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@soos_mite_ah @mw711I have stopped the need of explaining my self or anything. After going so many times up and down in full circle. I understand why many people dont speak much. After learning how life and knowledge works, i can barely believe the insights I get of whats possible. Whatever was ridiculed at first like enligthenment when I discovered it, now completely connects everything else I needed or know at this time. Its all perfect and relative. Its not only about the vertical, but the horizontal adds even more verticality to it.

@soos_mite_ah I had seen other sites but i dont know how I didnt came to try cafeastrology. Holy shit what a description. It just made me self aware of my persona a 200%. Thanks. Still, I would like someone knowleadgeble to explain it in deeper detail. Everything makes so much sense now.

@Eren Eeager Brother, I would recommend you to read alot of osho. You will be wanting enligthenment 24/7/365.

@ColeMC01 You might find some innocent curious high value girls who are just new into dating apps. But the vast majority is low value. Its a complete waste of time in my experience. Whenever I matched a pretty girl, she either was just messing around, shit testing to pump her ego, flaked or was hot with a shitty personality. Dont take my word, see it for your own. It may work, depending where you live.

@herghly Deeper understanding of the mind and LOA. And how crucial it is to understand it and then apply it with more awareness. You wont get stuff by just thinking, but its the definitive first step to achieve or limit yourself by being ignorant of such things. There are many things that need to be learned about your mind (inner game) like self deception, contemplation, rationality, vision, self talk, LOA, etc. If you only focus on outer game techniques you will get short success, none or limit yourself in the course by not understanding your mind and Inner system creation process. If you combine inner and outer game, then you will get controlled success. Not something accident and slow. You can rely on the LOA unconsciously by what you have focused on the past, but you can also use it instantly and mix your frequencies. You can use it short term aswell. You can instantly change your appearance/vibration to attract thoughts of that frequency level or even get access to people of that vibration that have what you want. You can manipulate your reality and circumstances short and long term. But you must understand such things and be highly aware of the Dynamics involved to play like a chamaleon without breaking some rules or integrity.

It is a real law. People saying its not is because they have not studied the Dynamics plus experienced such process more conciously to identifity and distinguish the creation details. It not only works if you are high vibration, it works on all levels of vibration. And it works if you are unconscious as well. People dont get to experience it well because what they desire they dont believe it 100%. And mayb their desire level is low aswell. When you truly desire something, you will feel certain of it and you immediately enter that World frequency. Your vibration changes in an instant. People react to your new frequency. You behave and feel in a total new World. And you start to attract more thoughts of that World frequency. After you enter that frequency you will become a magnet of those experiences you are thinking. But one has to stay on that frequency consistently, this is the transition process of one frequency to a new one. If you dont pass it, you will fall in your old one again and never see change. For ex, if you want to make money for real, if you enter into a specific frequency perspective of infinite ones about money. You will then have the permision slip to act towards money. The Internet is the fastest vehicle. If you are not certain on that desire you will fall back and say LOA dont works on money. Beliefs will pull you back. For ex, i have attracted all my understanding of reality and enligthenment/truth through thought. Such as many of you, who prob were not conscious of doing this. But i have also attracted multiple business deals out of nowhere. Also have attracted danger, by entering into the devils frequency on purpose. Actually hell is dangerous but its Fun. You feel very alive when your mind believes it gotta survive. Thou, Its not so Fun if you dont know how to get out of this frequency and it can bring big trouble aswell.

The book is recommended by many becuz it does work. I dont recommend living by those principles. But if you are in urgency of something, applying those and being likable to the extreme will inflate their egos and make them addicted to you. Its a psychological law. Its done unconscious. I have been guilty of doing it and falling into it. You need to be highly conscious in that moment to not react others people charms on you.

