puporing

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  1. Take as much time as you need to grieve the loss, it is different for every individual..
  2. Depends on how important this is to you and is affecting you by living with her. I striked out with less than $1000 in the bank to another city with no job lined up, but I had to do it for sanity and a chance to be myself. Only you know when is the best time to do it.
  3. @Raptorsin7 They need to be taken out, and only maybe for recreational use (if that).
  4. Once they're in people's hands.. how do you get them out is the question.
  5. Still on the path, but getting there ...
  6. @Thought Art I've been there. The thing you might not be ready to face is that there's prob some love deficiency you're trying to meet through romantic partners, perhaps one that you didn't get much of in childhood. When we didn't get much love and attention in our childhood, anyone who does give us (in the form of a romantic partner) can be very gripping and affect the core of our being in sometimes detrimental or unwanted ways - as it can get to a point where we become depressed and obsessed through our reliance of that other person. I'm making assumptions based on my experience/observations, it could be something else for you or just how you're wired. Some of us are just more sensitive and such too. In any case, I'm trying to say it's possible to be more free of that "chain" if you want to be. I've overcome quite a bit of it through therapy, psychedelics, and spirituality. You're also good where you are. Find a way to invite more love into your life. Reach out or something.
  7. Yeah I get it, you are sovereign, and you want to be able to grow and be independent (from your family of origin). Not sure what age and life situation you're in but moving out helps create more of that sense of being your own individual. Then if you do spend time with her once you're more independent it's more of a charitable/loving act, but you should only have to do as much as your own growth is honored.
  8. Lack of love. Her love tank is probably running empty. Perhaps from childhood, past relationships etc. Maybe literally nobody paid attention to her for a sustained period. I think some therapy would help kickstart things in the right direction and hopefully not get dependent on it, and she can start balancing between give and take with others.
  9. There's one more... intimacy with "other god(s)".
  10. @Someone here Nothing wrong with those things, it's all love. I am just answering your question of "What's the ultimate human potential?" with my answer, for you specifically. But follow what you're interested in.
  11. For me... it's whatever I am curious to know/explore at the moment, or whatever the heck is blasted at me, and you can go extremely deep into things. ?
  12. You're missing the point.
  13. Perhaps to merge with the singularity & infinite God-consciousness as close as it can get to (if one still wants to maintain its human form).
  14. Well I don't know you. Just a suggestion. Maybe you just have conflicting feelings.
  15. This sounds like growth to me. Good job! You're moving from fear to peace/acceptance and now you're in a position to move towards increasing love. About your dilemma.. nobody can really decide for you but you. Try to see if you could separate the voices that are yours and that of "others", then you can find the answer from what's most true to you.
  16. No it's spotting which areas you still have room for growth and increased alignment with truth/love.
  17. Working as much as I want to in things that are in alignment with my life purpose(s) and where money is just a bonus/side effect of the "work".
  18. No I don't think so, just that she's not necessarily different from other girls. Respect and effort is still required.
  19. @Razard86 The counterintuitiveness of life.. hehe.
  20. @Alta There are lots of deconstruction/contemplation you could do sober, and then use mushrooms to enhance what you contemplate soberly. Can always refer to some of Leo's older videos before your contemplations/trips. Like: Relative vs Absolute Truth Deconstructing the Myth of Science (Parts 1-3) Guided Exercises For Understanding Infinite Consciousness The Ultimate Structure Of Reality Explained What If Reality Is Nothing But Perspective? What It Means To "Go Meta" ... to name a few. Have fun.
  21. Yes! Some are failing very hard in seeing and appreciating the love behind it. But maybe one day they'll realize what a gold mine they have found.
  22. @Michael Jackson Did you miss the the part where he literally said the video was about practicing love in the relative? ?