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  1. Im curious to know at what stage do you consider President Jose Mujica of Uruguay to be. He is consedered the poorest president. He is a wise guy who lives very modest. @Leo Gura
  2. Be present (centered/grounded/mindful) and Flow. Others will notice you are enjoying the moment and not having an inner judgement. Add to this, looks, social proof, status, talent, humor and they will love you.
  3. @Alyosha The thing that many people don't get about game is that each style has a consequence. Models style is my favourite as well mixed with a little bit of dark game in order to make it spicier. If you play the honest vulnerable guy only and don't understand Attraction well, you might fall in the nice guy accidentally. On the other hand, hardcore red pill pickup artists hyper macho dark player game is the most attractive one. But, if you fall on this side you have to deal with the consequences: negativity, ego imbalances, emotional baggage, more illusion and karma. This guys get laid very fast playing this style but only because they get paid to do so. Ocassionally going dark and player helps for when you feel you need to calibrate your past image and actions. You need to be vulnerable but still higher status than her for she wanting to fuck you. In order to do inner switches you need high observational abilities of the invisible. You basically become mystical of your psychology and press the right buttons of your ego keyboard. This is what mystery does.
  4. @Meetjoeblack I completely get you. This was me a time ago. You have been conditioned to believe instead of intuitively knowing and judging from logic, while at the same time lacking emotional control for everything you feel and comes to your mind when it comes to women. Nature and Attraction have rules you must follow as an order if you want to succeed with people. For example, if you cry in front of your girl one time, it might pass. But if you continually do so, as crude as it sounds, she will leave you. Why? From an evolutionary perspective, her unconcious mechanism is always judging your behaviour and strength, in which the mental and emotional are more important than the physical. You are suppose to be grounded as a man. Women live in mental and emotional fantasy. If you gently tell your gf to please suck your dick because you dont want to be rude, she won't. Surprisingly, if you tell her to suck your dick in a confident way as an order, she will. Even if she refuses, if your dominance persists, she will be attratcted to do so. This is the counterintuitive nature of Attraction. My advice would be to enjoy your relationship while it lasts. Then stay single till you work on yourself and knowledge, test it with some women, then try again.
  5. Apart from all the knowledge I have collected from other sources, this is by far the most simple direct nonsense book I have seen. If you want the truth about how the counterintuitive nature of attraction works, here it is. I realized you don't have to be the highest alpha or wait till you are rich or even be physically fit. Dating is a very relative thing that depends on your culture and the specific woman you are dating. Tom cruise might be a 15 out of 10 in usa because he portraits the values of that society. However, his value might be alot lower if he were to live in an african tribe. His strength might be low as well as his survival skills. His looks will only portray femeninity. The total opposite of his current country. Still, you want to study your culture so you can play it on your favor with what you got in this moment. For example, my country is very classist and im a good looking guy. I don't let ppl try to trick me into believing im weak for my beauty. Instead I portray this as status and exclusiveness, followed by the clothe the elite uses. Back to the topic, here is the book. Theres no way you won't get laid at least with a 7 or 8 using this, mixed with your current knowledge of your personality and culture. If you don't, you just have to keep practicing this. Lastly, the best of this is that everytime you don't know what to do, the answer is in the book.
  6. I wonder if anyone has experienced this level of samadhi ?
  7. @Spiral Wizard Contemplating with a journal. If you want to be an expert in contemplation check out peter ralston and his book of not knowing. Just as you write down your present beliefs which create your current unconcious frame, you want to rewrite your new frame to an empowered one. Down here ill show you an example from RSD Max. Each frame has to be carefully contemplated and visualized until you feel an emotional state triggered by such perspective for it to go into your subconscious. This takes time and repetition. Not an easy job. But hey, you are God all powerful, after all this is what you wanted to experience, hard work and limitation.
