We come from a dysfunctional family and for many years have been playing out our family issues I let him back into my life 6 months ago ( he's been sleeping on my couch all that time) 7 days ago came back to the house drunk verbally abusing me acting crazy i was very scared i left the house called the police had him removed decided this time no more forgiveness this is my first-time using no contact really need to get rid of him I know I have co-dependency issues