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Happy for you, buddie! Have a great time!

I was thinking about it, something that we could discuss some themes (kindly), to develop some argumentation skills. Considering that I have some problems with communication and exposing ideas and argumenting, I guess it's a valid idea. What you think, guys?

I was considering find more people to join, so we could start one and have different points of view. You have any topic in mind?

I really need someone to talk to :'( I'm struggling T-T

Well, a advice that I could give to you is this: Try to learn just one instrument for once, the amount of effort that you need from one is already too much. (I play 3 instruments). Try to taking baby steps, you don't need to do too much in a row, take little exercises everyday. (ex: 15 minutes of reading, 15 minutes of learning something about guitar or the instrument that you want to). Also, you can start reading something that you like to make it a habbit and after that set, start reading something more complex. If you have some lack of attention, you could do some meditation to keep yourself grounded and you'll see how more attention you can get. (Mindfullness too). Hope it helps, bro!

Hello! I don't know if is the case, but you can be backsliding (like it happens to me sometimes). You start doing things, but in the routine and going through the days you get lazy and stop doing and back to the same old things. I think this video might help you too...

Hey guys! I think I've some instability about my emotions, either I feel too much sad / excited...there's a way to 'practice' or something? or exercises to make it more stable? Thanks!

Feel the same way, bro! I'm really grateful for all these guys...they help me a lot too! Love ya, actualize-bros.

@Rebecc I know its hard, but I'll do it! The only question was if there's any way to train without hurting someone. Well, will take a while but its worthy... And how you feel about your emotions lately?

I will try getting more conscious about this thoughts, then! I think I'm getting more aware of the situation and feeling better actually! Getting meditation "harder" tho Thanks so much @Bodhi123!

Hello guys, not sure if this is the right to post it so if it is just tell me. For some problems in life, I got in this mind-state of "unhuman", I feel like i'm a horrible person even if I don't do such wrong things...but I don't feel humanized...I feel like I've lost sensibility for other people and sensibility for situations that I probably should... How to get away from it?

I know but in practice is way harder than it looks (to me). I've seen Leo's video about how to deal with the motions, and he says exactly it. What I was thinking is that, there's a way to practice 'without hurting anyone?' I've been doing meditation and its helping. But thanks for the tips guys, it'll be really useful!

Memories AND certain people

Totally clickbaited hahaha I'm asking myself how this could possibly work, beeing so controverse. lol (I know it works but is contradictory lol).

Is really beeing tough for a while, but I know there's some hope somewhere! The hardest part of "believing in myself" is that sometimes I don't trust myself to take some actions...its kinda confusing but happens to me. Well, I'll try to it (Not supressing emotions / Believe myself) again! I'm feeling really good and sad sometimes, looks like is good to change but it hurts sometimes... I think the fact that I recognize myself as a "unhuman" its part of the cure, now I can change, right? Thanks Bodhi123!

I'm doing meditation, but I've started this self-development thing a month ago (january) so sometimes I feel is not enough or I get more anxious...but I'll try harder as Flare said...Feel them fully and learn to love them not suppress them. Probably the best way to handle it

Hey guys, good morning. I'm facing this problem in self-development process: I've had depression and this time made me get into like a zombie mode and I kinda don't have subjects with people and idk how to start a conversation n stuff...looks so akward when I try to get close to someone and just have a damn normal conversation. I'm doing meditation and it gets better but sometimes I just normally get myself too quiet and can't think about an subject... Any tips?

Great buddie! Thanks for sharing!

1. In fact, there is a lot of facts that made me this (I guess). My rejection problems, my father's death, my break-up with my girlfriend, and they kinda "snowball" and another things...Guess I'm supressing some feelings ): 2.YES! Hurt after hurt, disappointments and stuff made my emotional side break. 3. No, when I was a teenager and when I was a kid I always had much friends and was social and stuff, like a normal kid.

Thank you, guys! I will try to get a little confidence, and then try to start small talks to get somewhere and 'train' a little bit! Thanks!!!

Hello, I'll tell a little bit about my self, and would ask if someone can help me. I'm a pretty shy guy, and I've gonne through depression in my earlies 15 years old...since then i don't have many friends and everybody just don't give a crap about me. I used to get a girlfriend but she left me, and now i'm on this crappy mood. I watch Leo's videos and stuff, and for some weeks i got on the shape and doing stuff, but sometimes i'm into this lazyness and it makes me go back to what i used to do/be, getting nervous and my old habits...i hope someone can give me some tips please!

The point is not the smoke, i used it as an example...i mean by 'change a strong habit out of the blue', change fundamental habits

I was discussing with my brothers and they seem to think that its possible a person that, idk, used to smoke quit smoking in like 2 months and dont get nothing from it. And they asked me: Why some people takes years to quit smoking and some people just take 2 months to? (even if i think is not possible). I totally desagree with them, i think the process is way too longer and deeper than 2 months to change...what you guys think about?

Anyone?

@Shin I think its normal, maybe you still didn't find something that moves you, something that make you get out of the chair and bang something in the face (joke). I feel like that sometimes, and somehow I know that I feel this way because i don't have much experience with other people and really experience living different things...Its like I'm really dead 'cause i'm bored to death with the things i'm already used to and i accept everything that comes for guaranteed. Try new things, different experiences to make you see new possibilities...hope it helps <3