Anders Saether

Here’s an interesting thought experiment: What would happen if koalas got infected with a virus making them as intelligent as us humans? How would Koala-intelligence look like? How would their societies function? Would they use their new found ability in a peacefull way, or vage war on their human oppressors? Would humanity even stand a chance? Discuss

Hi, first of all, I don’t hold any jugdement on those who choose to have sex before marraige. I’m simply saying, it doesn’t work for me. For me sex is too intimate to be had casualy and without devolping a strong bond with the person I’m having sex with, that’s how it is for me personally. That said, I still want to persue women in order to find the one that’s right for me, who I can marry and form a happy family with. So I’m curious if someone here is in the same straits, persuing women for marraige. Having persued women in a sexual way before, how do I now game without prospects of premarital sex? Some good advice on this would be helpful.

@Leo Gura With all due respect Leo, you are a wise man, and I agree with your thinking on many things. On this topic however, we just seem to come from two different POV. On that brainwhashing thing we just seem to have to agree to disagree. For me it’s more like a understanding I have gotten to in my older days, after sleeping with girls, getting attached to them after sex, for them to later leave, often never seeing them again, and when I did see them again, it was akward and sad exactly because we had slept together. I’ve been thinking on it for a long time concluding that I get really emotionally and intematally attached during sex, and that that’s natural, and for me having sex casually with a lot of people, will end up breaking my heart, and making me numb to it. I think if I were to have sex with a lot of people, yes, then sex would not be a big thing anymore, and I would value it less. That’s not what I want however. I do however beleive that sex in a life long partnership with mutal respect and trust, which both share the same spiritual foundation and intimacy, will be the best sex both for me and for my significant other. It seems you are saying that waiting for sex until marraige is devoiding me of essential experience needed in a relationship. That might be true, but there are other importaint type of abilities one can train up, like leadership skills, social skills, fitness, verbal skills etc. that will be of at least as much importaince. It’s not like I’m going to do nothing. I will be activly persuing women anyways, cold approaching, social circle, building a solid social media profile, and building up many importaint skills along the way. You also seem to say that a girl is going to leave me when she knows I’m going to wait with sex, I’m not certain if this is something you have experienced yourself Leo or if it’s something you asume. But let’s say that often is the case. Anyways, I will always be screening heavly for this with girls I’m dating. This will be something the girls will know allready on first or second date. I will probably have more than my fair share of girls rejecting me for this, but I only need one, and that’s good enough for me. I have time, I can even move to a more conservative area if I need to, I’ll give it 5 years, if I haven’t managed to find my significant other until then, I might reconsider. I understand I might go into uncharted territory here and will have to discover things for myself as I move along. Anyways, still apriciate your other advice on dating, even if we happen to disagree on this other point Leo. Anyways still open to advice from others on how to do game without sex before marraige.

Thanks for the Video @Raze Interesting video. Luckily/Unluckily my values are kind of inbetween somewhere being liberal and conservative. There no issue for me valuewise, going up to a woman starting a converstaion with her, giving her non-sexual compliments, telling jokes, giving hugs, holding hands etc, stuff I can do with any close friend of mine. Though kisses and sex, are too intemate for me to be done outside of a holy promise to be together…yes forever. So i can definatly bring a lot to the table to many women and many women are definatly still interested in getting married. My question spesifically is what I can do that will make them feel that marraige is worth the wait, without resorting to sex and kisses. So what can be done with that?

Hi, I have been going to malls to learn how to talk with girls. My biggest sticking point is ocational paranoid thoughts about the guards «finding out» or thoughts about girls rapporting to them, getting me kicked out. This has so far never happened in my history of doing pick up. But it’s still a thought that haunts me, stopping me alot of the times to walk up to girls I’m interested in. Contributing to this is a lack of knowledge on what triggers actions from the guards, and when does the girl rapport. Is it enough for someone to approach a girl when they don’t want to be approached, saying a missplaced sentence, and or body signal? Rules and laws in scandinavia where I live are very wide and vague. So I have the impression that I’m walking in a gray area, on what exactly is legal and not. Thus I look on all that I do in game as something which can get rapported on and demand action from the guards. Someone please talk some sense on this.

Who knows why women has so many standars. Have a hard time understanding what’s the point of having unrealistic standards, if it hinders them from getting into a fulfilling relationship. As long as a man is not broke, keeps a good hygiene and is decently healthy, has decent social skills and takes care himself in general he should be good enough. Then the rest would come down to how she is feeling while their together and how much she trust him. And of course, it should go the other way around aswell. Hopefully gender roles traditional and modern ones will be gone in the future, and we won’t have this issue. A world without gender based expectations, where both females and males is free to take fulltime care of their children if they want, being a fulltime businessperson, what ever they want, and gender based prejuidice, males and females respecting each other for who they are independent of their gender and sex. Btw: Maybe some competion within female social groups can acount for their high standards? Would be interesting to have a female view if this is the case. Anyways, that’s my two cents on the matter. looking forward to get completally butchered in the comments, center perspectives tend to get a lot of shit, but I have to speak my mind, so be it.

