puporing

Well this place is on the leading edge I feel when it comes to spirituality, life purpose. Other things like shadow work or "practical" areas is a mixed bag but at least it's open to going in that direction. Is healthy to do research outside of this place. And only you would know what areas of resources you need the most right now.

Wonder if couch surfing is still a thing. ?

@John Paul yeah it'll make the next step come more naturally... Take it easy.. good luck...

We don't know if he'll even make one at this point... ?

@John Paul Yeah grieving might take awhile, just let it all out, it'll feel 'bad and good' at the same time.

@herghly I assume so too but he didn't specify it yet.

@Leilani

@Leilani sorry prob not directly relevant mostly just a thought I had after the blog video.

This forum is Leo's journal.

Hopefully the sourcing of 5-meo is not going to be the roadblock but... I'm sure one can find a way even if that were to be...

@Carl-Richard Cute kitty ?

There's so many different kinds of sex one might be drawn to. No need to feel guilty about what you're drawn to, embrace it! LoL. To me it's like exploring an art form and there's no right answer to it (well assuming full consent whatever you're trying).

♪ヽ(･ˇ∀ˇ･ゞ) ヾ(･ω･*)ﾉ (ノ^_^)ノ

@Nahm ???

@Someone here Maybe you just like masculine-esque girls (and some men). I like/admire them too (not necessarily want to date them), and I dig men who embrace some feminine traits also.

@Tech36363 Is it possible that this is because women's survival was more reliant on being with a man before (not saying it no longer is, it still is to a large extent) and this is shifting so women can now have preferences too instead of just taking the first man that comes her way?

@RendHeaven Just find a masculine-esque girl or something, those exist. Maybe you just have better tastes .

This is exactly coming from your own bad projection of what I said too! The point I was really trying to make is that, people should probably just do what feels right to them on a case-to-case basis and not based on how they come off/what others will think because there will always be someone who complains about it. But people play these games at least in part due to shame/the collective conditioning that are abound.

Well Leo, there you have it in this thread - a woman gets slut shamed by men (this happens alot too) and women if they appear 'easy', and some people justifying treating her like shit afterwards; or blamed for playing unnecessary games if she does not appear easy. ??????

INFJ-A @DocWatts thanks for that share ?

Makes sense, I'm guessing most people interpret the word 'romance' as some kind of lovey-dovey/gentleman-like thing that would exclude behaviors outside of that? There doesn't seem to be a good word for something like pick-up/sexual exploration but I guess I just proposed two. It's the same problem when people talk about "love" and some people include sex (esp the weird stuff) in that and some don't.

@Roy ??? You're welcome.

Or the sex was really bad. It goes both ways I guess.

Oh my bad, I can see how that can be misinterpreted - I'm lumping romance with sex. I guess it's all the same to me rofl.

@Preety_India Whew okay glad to hear, I was like.. am I losing my mind .