ValiantSalvatore
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@itachi uchiha It's understandable definitely worth contemplating for a year reading it I presume will make this process faster. In addition with meditation I presume it produces the most merit. A single book won't help also some of this stuff is nothing new. It's very good when you dabbled a bit into eastern mystecism, David Deida, Yin and Yang, as well as spiral dynamics. I listend to it so far 2 - 4 times it makes more sense now, it's a game changer in a sense, integration of the principles taught in the book is smth. entirely else, so I am still sort of in that process also, my headphones are gone , so can't currently listen to it till I have new ones.
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@Rilles They sort of adress these issues in the audiobook mentoning for instance how poverty programms to get the homless of the street do not seem to work, as well as other programms and how counter-intuitive approaches can work, for instance smth. simple such as less is more. They also talk about the second law of thermodynamics and entropy and some equation that is similar to the definition of how stream entry is achieved as well as how important virtue is and sort of the issues with green from my perspective and laissez-faire leadership it's very fun to listen to it. Nice post with the wicked problems gives me another synchronistic event today lol. The dao of systems thinking is freaking awesome def. recommend listening to it. Explains a lot of politics also lol.
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@Rilles Audiobook is very good would recommend. The intro to systems thinking audiobook is not so good. Did not read the physical book yet.
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ValiantSalvatore replied to Heinrich Faust's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Windappreciator It's hardcore in-group bias healthy green is good. The unhealthy nihilistic meme green is not very healthy. Also, judging people on the forum and calling them Oranges is not very healthy. In case you are interested in talking about details a dialoug is an option. I don't think debates will work lol. I don't think anyone has anything against Green bro. The main issue I see with green is what you post above it's to relativistic, to lenient, blind to differnces, everyone is equal which is from a bigger picture of yellow as well as meta-perspective to shallow. There are key principles to yellow thinking without making this an academic subject. Everyone is right (non-exclusion) Some are more right than others (enfoldment) If you want to do this do that (enactment) There are sure ways as how to get to yellow. So, in case you are interested in that you can practice it. I've done it for the recommended amount of time and I am quiet happy where I am at. It hurts more bothers less to be at higher stages. Yellow can build castles in the air and become impracticle and lost in theory as well as aborted self-actualizations are for instance yellow shadows. -
ValiantSalvatore replied to Heinrich Faust's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Heinrich Faust That is interesting I wonder why the authors of SD placed the countries so high on the index usually at 10% there is a tipping point for the society and lower stages adopt the values of the higher, yet the exercise them at their level. So, I don't fully know if 10% of the information elite is at yellow the country could already have some yellow hotspots as well as have adopted yellow values. I've never been to either of the two countries, so I don't know much about them. Most likely it is a positive guestimate. Anyway looking forward to the results of the votes ! -
ValiantSalvatore replied to Heinrich Faust's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Heinrich Faust I like all of the points above consciouness of the entire spiral is unfortunately unavailable in most people. Mostly the information elite and I am unsure who is that in Ger. Even if europe generally is above the U.S in terms of stages. Teal is yellow+ ! I know about Marx that he wanted to abolish all classes and saw the production means as the main instrument of class division and to give the workers more "capital" in the sense of giving them more access to the production goods. I can sort of see this as a stage orange as well as an green ideal to stop class division. Yet, self-actualizion is not there lol. As a core desire. The bigger picture I feel is Germany's sort of orange success based shadow and it's desire to hord ressources houses,cars,luxurious brands etc. Instead of proper strategic investment and creating opportunities for others to be successful too. They see hoarding as an absolute and survival is instantly threatend here. (Bias) Also, sort of this orange/Green as well as Green/orange consensus of wanting to be recognized as well as having success and enjoying personal freedom. Not caring for instance of the repercussions of consuming, supporting toxic companies and in general to much consensus of everything. Instead of admitting ones interests, few do that. An overall approach that leads people to self-actualizion is missing. As well as ressources invested into that. Fortunately Green is the stage where sprituality is accepted and more experience and being multi-cultural is accepted. I don't know why lol but I have seen more swedes in Germany now than before unsure if this is a sign for solid green. As SD already puts Germany as green without getting into details. IIRC Switzerland is supposed to be yellow. -
ValiantSalvatore replied to Heinrich Faust's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Windappreciator No. -