  8. You might waste alot of time seeing endless videos about pickup on youtube. First, you need to learn about women's psyche and their biology. How they think and to what they are attratcted. The red queen is a good book. Also, red pill knowledge can help. Second, you need to work on your inner game. Which means to get rid of as many insecurities and false beliefs you have about women, sex and relationships. You can be alpha and still suck with women because of old beliefs pulling you back. This has been my biggest struggle. I would get girls but still I felt something preventing me from flowing with them. Check out leo's video about contemplation, comprehension has many degree s and what is actuality. Third, you need to work on your personality by creating new habits and beliefs. This needs to be mantained constantly as you are not real but a constant process. Women are attratcted to anything that serve their survival, strength. And masculinity which polarizes their feminine energy. With out these two you can attract them on a personal level but sexual chemistry wont occur. You can become alpha by practicing mantras, visualizing or using a vision board, doing physiological incantations, taking constant action, challenging yourself, exercising, listening to masculine music, surrounding your self with strong masculine men and putting yourself out there to many experiences, which can develop a strong will and courage. The inner game process is the most important and it might take a period of 6 months to 1 year to see good results. Lastly, learning game. After understanding women and having developed your Attraction level, you can now choose a style, appearance and techniques to make the fish bite the trap and begin the process of experiencing your world. Books to read: -The red queen -The evolution of desire -The way of superior man -The power of now (there needs to be a balance between truth and illusion in order to play well). -The mystery method -The game Extras: -Almost any book from Carlos xuma. -Atomic Attraction by christopher canwell -Models -Law of Attraction. You need to understand how your mind works and how to percieve other ppls frequencies for better social skills and understanding of them. Your focus creates your frame work and by time your going onto creating that reality. So be aware of your focus always, practice shifting it to another direction for when need it and how to control your emotional states. Having control of your frame is the key for persuasion and seduction. If you learn how to have an unshakable frame while having still eye contact you can get away with almost anything you want and even dominate others. I recommend to only use Psychological dominance over ppl who want to dominate you as self defense (unless you want to lower your self control (conciousness) and build some negative karma). Even if your physically weak and a strong rich men wants to fck with you, if you hold a strong frame while not blinking and you declaring some command, he will be intimidated and fear you afterwards. To truly get everything im saying, this must be contemplated and experienced.
  9. I agree in this. I think leo still does pickup ocassionally, so I don't see anything wrong with him sharing his journey and basic routines.
  10. @Felli I have been thinking about this too. This type of people might achieve enlightenment easier than normal ppl. That friend of yours already understands what awakening is?
  11. The first thing to always have in mind is to remember not letting social pressure catch you. Who says you need to get laid? Only society's expectations which then become unconcious patterns on your mind if you accept it, making you feel guilty later. Notice how in the past you did not feel guilty about this, because getting laid is not a true need. You could just jack off or your semen can also leave with wetdreams. Spirituality will help alot to let you see the big picture of this illusory game of survival and reproduction. On the other hand, doing pickups will only help you like a 20%. Doing that you will only learn how to catch their attention, get familiar with them and see their patterns if you pay close attention. You might get a little confident but still you will just go on and on repeating your present unatractive patterns with them without really developing your self and probably not getting good results which might make you more frustrated and create a negative snowball effect. The 80% of the power in this lies on Truth and Inner game. First, its crucial to understand female nature. They are evil, liars, selfish, highly persuasive and not loyal. They can be in love with you today and if they have to screw you tomorrow they will. Not all of them and to different degrees, but this is their core animalistic nature. I did not used to believe any of this until I started to see these patterns develop on many girls repeatedly. So you may also want to be careful of what you do with them and the law. Second, your psyche is what will attract them most. By this I mean your personality and frame. You could develop this on your own with alot of effort or you could just surround yourself with masculine, relaxed, confident, focus, grounded, cool and interesting friends. Im lucky, since the departament in which I work in my job is full of ghetto black guys and im a goodlooking white guy. By surrounding my self with them after 1 year, i have most of the things I listed before and I had not to work for getting this inner game in a conscious manner. Its better this way because you can see with your eyes how these qualities seem in a person and their reality without making fantasies on your mind everyday of how it would be to have that. Thirdly, spirituality will make you see the relativism of this and not let you get sucked in the content of illusion. Meditation and presence will you keep you grounded, relaxed, blissful and free of illusions, which are empowering and attractive aswell. Contemplation of female nature behaviour can help improve your interactions by seeing and accepting the truth of how they are. Also, contemplating your beliefs (imaginary perspectives) can help you eliminate the unnatractive/nonempowering ones. After you do your pickup marathon I would suggest you to focus simply on your self and truth. To cleanse and let go, and after some development (at least 6 months to 1 year) go try pickup again. Pickup is just the marketing of the product (inner game). Surround your self with strong men but at the same time stay on the path of spirituality. Socializing daily with all types of people will help alot and just observing any female friend or relative of your family will work as well to get familiar with their nature. Reading The mystery method and the game along with superior man is crucial. Also