Pickup is more limiting than productive (relative speaking). After years of reading, watching and being into pickup ive come to realize most people are better off without it. Pickup is a system. A one way approach to get sex. Pickup is like the hatha yoga for enligthenment. Most ppl dont get laid even after learning it. Is a big business. The problem with pickup in my case has been that after knowing the truth of sexuality, you start to see the conditioning it has done on you. One thinks that if not done exactly as we have been taught, any act will be wrong. Building alot of limiting beliefs. I've come to discover my success rate has grown after not applying pickup. You might start well with a strategy and dont continue or get any result. It pisses off. This calculation and rules are actually bad when seen from a higher perspective. You are better of going just intuitively-compulsive and unconscious of the process than by analyzing anything at all. Ive come to prove this to my self after highly increasing my results on tinder by just going bluntly straight forward from the start as to me being sexual with the girl. But, the thing is you think you need to think. No, you dont. It has to be intuitive. The frame has to be unconsciously persistent from you to her without you being conscious of what you are doing. Everytime you become conscious of an aspect of the interaction it actually interrupts the flow of the frame. Cut off the bullshit from the start. The bs patterns of getting to know each other. If you feel truly sexually confident she will feel it and most of the time follow you. After that you know if shes worth of your time and now you can slowly escalate your way there if needed. If not, you can get straight sex even agreed from the chat. Its an energy game. A game of the subtle bodies (ego). I wish I could explain this better, but its difficult through words just as truth. (Believe me, What ever you feel she will feel, even through text. Timing is huge in texting, so patterns are to be percieved. If you feel anxious through text, she will feel it. If you feel confident, she will also feel it. Even if you dont know how. You dont need to know. Just trust she is feeling you. So be honest to yourself and her. Interactions should not be seen through the lens of "Game". Its very limiting and counter-productive most of the time. If you interact in a hyper aware-calculative manner you wont proceed. Thats robotic. Interactions most Flow unconscious of all the aspects that are normally thought off and analyzed). My point is, become aware, then forget about what you became aware off in order to proceed in true Flow. Im amazed by how fast I can get results now. Just truly feel it and she feels it... No need to do any crappy juggle. If shes not into it, skip and go to the next one. Simple as that. If you want a partner then do all that stuff and slowly know each other. But if what you truly only want is sex, stay on that frame, feel it, embody it and you will attract the right partner in that same vibration. So again, why is pickup limiting? Well like in any topic, some knowledge can be applied in some situations, but in others its just counter productive. After gaining more general knowledge, Truth and Consciousness you start to develop mixups skills, which only comes when you have a good higher perspective of anything. For example, in my case ive stopped liking being over masculine and alpha. It doesnt satisfy me. Neither regular and hyper femenine women. I like really slutty women who have a more balanced energy as to masculine and femenine. It doesnt mean they are masculine, it just means they dont have all of the bs drama and limiting beliefs of regular hyper feminine women. They are harder to find, but most bisexual girls & scorts are like this. And in my case, I like being less masculine and a little more passive. Also, letting the girl have more sexual intitiative (Most girls are lazy & not slutty). This makes me experience my sexuality more complete and deep. Cuz now I can feel the feminine energy and masculine too in sex. Not just active masculinity. Its hard to explain and show this. But, sex is on a whole new level like this. One of my wishes is to find a hot advanced alien slut to get as naughty as possible, lol. What will get you laid: 1-Truth 2-Courage 3-Sexual confidence (This one is tricky. You dont need to get laid a bunch of times to develop this. Get used to being naked. Sleep naked. Watch yourself in the mirror, record yourself, get dirty on cam or snap. This will make your subconcious believe you are sexual, thus making you feel confident. Love your body and sexuality). Note: Dont start chatting a girl randomly. Do it only if you feel it. Awareness of emotions are crucial in interactions, they let you know what you are unconsciously communicating through expression. My only strategy is the following: If on a dating app like tinder. Dont get a bunch of matches. They get nowhere. Only like women you really like. After the first match go unseen and dont do more matches. Focus on one girl. Now, after matching let her there. Only talk to her when you are in the mood. Prepare your mind as to what you want. Thats setting the frame. "Sex". Ok, get into a sexual mood. Touch, watch porn, whatever turns you on. After that, prepare your mind to know you will either succeed or get rejected. Dont try to do any tricks to make her like you. Charge some courage until you feel it. Be honest with your emotions. Ready? Ok, you are now confident in a sexual mood and full of some courage. Proceed your request through some flirty comment on her. Forget about showing interest too early. Dont think. Just feel. Know that there are only two options. She liked your comment? Great, keep going and set a date. She rejected you? Great! Thats exactly the girl I dont want. There you go.

Frank Yang has done 5 meo dmt several times in the past and after his enligthenment he says those trips were just awesome states, but not real enligthenment. Another one confirming the bias. Read the caption.

