They want compliance with their authoritarian structure. They won't stand a bit of deviant from that and they can be very very brutal.
  15. changing anybody does not work if they don't show willingness to change. China and DPRK are shitholes. They literally indoctrinates people. People don't have any real freedom. Everthing gets censored. I have read or watched somewhere that people of China finds it hard to look another person into their eyes. Most of them have got self esteem issues. So you can assume how deep their state's shit system goes as it is effecting their people's self confidence.
  16. Is it authentic and worthwhile motivation to pursue truth to escape suffering?
  17. @Leo Gura maybe it will hit as much rock bottem as trump getting reelected. Or progressives like Bernie or Warren getting elected. Do you thing if one of them gets elected then america is gonna become la la land within days? I thing not. Even that's the case, right wing base is gonna resist them like hell. They hate them more than obama.
  18. Yeah it can be. But then again, i believe a leader like trump is quite lagging behind the overall consciousness of American people
  19. i have never seen any other US president act so out of line with the country's norm and culture. He seems quite barbaric. It makes me wonder how a person like him could get elected as president in the first place of a civil country like the US.
  20. Well i don't know whether the suffering could be escaped entirely or not. I am although sure of a thing that the no 1 thing that is currently motivating me to pursue enlightenment and truth is suffering. I think surival is suffering. It can't be done without suffering through it. Thus pain becomes our unwanted companion and we become clueless of what to do with it. Then suddenly one day you find something deeper than survival and journey towards that happen.
  21. I am 24 years Old. Virgin. Never had real relationships but 2 romantic catchups which did not went very well. I am thinking about whether i should go and talk with girls and eventually be in a rltnship but there are some other issues. That is not important here. I will discuss about my views and feelings around sexuality and sex
  22. I had a mystical experience few years ago. I was amazed. My head was over the hill. I enjoyed a lot. After that, i had a couple of months going really very good. I thought my life was getting straight. But then again, i was fucked up. I did not expect that. Now i again seek for that mystical experience. But no matter how much i think about it, i can not attain it. Then i ask myself, why am i seeking it? I think i seek that because i want to feel straight again, without anxiety, worry, depression, trauma, low self esteem and so on. Is it right to seek enlightenment for those reason? Leo said many times that enlightenment does not necessarily mean that one can be straight like that. So if i can not get rid of those issues by enlightenment, why pursue it at all?
  23. @remember i got your point bro. I am all for progressivism, just being a bit worried though
  24. @remember Corbyn was way more progressive if you look at his proposed domectic policies. However, he had blown his chance when he refused to take a clear position on Brexit. Scotland voted overwhelmingly for SNP, but that does not mean they voted for Independence. The last referendum took place only five years ago and they were against of independence by a big margin. Nevertheless, still the situation is now changed and even if Corbyn has lost, SNP leader will be trying to get another referendum. So scotts leaving the UK is not out of the table yet. I think Corbyn lost for the Brexit issue, but his domestic policies were excellent. I fear for the US democrats too, because they are bringing freshness on the table but i am not sure if the majority of the US people are gonna buy that or not. We might not wanna see the same happening for dems as it happened for labour.
  25. @Leo Gura might wanna see that BBC News - Will UK provide light bulb moment for US Democrats? https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-50785442