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Even though I'm not a biological man I thought of those things too. There's not an easy answer. I think life will present you with choices and you say yes or no to them as they come, same for the others you cross path with. I have learned to just be open to things and go with my intuition. So developing a good intuition is a good way to go about it. And then communication, don't be afraid to communicate! If you want more freedom in your relationship(s), try asking, you might be surprised for the answer.
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It's just one way that you can easily do. But there are more efficient/effective ways to raise consciousness such as making educational videos.
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puporing replied to thenondualtankie's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Mass awakening but that ain't happening any time soon.. -
@trenton I feel like the main problem for "LGBTQ types" is finding each other. I might be missing something but this is the main challenge. Most people will almost always try to fix you/box you in to their preferred version of you, and that doesn't usually work in the long run, not even that fun in the short run if you strongly do not identify with heterosexual normatives, there are exceptions (if they're just more tolerant and open minded), but those are kinda rare in my experience. So you gotta go to places that might have more "weirdos", dress/carry yourself in a way that represent you, maybe move to a place that has a higher concentration of them.
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Yeah it's a really good/honest resource for understanding the real dynamics of lots of families that we as society don't know much about or want yet to know. I was going to share more of his stuff at some point. It's definitely not "easy" for some to listen to because this stuff is still seen as controversial/taboo by the collective, but a huge relief for others going through healing. Also exposes a lot of the problems with the therapy profession as it is now as well which is another thing that is largely unknown or "tucked away".
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LOL you don't wanna know, might be too freaky . Though it's exceedingly rare for any man that can appreciate the masculine side of a woman, it takes someone who not only can mirror it to some extent, but also extremely secure in their own masculinity, (and femininity ).
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puporing replied to Whitney Edwards's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Maybe it was me . -
puporing replied to Yimpa's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Well for what it's worth, this God over here seems to *prefer* but not *compel* you to fully awaken. And this is also from Love. It actually can't join that well with sleeping egos either like you say. It's like you're in heaven and parts of you have decided to "run off" and still having rather chaotic/often sad dreams with itself. So you're like a parent that gives "your children" freewill but also watching them suffer because they are not aware of yet what they are and the truth that they're One. -
puporing replied to Holykael's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I don't like equating God with distorted minds, even though they can't be separated. By definition the dumbed down minds are not acting with full consciousness and are thinking in more limited/deluded/less intelligent ways. Though Love also gives you freewill to dissociate from yourself.. What kind of "things" are more likely to be the "creation" of 100% God? Maybe think on that one more deeply . -
puporing replied to Holykael's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I don't understand this, I experience more of "heaven" and EVERYTHING as me. It's definitely not "void" like. It's maximal consciousness and connection. What is this void? -
puporing replied to The Redeemer's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Not much you can do about it except maybe ascension. It's kind of the design of this place when it's made to forget Oneness. -
puporing replied to SQAAD's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I don't experience this place as "infinite intelligence", it's rather unintelligent for the most part. It could have been designed a lot better/higher intelligence that also recognizes itself, idk why it wasn't, instead it's very cut off from "higher intelligence" so you have to work hard to get it back. Also someone kinda masochistic, was I? weird. Heheh, you guys can go with how you feel about it though, I'm just speaking what I see... To your original question, your mind also has to change soberly to experience it soberly. Now what steps might that involve?? -
@thenondualtankie I'm sorry but, you sound like what I described above that either have not lived there/closely interacted (as a Chinese person) or have the consciousness to see. It's no use for me to try to convince you. (And I have already stated I have no interest in "surviving" in a place that's pretty much hell to me, so any argument about this level of consciousness helping you "survive" really has no effect on me.) Chaos might actually be good for them if they cared about self-love. It's pure luck that I am now in somewhat a position to speak my truth, however limited it is.
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Haha, I want nothing to do with that country or people there but sadly I am tied by family. You can call me a racist but I've dealt with enough of them to know how low conscious it still is, and there's no way out because they're all brainwashed by groupthink and authoritarianism, the few who aren't are prob constantly getting stalked and harassed by the CCP, or their "family" that are equally obsessed with control and manipulation, perpetual abuse of the younger generation and those with less power, and abuse can only lead to more pain and abuse. This is all so conveniently excused by pointing fingers at the USA and capitalism and a narrative used again and again to keep people "in". I'd rather die than being around them like a bad cult, it still gives me suicidal thoughts daily. I'm ready to cut all family ties to get away from their level of consciousness if things get bad enough. People who defend them either have not really dealt with them closely or don't have enough consciousness to see. It's extra bad if you're a "woman", you're basically a slave to the family if you have no way out of there. My "escape" is a miracle, I could've easily been murdered (the possibility still exists if I'm not careful).