ValiantSalvatore replied to Heinrich Faust's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Heinrich Faust No, I can't effectively I talked to someone in a party who understands politics a bit more critically than me, so more to members who are working in the background and are interesterd in reforming. So I am being educated mostly. When I bring up integral stuff the person mostly agrees. Yet, there is no "real moderate" approach currently the morality line is quite green all are equal all lives are equal etc in most parties as well as there will be a bunch of emotional line shadow coming from academia. This is where I think mostly and I am going to be highly biased(also based on experiene) here LGBTQIA+ are more open about this I'd have to watch politics more, yet it really triggers some shadows especially red which I find is often also quite active in the far-left/leftist members. One reason why volt seemed interesting because this is about creativity.... and creating culture not hedonic decadence as well as proper sort of yellow understanding of building interests that are tailored to an individual from a multi-systemic point of view... More eudaimonia. I'd have to observe members more fully and research them in order to find a larger picture. Just please no Marx, I don't know how often that guy was misunderstood like how it was in Cambodia and Paul Pots. I don't know how you can concot such ideas lol. Reading a bit about anarchy gave me some good ideas why a local to global approach is not going to work. As well as going to Muesums etc. (Bolechevists etc.) Also, I do think that besides going into policy that the Green we have is quiet healthy and not the "meme" U.S Green so a proper LL dialouge can happen. As long as there are rules and there is mutual understanding, unfortunately you can't skip stages. Yet, according to research from and I gurantee I will not be able to find this is mostly from audiobooks and books from Wilber. You can't skip stages so a healthy and proper green with healthy and proper blue and some more healthy orange would help Germany a lot. Nothing new yet Baden-Wuerttemberg seems to be doing very well as a state and is a Black/Green state. Also, it's orange seems super healthy not like here in Rhineland-Platinate. I use the term moderate in the sense of sharing ressources so there is enough for everyone to build their own interests. At best without fluff and a focus on functionality without erudite behaviour. Also the LINGO bias is very strong. You can be a stage red nazi morally and have stage turqouise lingo. The line is independent of what constitutes to full-blown stage yellow (teal). Which is mostly IIRC cognitive, emotional and moral. ROT and the audiobook Kosmic Consciouness does have some infos. I don't know I can't follow an individual it triggers my american bias of going on a man hunt lol. I can't really name members. Many are cognitively yellow, yet looking at policies Volt looks promising as well as some stuff of the Greens, I don't know what effectively is feasable. On a global scale, because I lack the exptertise there. Unsure if this is prolific in any sense of understanding, yet thank you for sharing the info on volt ! Really am in favour of this party now, most of the other stuff is so long-established there is no growth and constant fighting not a proper dialog. Also I am very tired of veganism and vegterianism being of high moral value. ("Pride") I would ask you what are for instance policies that are more stage yellow/teal ? I mean especially many will go crazy over this in western countries... https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bolschewismus "Durch diesen voluntaristischen Ansatz, wonach die Revolution durch das Planen und Handeln der revolutionären Elite herbeigeführt werden müsse, unterscheidet sich der Bolschewismus vom Denken Marx’, der deterministisch ein beinahe naturnotwendiges Eintreten der Revolution bei entsprechender Entwicklung der Produktionsverhältnisse vorausgesagt hatte.[3]" Most of this is just stage blue focus. Production means are mostly manipulated by lower classes, because of a lack of proper social mobility. This is why I think a healthy green is more appropriate without having studied this in depth. Ideally with some Yellow laws ! -
ValiantSalvatore replied to Heinrich Faust's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Fuck man I love Wilber . Volt looks pretty good. What about the Freie Wähler ? They seem like a stage orange shadow outlet for older people. With some healthy blue as well as with some green ideas, futurism. Everything that is stage blue idealogical (unhealthy) is scary as hell. Seeing Frau Weidel dancing in the Bundestag is one of the most funniest stage blue role playing agendas I have seen. The windmills are the cause of all evil ! (Red shadow) Imagine we would be americans. This would be so genius. I've read the election program of the Greens/SPD/Volt/Freie Wähler/CDU. Never thought there is a somewhat yellow party ? I don't fully grasp what is considered yellow as a truely multi-systemic approach. I like it that they are interested in LL, UL, LR in case this makes sense from integral theory. I don't know what approach they have for a UR and if this is even possible they definitely seem more inclusive than Greens. I dislike this sort of upptity stance of in-group green bias there are also some yellow thinkers in the party obviously. As well as I fear they could be to lenient. My top 3 results from the Wahl-O-Mat are Demokratie in Bewegung Grüne V-Partei³ I like it that the Green party is at least has the balls to change legislature even in their election program as well as they are very transparent. I watched this fully. It's interesting to observe the spiral stages as well as the Bundestag itself. -
Berlin is a good place, yet that already could be to much info ?. Yes, the netherlands have smart shops for shrooms have never been to one.