Hey guys, I know this will sound crazy, so before you stop reading or think im bs you, try to consider it for a second. Im not joking. During the past month, things have started to dissapear out of nowhere in my house. Some examples are my favourite necklae. Nothing has ever been lost from my garments chest. Then the charger cable of my wireless Headphones disappeared. I saw it that same day it dissapeared out of nowhere. Then my piano notebook notes. And the most fuck up thing happened. I left 2 burritos in my oven yesterday to eat them at night. When I went to look for them they dissapeared. This last event is what has made me think there's something strange going on here. My mind cant believe its paranormal, cuz is too strange. My only conclusions are, theres either some alien around going invisible or using psychic abilities or a troll trolling me around. I dont know if it could be some type of message. The most curious stuff is that the lost things are things I like. It feels like pinching my ego. But im just supposing, I have no idea nor knowledge about this stuff. Its actually becoming a little bit frustrating to loose this stuff and have no idea where the fck it might be & how it disappeared.

@Red-White-Light I will consider such possiblity, until someone explains to me how my food in the oven dissapeared out of nowhere. The other reason why I think its possible, is cuz I had an experience with a sucubus in the past touching my stomach when I was laying down in my bed. I just found out this to be a phenomena on paranormal activity done by spirits. Nvm, im gonna contact a psychic.

@Arcangelo LMAO, I knew I shouldn't have spoken about this. Nevermind everyone, just ignore this thread. I get why Leo and many others just shut their mouth.

@justfortoday @Godhead I know there's a fine line between this description and memory loss, but my memory is pretty good. Actually, it wasnt burritos, there were 2 "quesadillas". I ate 2 in the morning and let the other 2 all day in the oven. I ate rice for lunch and saw the quesadillas still in the oven. Then at night, they were not there. Neither on my fridge. Its super weird. Im telling you and I have not found any of the lost stuff. The few times I have ever lost something I know I lost them somewhere and cant remember. But these things were in their place. And when I wanted to get them they were not there. I will just see If things still dissapear. And If I get to find any I will confirm it was me. But theres nothing confirming it, loosing all these things without even knowing it. Specially food I saw, bruh. It sounds funny and too crazy to be true, but im not joking lmao.

Most of you know Frank here. But even more interesting than him is the case of his gf. Who was his guru. She says she was already entering the state of non locality and non duality at the age of 3. That it has been her normal way of living till then and she cant comprehend very clear what is to have a separate self. I have always taught why cant we be born at least almost enlightened. I dont understand how God can play hide and seek so genuinely. Enligthenment should be easier. Anyways, check her out, shes the type of gf I want. What the heck does genenetics (physical) has to do with enligthenment (God/Truth/Infinity/Non physical)? Im talking about it, cuz even @Leo Gura has mentioned such thing.

Guys, as you know enligthenment is no joke nor an easy task. So, I would like to know from your personal experiences how have you dealed with this dilemma in the past. This also goes to any enlightened being in the forum who sees this. My dilemma is the following. Is it better to get your shit together in your life and then go full enligthenment or get enlightened & dont suffer but be a misery in the game while it lasts. I have tried becoming enlightened in the past and have been close to it, dedicating from 1 to almost 2 years of really nothing else but theorical spirituality, psychology and insane meditation. No social life, no focus on money, no girls, not caring much about my career, job etc. Then I got tired (my ego dragged me down again) because, yes i was feeling amazing and had peace, stillness, clarity, bliss etc. But, this created alot of external drama. My family thought I was going crazy. I almost got kicked on my job. I almost quitted college. I broke up with my last gf. And no, I wasnt affected at all. I was willing to die physically with no problem whatsoever. The thing is, after that I realized like whats the hurry? Too much speed is from the devil. Maybe even in enligthenment... But, is like, after seeing God I dont want to waste such opportunity and time. But at the same time I would like to have my shit together. Like, what if after enligthenment I become a homeless and I could have prevented that by learning how to trade and build some business that I can still run after liberation. From what I have seen from most enlightened people, they continue doing what they did in the past, unless they just become teachers. But, only because they learned that skill in the past. And they do it now as an art form. But if you get enlightened with no skill, you will have no interest in learning it. Which is the case with most sages in India living on the streets. Its like every year passing by without total liberation is hurting me because it could be a golden year from my youth to explode and explore. Or am I just exagerating? And now with so many business and investements opportunities but also so many gurus talking about the apocalypse... Its a dilemma on which to make the best investement and dont regret. Maybe this is also happening to someone else here. What do you guys think?

@Mu_ Im gonna try my best to be divided and undivided at the same time. I just cant be in the middle, at least during the process. Either all in or all out. I tried that chilled way in the past and I had 0 results. It wasnt until i was tired like just tired of all. Ready to die even physically that God revealed to me.