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puporing replied to r0ckyreed's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Psychedelics are good but also I recommend some openness to your peers, they may have information to share that you are not yet accessing to help you access. Coz exactly like few of you say psychedelics alone can't give you everything/full understanding if you are not ready for it, pointers help and then you can check it out yourself/verify things. It's like we're throwing each other ropes to climb the tree or something. When it comes to science I guess, I did do a degree in it so I know a little bit. I know the conflict between "inconvenient truths" that honest/rigorous scientists (in the relative domain) vs corporate interests to snuff them out. Think tobacco industry and climate change/environmental sciences. The training of scientists is to be as little biased as possible and this is a topic that comes up in training if I recall (observer bias and many other biases). But that's no guarantee someone is going to (and able to) follow that once they're out of school (or even when they're in school). "Honest science" tends to make no money as it prob should be to be objective, so it's mostly on the collective to make such funding possible or individuals that somehow can fund it. But I think fundamentally science has not yet bridged with spirituality much is because these scientists are not ready to wake up themselves, if so they would land somewhere like here. -
puporing replied to davecraw's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Yes not the same experience (concurrenly), the same Consciousness/mind. So this mind of yours when you wake up has lived everyone's lives. (although there's also a higher realization where you realize the difference in experiences/lives are not hugely different like you may imagine them to be. But ignore this for later if it's confusing you). Also it's correct to say "I put you to sleep" also. -
puporing replied to davecraw's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@davecraw coz you put yourself to sleep, so now there's Awakening. Maybe you need some assistance with psychedelics or something. -
Thanks for sharing. Depression isn't so simple though and I am starting to think almost nobody understands it. You're actually more likely to be depressed with a very high state of consciousness in this world. It has more to do with the contrast with lower states around you that is also part of your mind, creates too much differential/schism to be around. As well as the inherent "separation" of the mind induced by being in a body. And then almost nobody seem to understand it's because of lack of Love, not this technical mumbo jumbo. I think people with no extensive experience with depression basically can't understand it well enough and usually try to simplify it. That's not to say tools like this can't help you cope.
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puporing replied to joelpires's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I'm hardly here as a *human* these days. It seems like my remaining will is mainly to "help" a few peeps to ascend with me, in whatever shape or form that takes. And whatever personal connections I still have here keeps me here, even the not so good ones. So I guess I'm not quite ready to leave because of that. Though this "help" is not from neediness more like an offering. Other than that it's kinda hard for me to be "here", coz all I really desire these days is "heaven". I would have trouble just to eat much food even these days (lack of interest mostly as a result of the high state of consciousness I'm in 24/7 like it feels unnecessary lol) but I do it coz I have to to keep well. -
imo a great relationship is something on the same level as a miracle, if you also kept working on yourself. It's much better/more realistic for your mental health imo to assume that is going to be rare than to assume you'll find one quickly.
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puporing replied to Whitney Edwards's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Depends what you think of as "ego death", this term is similarly multi-layered like the word "awakening". Just thought I should point that out coz it's not as simple as having psychedelic awakenings alone in my experience. It can be incredibly difficult to work to transcend the ego thought forms. Also relates to whatever karma needs to be burnt/transmuted. It's good you're thinking about it. -
Massive Consciousness and Love. Can't find it much at all in this reality though to that extent so I became it instead haha. Now I'm happy.
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puporing replied to Holykael's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
(he's not pissed off enough in my view .) The more you awaken to God the more you become aware of the lack of consciousness here and yeah it can be hard sometimes to be around it. Least for me! (With the awareness of...oopsies I should've thought of that when I made/came to this place.) -
@integral lol...sorry to hear. That sounds creepy and uncalibrated so I don't blame you. And yes it has nothing to do with being poly in and of itself. You can be low consciousness monogamist or low consciousness polyamorous. Hope that makes sense. This is not a justification but to shed understanding, that my guess is when some people finally have the freedom to explore their sexuality/intimacy not just with one guy because they have this need, they have a hard time controlling themselves at first. They could also have been starved too in their existing relationship you never know. Personally I feel some tragedy in what you say. Ideally it's better to get it out of your system when you're younger. But because we don't actually live in a very liberated society yet these things can sometimes get very delayed.. I hope you can find some empathy for that at least.
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I guess it's not that they have ZERO value, but it's way out of proportion with the cost. Mostly we're just brainwashed to paying them. I can't see other explanations. I've been on the buyer's side where I represented myself for negotiations and signing for a small purchase, and it was pretty easy (just made sure I did my property inspections). Not saying I recommend this but it is not worth whatever they're charging lol. Lawyers too for straight forward real estate transactions - it's like one of the easiest boiler plate kind of deal for them, no case prep, no court appearance. I've had one that even messed up my name on the title. And I could barely get ahold of them on the phone. Goes to show how much effort they put into it.. I have no problem paying people but the cost they charge is obviously not fair. And I haven't looked into why there's like no competing alternatives, I think it's because realtors are registered under an association that partly work to block other alternatives. I think they also control the main advertising channels so you can't just do it yourself. Also consider the joint relationship between Realtors, Real Estate Lawyers, Mortgage Brokers, Banks. They probably work to protect each other and makes it that much harder to introduce competition. The fact that it is an irregular "one-off" purchase for most people means they are more likely to just suck it up..