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Yeah, I am a normal high-end psychopath
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@fopyloThe book enlightend sex from David Deida goes a bit deeper and has guided instructions in audio format when doing it alone. As well as with a partner. The book has different exercises and I did not read it entirely yet. For example when a person can easily breath into his/her belly the person is able to easily have an genital orgasm. But has trouble letting go. So, breathing up the spine and having a "full body orgasm" can be an issue for this person. This is how it is for me. I practiced this a bit, yet find it difficult to have orgasms like this also sometimes my entire body feels so slughish I can't think afterwards properly.
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Rolling your eyes back into the skull can help with orgasm. When near orgasm that goes up the spine.
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@Spiral Thanks I'll take that to heart. It felt good to know that his was on a positive basis and there are no resentment. I don't know cried 3 times today.
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I initiated via online-dating a virutal date which is recommended to do in a rather greenish book. The girl is quite compassionate and is very interesting from all the advice I've read I am interested to know how I can move this on to smth. in person, as well as to create an enjoyable dating experience. The person lives 1h drive away, it's not to far we are both busy, and I ran this scenaroy a couple of times in my head, this is again ideal for both parties. My goal is to meet her in person and basically initate an intimate relationship with her. She is very attractive, I am suprised it happens that way. Seems very high quality. Would appreciate proper executable advice. Besides asking questions which I can get from an advice booklet. What can I do here to create attraction and get into a relationship with this girl, like she is totally my type and I do feel a bit scared. What I will do: Meditate and set an intention. Focus on that I lead and she is having fun, she is along for the ride Being playful. Not talking to much. Asking high quality and fun questions, which I will get from the booklet. Close the date to a maximum of 1-2h otherwise it will be to much. Initate a second date. I thought about also adding some fun games which you could play online and change the time of the date to 19:00 instead of 14:00, so she could have a drink etc. As well as I presume it's more fun and more open at night. Also, we could play some casual online fun game, like draw and guess. To sort of get into the action date phase. I appreciate feedback from other members who have been in a similar scenario too, that would be great. @Leo Gura What would you personally recommend in this scenaroy ? Is this set ? Any tricks that are applicable ? Any good way to build attraction via a virtual conversation ?
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Update: I talked to the girl for 1h+ we hit it off quite well I asked her a couple of questions from a the book that I am reading about dating, as well as from a psychologist who frames 26 question to fall in love. I prepared a small game for entertainment, also asked her if she is interested in drinking smth. So she poured in a glass of wine. Also, a good amout of similar interests. The women was also high caliber, becoming a doctor at an excellent uni. Very attractive and outgoing. So far I've read the book of pook, the 4 books from eben pagan double your dating etc. As well as one book I order from amazon which has a good rating. TLDR - I received her phone number - She said not to romantic interest after the date - I will have another date with a women this saturday (virtual) Any ideas what I can improve upon ? I thought I did well on the attraction part, yet I had a hard time to make her laugh. She made me laugh a lot. What did I learn ? Do not talk about my own romatic experiences or what I romanticise. Create more attraction and show romantic interest. I thought I did well, yet I presume I was not sexual enough. I don't quiet know how I can be sexual via an virtual date. I could have asked her smth. yet I am clueless when it comes to bridging. Create romantic interest to the women. Any ressources on how to be more romantic/sexual ? I seriously have issues with this. YouTube Videos etc. Anything that is non-toxic is welcome !
