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Yes pretty much! Stay aware by going meta whenever you can, and trust your inner guidance on specific situations. When you align with universal love and consciousness the best choices often effortlessly appear. Don't forget to include "yourself" as well as they are just as valid as the "others' ". Of course things we do have "consequences" and "results" which should be kept in mind of. ?

Self-realization does not equal what one may consider "righteous" qualities - those have been selected/constructed. You are right it most likely liberates you from conditioning around 'good or bad' because God loves all creation unconditionally. How you want to be/show up in the world is entirely up to you. Awakening does however align more with love, the oneness of everything, and this realization will affect how you see/treat "others" because of the knowing that they are "yourself", if you choose to. Start by loving all parts of yourself unconditionally first. Then try to do this on things that may have felt "uncomfortable" to love in the past. This will expand your ability to see the perfection in everything - including what may be considered the most 'egregious' actions. Your acceptance of everything is in alignment with absolute love, not what your mind has been conditioned to believe is 'right/wrong'.

I don't think being rude was ever his advice.

Well that's why you alternate between the two, I think in the initial phases of attraction it might be more effective to lean more heavily on the serious/chill side to get her attracted to you. And later on you can slowly open up the light-hearted and more emotional energy.

+1.

I think secure men likes a woman who laughs (esp at his jokes/charms). But I've definitely run into guys who don't like laughter because of insecurity or needing the girl to be "nonoffensive" or some crap like that.

Well said. It takes lots of courage and fearlessness to integrate all this into your day-to-day life, where you still have survival needs.

Well.. it can be lonely I guess and hard to relate to anyone out there. That's where integration comes in. How to embed what you gained from spirituality into the life that you still have. This is a valid path, may be difficult but more fulfilling in the long run.

Yeah... Can't really expect to change someone that's usually not the best idea.. best to lead by example or find someone you resonate more with.

4th 3.5g Golden Teacher Mushroom Trip: There’s nothing but love This overwhelming love and grief I cannot stop my tears from flowing... I cannot contain the enormous love flowing through me I have so much overwhelming love for you I have received so much love and understanding There’s nothing else but love I have been given another life This life is no more I will have to live with this body And being in this world but not of this world I have been given a task Abstract still in the form But I understood totally Everything that happened in my life Led me to this awakening To this overwhelming love My awakening is everyone’s awakening I feel the weight of this task And facing the whole world against me The first challenge is that you will deny my existence

You're okay, you're good enough. I'm sorry the world is so shit for people like yourself to find genuine people to connect with. It's really not you. Please stop gaslighting yourself. You deserve to be loved for who you are.

Sounds pretty misogynistic if you consider that "fun".

Sounds like bad karma.

I think being interested in them is more important than giving compliments, this can be eye contact, asking about some details, relating on something... etc.

Why not work on cultivating more of this in your life if that's what you truly desire? Your thinking that only escorts can be that way for you is a limitation you're putting on your mind and preventing you from doing the hard search/work of cultivating this.

Yes it can be tough sometimes, it means that you care.

Therapy might help, at least with some of the intimacy needs (without the physical of course lol). Having more awakenings and/or healing with psychedelics. Being part of a community (like this one).

Oh wowww those are amazing work. Love the colors. ??

No I haven't actually! But I am into gender nonconformity/fluidity so folks like Yasu (Japanese singer/composer) and RuPaul I find very inspiring .

Ahaha I guess it all depends on the girl/the connection/what's the mood. To me that seems hot and adventurous and something desirable to experience. If a guy I'm into led me to that I'd find that hot/super sexy but I'm pretty weird.

Gawd you're such a nerd. Not really true in my experience, most attractive/masculine men are in strict monogamous relationships and do not branch out from this. So if you're attractive and available you stand out a lot actually. Also very dependent on what kind of girl you're trying to attract.. if you want a sexual woman you should also be more sexual and not be afraid to express it.

Happy Birthday God, I mean @Leo Gura ヾ(^ ^ゞ

Oh wow that's fascinating! Well hopefully you can do it soon again..