@BipolarGrowth Theres already a thread on this, but i like it. Nice. I also like this one

@Eyal Bor Her energy is going to drag you down at some point. The fact that you accept her energy, communicates to your subconcious mind that you and her are a match. So either your energy frequency will have to lower on to her or she will have to catch you up. If you are not present enough/Aware, negativity will eat you. You are saying yes unconsciously to her negativity. At some point you might end up needy too and enter a loop with her. This happened to me with my last gf. I didnt want to hurt her, but she was needy, so i started acepting her bla bla bla, and ended on her frequency match. Your consciousness/intuition will tell you what is right even thou it might appear as negative paradoxically. When I ended my relationship it was hard at first, but it was the best thing for both on the long run. Another thing you can consider is ending the relationship but stay as a friend to her. Be clear on the things you like, but you can support her on anything you think you might help. The last thing both of you can do is in "The Power of Now" it speaks of these stuff about relationships. If you make the commitment to ascend to a new presence and "She" agrees, that might save both of you. But just hear the inner voice. Its there speaking. Literally.

@iamthat Well, from personal experience when im deeply rooted in bliss I-I, I just dont feel like doing anything. I dont want to talk, act or even think. Everything seems so vain and phony in comparison to truth. I dont know if its because im still in the process and have not arrived to stabilize in Infinity yet. Some teachers say that we loose our old motivations. And I do. I dont feel like making money, just doing things for the sake of it and its hard. I almost have to force my self. Its like I just want to die already, go mahasamadhi. Stay all day in the bliss of Iam. Another thing is, when im practicing alot of spirituality I loose my social skills and desires. My personality just drops and people find me a little bit weird. Like theres something wrong. And I get that, its actually a radical change from a charismatic personality to almost a silent no body. Right now I have lost a bit of my spiritual momentum and have just lived in the mundane for a while. Im trying to look for new strategies on how to integrate both successfully without causing external drama.

@Johnny5 @Johnny5 How did you discovered your authentic desires?

@Demeter Just got the book man. In what chapter and topic is the dilemma?

@LfcCharlie4 This is something I want to know. Like, Im studying law, but at the sametime I dont want to be a formal lawyer. I have needed to change my motivation on it as to just learning the law and structures of society for general knowledge, business and self defense. It has been hard. And now am about to graduate. When I had my first deep enligthenment I wanted to quit college. So, Its like if I go that deep again I might not finish. Idk, maybe I just created a self limiting belief on that. At the same time, I find it hard to resonate with it. I force my self. But i want to finish it, just to get the degree. I resonate more towards trading and investements. But as I said, motivations change. What if I also dont want to be an Investor? Wtf im I gonna do lmao. Why do motivations change? Can i still be a Lawyer and Investor? You see what I mean. Instead of doing so much zig zag, if I just get the damn money first, I can then without worries go to Infinity and beyond. I will have the money to do what I want after it. Also bro, have Ananda and Ramaji thought you anything similar about this topic? Why ananda quitted her money? Are they rich?

@Aaron p Yeah. But, when I say no money, girls, be alone, etc. Is just for the sake of creating spiritual momentum. Its hard to go deeply within while being distracted by over sensations, pleasure and creating more karma aswell. After enligthenment I would gladly do all those. Also, Leo is not enlightened. He is so close to it that he dont want to really attain it. He has my dilemma but on a different context. He thinks that he might not want to do any more actualized.org, or get sex, leave his family or just stop living his nice comfy lifestyle.

@Artsu Enligthenment of course but who knows if I will want to be a teacher after liberation. But before you personally get enlightened what would you choose to do first and why. Im not talking about ego fulfillment. I mean like you are ready to die for truth. Would you order your life needs first through some business and then get enlightened. Or just choose enligthenenment and cause alot of drama for you and the people in your surroundings. Seeing where things go. You might die and not make money. How will that impact others? You will be saved but as an incarnation it probably had not much value as it could had. Im talking about having the best life possible. Not rich and lost. Not saved and a misery.

@Byun Sean Thanks for your reply man. Actually I suffer very little and have good self-esteem. I only wanted to run from suffering when I was learning all this stuff. But, what I mean most than anything is if its better to cover our life survival needs and then become enlightened or vice versa. I dont care about ego fulfillment. What I mean is simply ordering our lives before total surrender so we can have a better time than vice versa. Im starting to think that it if you dont have a plan covering your survival needs after enligthenment can be a hurdle. Cuz the mind is off and you are to re learn how to socialize from a new source of being and think all the old concepts matrix of society. Like, if you were ready right now for enligthenment, what would you choose. Enligthenment and fuck everything by trusting and see where things go or create a system that will cover your needs so that you can get enlightened without any extra hurdles.