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@lmfao Fking hell this is so funny because it's wrong. Unfortunate that there is legit a psychology. I often feel though I am criminally asymptomatic being a fool can backfire hard lol. To real will get yo ass in jail bruh. lmao
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@lmfao I love your for writting this shit lmao
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@Preety_India Oh, yes it's my mother tounge. I am happy that you enjoy the language.
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ValiantSalvatore replied to Alysssa's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Alysssa You can make the simply rule, if you make an identity out of it it's going to be ego involved. Not being open-minded that you are wrong. As well as neglecting past wounds. Also, having a healthy ego is perfectly fine IMO, in spiritual circles having an unhealthy ego mainly causes issues. Also, not working on goals that are ego-based / survival based doing that is absolutely fine, creating financial independence etc. When you spend to much time not creating a life that has a solid ground for spiritual work and you escape into spirutal work, you can notice that it's spiritual bypassing / spiritual ego. Emotional issues being neglected. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiritual_bypass There are other tools, yet even some are meditative so you can work around that issue a bit if you enjoy meditation, yet what mostly happens nowadays is I presume survival neglect. Not creating a stable life that allows spiritual growth etc. The enneagram for instance is used to become aware of vices people have which is included in integral theory, so you can check where as an individual you have a bias. Also, how spiritual bypassing can occure. Dealing with real life issues is important, I've spiritually bypassed myself, so it's not the best thing to do. -
I usually don't post in journals. Krafklub is pretty good, love it that you found something you enjoy ! That I can relate too .
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@EternalForest I will see what will happen, I can talk to much, also although people tell me 99% it's very interesting. I feel I loose in playfulness, I will adjust and look at some good examples on how to create attraction for a second date in person.
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@ertopolice Not possible. I will stick to the advice from the book and report ideally. See what will happen. The advice above is not feasiable.
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Fell prey to working with a guy during a group assignment to his Spiel. He explained me his dating scam and in the end I sort of trusted him, because at least he was honest about scamming people. We worked together and he received good intel from others, because many just keep information hoarding. He kicked me out of our group, because my phone was unable to make proper pictures because the stabilizor of the camera did not work. Never spoke with the dude again, ignored him. Even though he helped me a lot, he already scammed needy males presenting himself as a women online to make 10k+ in value allegedly seeling undies. He even talked to a friend who studies law and thought this was fine. Definitely learned stay clear of corrupt people with corrupt intentions and make a real effort to befriend uncorupt people with good/honest intentions. Bargaining classic, was out with a friend bargaining we sort of "swindeled" convinced the guy in China because he believe we are a couple for a cheaper price, I went in alone and bargained, was not able to make a deal. Learned that bias is important to others, as well as gaining skill in bargaining takes alot of effort. Online education and certificates just found out that I could have taken the same certificate for a cheaper price, via cousera.org the list of courses just changed this offer. Check if a multiple sites offer the same course, instead of trusting first page google reviews that are updated regularly. There are even coupons. Friendships trusting others with their levels of acceptance only to see that their worldview is completely different and toxic, and considerably disgusting. Not open-minded not able to speak about possibillites and strong investment into self-survial. See who is truely open-minded regardless where people are from and you will find valid support and honest support as well as win-win relationships, instead of hedonic pleasure seeking swindlers. To benefit mutal self-survival. Swindeling myself by believing that I am more developed more integrated than others cherry picking evidence for my own ego gain, distrupting my own friendships calling names/cursing, unable to handle own personal power / "advantage". Build a healthy ego with compassionate and social people who have similar values and or open to give and take feedback. Amazon selling products in a products operation internship had to take care of other sellers not actively overwritting shippind adresss and company name of our products in the company I worked in, otherwise customers can buy the product and will receive smth. completely different. We are not making profit and they got scammed by some d*cks who were not interested about caring for the customer. We could also loose reputation if we re-list the product under the same "listing". Keep track of what you value and nuture that. There are other examples these are fine for now.
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I created my profile, will update my progress in my journal. I was not able to buy the advice for 20 bucks, so I took some free stuff and patched it together. Will update my progress in my journal.