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I think it can be a trap to rely to much on theory especially if it stop you from taking any action if you don’t have the theory to do it. it can be good to take action even if you don’t have theory. Of course you should still study the theory but it shouldn’t stop you from taking action.

Great video. If you are interested you basically do things when you feel like it but if you are committed you do whatever it takes to achieve your dreams.

Leo seems to have a video about it i haven't seen it yet but at least the title have higher self in it lol.

Pretty sure it already have. Ai that compose music: https://soundcloud.com/user-95265362 @tsuki isn't art just about some way of expressing emotions through craft? That basically what Music, Story telling and art and so on is about,

@abrakamowse sorry but I am not sure what you are trying to say but I just want to clarify I am not saying what you are saying is wrong and that what i linked to is right all I am saying is that it isn’t the only way and that both of them can be right and that’s it.

@abrakamowse it’s not the only way https://bulldogmindset.com/self-confidence/

I don't think its a good idea to smoke weed mediation won't help much probably but here is some things i think may be useful. You should probably look for more professional advice.

Great stuff very valuable information.

I don't have social anxiety because i try to impress people in fact i don't try to impress people but I am afraid of people because of past bad experiences. The real key to solve social anxiety is to face your fears and fully feel it a 100 times until you feel comfortable with it. Its true that you can have social anxiety for a lot of other reasons but in my case it isn't because of trying to impress people but you can be right as a case for other people.

@Ampresus Just shave where you feel like you need to shave.

I think you are overthinking this I only shave my beard.

Read and think a lot thats what i did.

accepting 100% responsibility. I think this is a pretty powerful insight. I am the cause but also the solution.

I think to live a good life one must embrace quality over quantity. For example a lot of bad art work in a career does not make a good career but a really great work like mona lisa does make a good career. And One really valuable friendship is more valuable than a lot of small friends that isn't that much valuable.

Sorry i don't think the first one was very good all i got was that he bought a lot of batteries.

Yeah those are the best i am not a big fan of enlightenment and nonduality which some of his newer videos talk about.

One that sees reality clearly as it is and isn't delusional. "How can i have a healthy ego?" Train your self to accept the truth no matter how emotionally difficult it is. Be willing to accept you can be wrong as well. I think a healthy ego is a process and not something that is done one time so be willing to accept change as well. I think this describes the process you must have to have a healthy ego: “Our view of reality is like a map with which to negotiate the terrain of life. If the map is true and accurate, we will generally know where we are, and if we have decided where we want to go, we will generally know how to get there. If the map is false and inaccurate, we generally will be lost. While this is obvious, it is something that most people to a greater or lesser degree choose to ignore. They ignore it because our route to reality is not easy. First of all, we are not born with maps; we have to make them, and the making requires effort. The more effort we make to appreciate and perceive reality, the larger and more accurate our maps will be. But many do not want to make this effort. Some stop making it by the end of adolescence. Their maps are small and sketchy, their views of the world narrow and misleading. By the end of middle age most people have given up the effort. They feel certain that their maps are complete and their Weltanschauung is correct (indeed, even sacrosanct), and they are no longer interested in new information. It is as if they are tired. Only a relative and fortunate few continue until the moment of death exploring the mystery of reality, ever enlarging and refining and redefining their understanding of the world and what is true.” Scott peck.

This. How to deal with strong negative emotions is one of the best videos I have seen on how to deal with fear.

The only way to get rid of fear is to face it. http://www.susanjeffers.com/home/5truths.cfm

The whole reason to take cold showers in the first place is to practice feeling uncomfortable if you don't feel uncomfortable taking cold showers by drinking alcohol you aren't using its for its actual purpose.

Look up david goggins. Toughen up and embrace the suck. Do something that sucks/is difficult every day.

Great video about motivation not being as important as you might think in the first place.

Read so good they can't ignore you by cal newport. Anything can become your career just chose something you are interested in and get really good at it.

Have a no excuses mindset, Take 100% responsibility and have someone hold you accountable and make it a habit.