@Leo Gura Will you be putting up future videos directly on actualized.org, if shit hits the fan regarding youtube in Europe?

@Anna Konstantaki @How to be wise @Truth @Nexeternity @Mahmoud Bishr Kebbeh @The White Belt @sweater @Joseph Maynor @Ape @Anna Konstantaki @How to be wise @Truth @Nexeternity @Mahmoud Bishr Kebbeh @The White Belt @sweater @Joseph Maynor @Ape Hi, here is a post from Leo that summarizes the enlightenment videos, it's under the Mediation category titled "a practical guide to enlightenment" scroll down and you'll find a videolist.

Reality is an inifinity loop, there are universes in the core of atomes? All reasoning is circular?

Hi, know I have writen a post about and sendt you an email about it. What are your opinion on the consequenses of removing net neutrality in the USA? This question might not be super related to this forum, but I still think it's very importain to reflect on. I personally believe that its removal could have huge consequences for this site.

On 22nd november it was the declared by the FCC (Federal Communications Commission) that all regulations regarding net neutrality would be lifted on 7th december , thus allowing the internet providers in USA to give internetusers different access to different content on the internet. This will mean that these companies could in theory "thruttle" certain sites, such as Actualized.org, this will mean slowing down internet speed on the site. Or in worst case block it all together. What are your thoughts about this? What do you think the remifications would be for people, in USA and other places? If you want to tell: What are you going to do about it before and after it happens? Stay calm and don't panic. https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/tech-news/backlash-building-over-plan-gut-net-neutrality-n823436

Who knows...

Post about car accident: Sep 16, 2017 03:05 PM PDT Car accident: Sep 16. 1:15 pm PDT 9 hours later: Leo's latest Comment/Post on actualized.org/forum about 13 hours ago: sep 16. about 10.00 pm Omg! The ghost of Leo can type! Or is there another explanation?...

Hello guys, let me present myself. For several years now, I have been feeling a sense of "lagging behind" and "falling through the cracks of society". Having always been different from other people, and never really fitting in, it has been both a curse and a blessing. I have used the majority of my life thinking and poundering about it, in stead of acctually living it. Though I found many answers to deep questions about meaning of life, existence and so on, I can't overlook how far "the others" have come in their life (Job, relationships, friends, habits, social-skills and cultural know-how), me being a great overthinker and a horrific underdoer, I went out to look for the answers on how to change this through all kinds of self-help material, but I very rearly practised anything of it. But, that being said, I feel some has slipped into my subconsious already making a tiny impact. The challange I've had the last couple of years is make a huge diffinitive change that could really stick, and impact the latter areas(getting a job, finding friends, social-skills, getting more productive at study, and finding a life purpose) so this is what this journal will be about. I'm currently studeing at university, though my motivation for studeing deminishes year by year, something has to be done. Feel free to comment, come with feedback, if something of this resonates with you. Sorry if, this entry is a bit back-and-forth, it was late when I wrote this, I may rewrite in future to clearify it if needed.

Aright, day two of my transformation. Decided a time ago to enroll for the university's student play. A bold decision and perhaps a bit risky one, considering the time it will take from my studies. So now there will we be rehearsal everyday for three weeks in row, that's one day done 20 more or so to go ;-). The rehearsals starts later in the afternoon, so I will get time to cram in my other studies. So back to the rehearsal today, allot of new faces, som old ones, think that the names will stick after a while. Don't mistake me, before it I felt pretty nervous, my heart was pumping, allot of negative thoughts in my head, and had some doubts about my abillity to perform, but almost all prooved wrong, expect a few blunders with glitchy scetches. So some lessons from today: What I did right: sang well, got into social flow and felt AMAZING in the end, got to known many new people. What I did wrong: had bad focus on the first few scetches, allot of negative thinking. What to do better tomorrow: Better focus, more positive thinking and speak despite feeling unsocial in order to gain social momentum faster. So that's all for today, let's see what tomorrow brings :-) As before, feel free to comment if anything of this resonated with you. Stay awsome ;-)

Thanks Sarah :-)

"Limitless" from 2011, shows what is possible if we improve ourselves. Eventhough the main character in the movie, gets his powers from a drug, it really is a strong metaphore for how much more importaint inner change is then outer. This is my favourite.