listening podcasts of red pill awareness. Don't take everything as true nor as a belief, but just to internalize which is really important for when these things appear on experience you can relate the information and get better results. YT channels: Coach red pill, the Stoic Sigma, Arash Dibazar and Satori pua. There are more, but those used to be my fav. Most do habits: - -sleeping like a queen -total relaxation -meditation and presence -Contemplation -Self reflection -pranayama yoga -programming your breath to be slow and deep until it become unconcious for good feelings and health -good eating -taking sun and sun gazing if you can -cold shower -no fap -daily socializing -exercise -surrounding yourself with truly strong masculine men -listening to uplifing music *** Listening to songs that transfers masculine energy. This strategy is really useful, specially if you dont have many strong men around to get their aura. It doesnt matter that they speak on different language, thats even better to not be influenced by ideas, just notice their energy, tonality and confidence, which helps getting you on such frame aswell. This works best during your first 2 waking ours in the morning to get in such frame for the day and when driving since your attention will be on the traffic, your subconscious will be open to absorb the background noise. (Songs to see what I mean: Capo Plaza- Giovanne Fuoriclasse,El Alfa el Jefe-Jalapeño, Stormzy-Vossi bop, Kalash-Mwaka Moon, químico Ultramega- No lo vendo, Reynmen-Ela, Miky Woodz-James Jones, Bulin 47 x Lírico en la casa- Pikilao Remix). -Being alone until you feel better at it than being with people. -Self-Love and gratitude -Self Focused -Doing something you like -Doing what ever the fuck you want occasionally. By this I mean being rebelious and even an asshole if needed. -Throwing yourself to the unknown in order to develop confidence and trust your ability of survival. Doing something you dont usually do that can be challenging. When all or at least most of the above has been internalized to a decent level then doing pickup will be more worthy. At such level you won't even think of women or pickup. Women will just come as appearances and you will interact with them without an agenda. Intuitively you will read their body language if they are interested in you talking to them and you will just flow intuitively in the present interaction without trying to attract. Sexual attraction will rise unconciously and at that moment you can choose how you want the relationship with that person to be. Thou, I dont do pickup anymore nor im interested in women, i can occasionally get laid easily. I only get laid if almost by chance a situation appears and I can take it further by then. At this moment I only see women as parasites that will suck your energy, time and money lol. Not only you will become attractive to woman but other men also will respect you (even thou I dont care if they do or not), envy and even become intimidated. This can help at least an 80% of getting away with what you want and persuading people. I have tested it by making girls give me their homework or projects at university or even told the sellers at cafeteria that I dont have money right now but i come often here to give me some food of my choice at that moment. At this level of experience and knowledge is when it gets really tentative not to become what Leo would call a Zen Devil. The better you get on the game, the more lost you will get and suffer. Stay on the spiritual path to keep a high balance.
  12. @kieranperez Why would you recommend me to study wilber if I ask? And why is ralston almost leaving his teachings?
  13. @Matt8800 1-Do you have any experience or knowledge about mytical creatures? The grandparents of a friend of mine once told me they have seen little elves running around their house lol. They never make contact, they just run through the house like a necessity. I don't know if this is true yet, but im curious. I watched some videos on youtube which look kinda legit but its too much for my paradigm to accept. They are from Mexico btw. After seeing how dr strange and harry potter relate to truth im starting to be very open and skeptical of reality in the relative plain too. This is why they make movies about these things so we never imagine their possibility for a second. 2- Can relatives come and visit us as animals? Specially Insects or lizards? I don't even know if this topic exists but i have seen a few Insects and lizards and intuitevely felt this was my grandfather. Im just curious, don't know if im being delusional. (By the way, they have come to my room). I also have dreamed with my grandfather giving me messages which I don't remember. In a dream he looked like the man with an eagle head from egyptian drawings. I don't think about him at all which makes it strange for me to dream with, out of so many other people.
  14. @Matt8800 @Matt8800 Can you explain the distinction between lying for protecting the jews or my family and lying to protect my self? This is still survival. I have lied to my family about being religious just to save my ass in the past and I have been brought down from higher states of conciousness for this.
  15. @Matt8800 1. The video is a little advanced. For example, I didnt catch the part of the watch towers. I have heard other witches speak about this too. I don't know if he was astral proyecting or what. That stuff seems so out of here it seems like pure fairytail. Still, im open to it. What did he meant? 2. Just before trying astral proyection, I researched people say you can be possesed or die, how can we evade this? 3. Can Spirit guides speak on my mind without words or I just have a strong intuition? Sometimes i feel someone is sendings things to my mind. Or is it just that im dowloading info with my pineal gland? 4. Do you have reports about your experiences? The thing is, okay, I get to contact spirits, astral, etc. These things will open my mind and increase my faith. But i dont get how can this be useful for my evolution apart from being something pretty fun. 5. Can witchcraft help me reach financial independence? 6. After liberation, can you still lie? 7. Everytime I have an awakening, my family percieves something weird with me, but is just that I get out of touch with their social reality. How can I balance my self to normal people and not be socially awkward? The thing is, if I have an awakening and I start doing the mundane to look normal I loose my witnessing because it is not strong enough. How can I balance this during the path and after liberation? 8. Is it posible to be enlightened and choose black magic and evil spirits? A black evil enlightened witch? 9. What is your biggest Realization till now? 10. How much did it took for you to get liberated?
  16. @Matt8800 Nice, but before I enter the occult I need to know if I can get killed by Spirits. And also, die doing astral projection wrong, or if someone tries to wake me up, or by some astral entity. I dont have much time in this moment to start learning and practicing spells hidden from my family right now. This is why I want to astral project. Is it as hard as to when one experiences their first awakening? So I can know how much time to give such practice right now. And, as I saw your practice advice I noticed you did not mentioned any Kriyas. Kriyas did not improve much your practices? Any occult video I can see on youtube to open my mind more?
  17. Did they teached you something in order to improve contemplation practice? What is to contemplate in essence, from your experience?
  18. @herghly Kriyas are like pranayamas that prepare and support your witnessing? I thought I shouldnt mix this with meditation and contemplation. Can you explain a little more for me to see if its good to get more info of this and get the books?
  19. @TDW1995 You can gradually do as you feel better. But its exactly cuz of this that I mentioned to focus only on one practice until awakening happens. To do meditation once and intense is not going to work very well. Osho explains this key as that meditation occurs after the observer gains momentum by starting the inner observation from the most obvious and easiest which is the body. Suddenly your awareness will have the power to understand thoughts and clear the space. Then emotions and finally the observer observes itself by grace. Staying like that is true meditation. By then awakening will have occurred. Breathing practices are very helpful before setting time to sit and only observe. Everything im saying is from experience. As to what my mentor once told me to focus only on one practice until awakenings begin. Remember that the mind loves to do many things simultaneously and believe is making progress. But, awakening is not of the mind, it is beyond it, another dimension that the mind can only imagine.
  20. @TDW1995 You can contemplate without doing any prior practice but it will be harder to go very deep if the knower is not awake on any level. That's why im reading the books, in order to know all the keys for when I get to that stage and focus on it only. Im not saying to meditate until you become very conscious. But until you awake by it. You will automatically know when you awake because you are the only real thing, by which you will know you are you. Its easy to get confused with so many practices. In the past I used to think I knew meditation by watching leo's and other gurus videos. This is not enough. Books have the truth written in front of you to tell you everything for it in order to work. Its like you are a blind man being helped to cross the street until you are no longer blind and can go by your own. Everytime you awake don't think its over. There are deeper levels to awakening. Even after enlightenment. Awakening just go on and on and on. See osho's book mentioned before. You can awaken by it if you do exactly everything written like a math formula. Ignore the methods, just read the teachings about meditation itself, unless you also want to learn a technique mentioned there.
  21. @TDW1995 I don't mean doing meditation along with self Inquiry. I mean, to only focus on meditation until you stay in its state the whole day for the complete week. That the time you set apart for meditating and doing the mundane become one. You will be meditating while doing everything. After this happens, then self Inquiry and contemplation is more understandable since the knower will already know it self. By then you will have awakened deeper. But to then add focus by contemplation makes the seer to see itself and awaken even deeper. This is what I mean. Book that teached me true "Meditation: The First and Last Freedom" Osho. If you have not read those 3 books i recommend you check them out for guidance and clarity of obstacles when enquiring. They are like keys to opening the doors that you have not seen.
  22. @TDW1995 You can become aware of awareness either through authentic meditation or contemplation. Both are totally different. Authentic meditation become restful in itself (it creates sweetness and no focus is involved after entering such state) but it may only serve as a support for then contemplating. Contemplation involves concentration which is more potent, but because our minds are a mess and there is little clarity it will be hard to do. Im still learning self Inquiry and contemplation, they are tricky. Its better to build up your practices with baby steps. First presence practices. Then Breath meditation in order to become totally relaxed. Mixed with pranayama and wim hof. Then authentic meditation and lastly self Inquiry which is contemplating with a question that serves as a radar. Check out be as you are from ramana. Im that from sri nisargadatta and the book of not knowing from peter ralston (librarygenesis.com) Those 3 teach on a whole new level.
  23. @Leo Gura Should kriya yoga not be mixed with other practices? Lets say im letting go of my will and surrendering completely and I start doing kriya which involves will, what would be the result?
  24. @Rasheed Nahm is introducing the basics from ramana maharshi. Download pdf "Be as you are" from ramana. Im half book and already got a deeper understanding of the ego tricks. Also, "Im that" sri nisargadatta. And The book of not knowing from peter ralston. Go to library genesis its there. If I dont get liberated with those three books i will quit spirituality lol.
  25. I find this confusing. How can I Inquiry my beliefs? What is the process and how I know if im doing it correctly? For example, im open about witchcraft and paranormal, etc. But my subconscious brings resistance to these things. How do I proceed to see the truth on my beliefs? Be as you are from ramana and the book of not knowing are good to learn correct inquiry? I have seen leo's video and it makes sense but still I find it tricky.