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Guys, please help me get this right. Especially the enligthened ones here. To begin with, my personality is very dominant and I have a strong character by default. I used to have so strict boundaries I would even repell people off. I was getting off balance and started to inflate my ego with negative emotions. This helped in a superficial sense, but the cost was extreme pain. I was lost and didnt knew about truth/spirituality. Then, I discovery spirituality and start healing my self, becoming extremely open, passive, positive, etc. The complete other extreme, cuz I dont know how to be two things at the same time. I can only be whatever Iam choosing to be in the moment. Now, the problem comes as I got healed and alot happier, I notice that fighting, being confrontational and arguing (things that keep boundaries), actually were counterproductive to my spiritual growth. If I give energy to something or someone of a negative energy, I have to full myself of that energy/interpretation as well, which brings negativity (like getting mad everytime) and it inflates my ego, completely destroying any spiritual progress or healing done before. So, I used to accept many bs, even thou I wanted to smack the hell out of people, just not to fck the progress. Well, I just couldnt keep up. All of that bs accumulated made me explode and tell almost anyone without exception that was going against my boundaries to fuck the hell off, ready to smack them any time. I lost most of the spiritual work done before (not all, luckily :D) and now i have a fckng negative aura with alot of work to be done again. The problem with the path is, people see you with your guard down so they try to take advantage and bully you. They cant identify with your new clean energy and authenticity. They may see you as weird for not being like the rest or following the crowd, etc. How do you guys keep up in the path and set boundaries if a boundary comes from the ego protecting itself by manifesting itself as it gives energy to itself? While what you want is to get rid of itself. Do you need to give it energy and then heal as fast as possible? Like inflating your ego and popping it constantly, lol? Also, if any awaken read this, how do you deal with boundaries if you have no ego, no self preservation? Hows the game in your case after trascendence? Cuz the majority of awaken beings live mostly in a position where they are not to be interrupted by randoms.

If you want to get the vaccine but are unsure, simply wait. Whats the hurry? Take care of yourself and stay healthy, then later when things are clearer you may act.

Lately, I have been contemplating death and realized that the unconscious rejection of it was making my present experience dull. As I accept physical and psychological death I feel more open and alive. This notion of been attached to creation, positivity and life was actually closing my experience. I feel more complete, alive and relaxed now as I embrace and welcome death and destruction, just as life and creation. Its beautiful! As a practice, make death a mind game of really not knowing if you will be here tomorrow. You will live this moment intensely instantly! This should be thought in school.

@Heart of Space To learn alot, you still have.

PS. 12 year old vid

Trending walking alien seen by bikers on India a few days ago. If the video looks good they say its edited and if it looks bad its also edited... Who knows, but with all the UFO stuff going on lately, it doesnt surprise me.

@Tim R True or not, the possibilities of contact are increasing. Even Bentinho here saying thats a UFO in the pic, who knows. https://www.instagram.com/p/CPkzRVwAoti/?utm_medium=copy_link

@kray Hahah. See, lets say its real, people's minds just wont accept something so paradigm shifting as that. They would go on an existential crisis instantly.

@Frosty97 What positive stuff would one get out of there? Since mostly it is used for illegal, negative and dark things.

What all the teachers wont tell you. Especially if you are new.

Nithyananda sex scandal with actress Ranjita. Then he negates it saying it was a spy cam, then say its fake video edited in different interviews, lol. I truly feel he is enligthened, yet still a scammer.

@Leo Gura The sweetest jerk I've ever seen

After seeing Leo improve his marketing strategy to reach more people, I wonder if @Leo Gura pretend to grow an instagram account for actualized.org. I dont know about Facebook, but at least having someone managing your instagram account would be crucial for the growth of the channel. Am saying, cuz maybe as you are not so much into social media, have not seen the importance people give to it. You would sip into peoples pockets without their consent by paying publishing which is not so expensive in IG. And the short clips could be posted in there too.

@sda I think theres a page, but its dead.

@Preety_India You are projecting too much. First of all, you can disable comments on social media to disallow trashtalk. Second, I see sadhguru having alot of success in social media. No one trash talks. Remember, such insta page would only attract like minded, open and interested people. Those not interested will not stay there for much. They wont understand shit and just keep going their way. Third, you dont need to quit completely on instagram. You personally can make another account where you only follow positive, spiritual and motivational pages. It would program your mind by locking your perception on good.

@Preety_India Not really. And even then, you can still be at both, thou. Dont get your perspective so narrowed. I started as fckng lost ignorant on social media. And the spiritual pages on instagram got my attention by sharing deep quotes that I resonated with. Thats how it all started.

@Preety_India Alright, take the tik tok out. But Instagram and Facebook are fine. You are not understanding my point. Its not about leo liking social media or being recognized. Its to help humanity. And all the masses are all day long in instagram! Just because theres a group that its advanced and has followed leo for long doesnt mean other people cant reach those levels or even higher! We all started as lost ignorants. These people simply need guidance, they are lost by conditioning, but deep down there are many of potential buddhas and krishnas looking their way out unconsciously. They just dont know how the hell to get out of it. Remember the story of buddha? His family didnt want him to see the reality of the world. He lived in a bubble. Well, the same goes for the masses. They have not even had the opportunity to see and think about another posibility of life. They only know their daily conditioning.

@BipolarGrowth I see @Preety_India I mean, if those are his reasons its cool. But if you truly want to catch on people, it would be dumb to ignore this or rationalize your way out of it. Actualized.org on Instagram + Tiktok and subtitles on youtube. Thats like the End Game of ignorance to humanity.

@Preety_India Try to only consume spiritual content. Whatever your consciousness gets its attention consistently it becomes attached to. But you have to make it your world. You cant be going out as much, thinking about crap, watching news, movies, hanging out with average people, eating junk, watching porn, listening to mainstream music, etc. You have to lock your perception as to that only spirituality exists (mostly). Its like thats your main and only priority. To think about spirituality, read spiritual books, watch enligthened gurus talk most of the day, repeat mantras and do the practice. If you do this alone without mixing up with other things, you build a spiritual ego. You change the way you react and move also. Trying to make everything as supportive as possible for awakening. Its becoming obsessed with truth. If you get momentum on this, your mind will be programmed to think only and mostly about spirituality/truth which will help you keep going automatically to enligthenment. The mind will think it has catched you on an ideology, but the ideology in this case its the truth. Ofc, Its still and ideology, but you will ultimately trascend it, it will be a constant and automatic fixed reminder. The ego will pop itself at the end.

A quick trick for those of you trying to get enligthened or accelerate your spiritual process. Make yourself angry. Am not saying to chase enligthenment after getting angry at life. What I mean is, if you have already chose consciously and calmed, to pursue enligthenment, knowing its consequences to your life situations. Then, get angry as a technique. Find reasons from your past in your psychology that truly make you angry, then observe the observer out of this anger. Its like a nitro. Thats how I got to experience my first awakening. Now, only do this if you are alone, never in public.

@Evoke Notice that approaching women can be a fearful situations to some men, but mostly is not. Observe, that the fact of approaching a women looking for a certain response (needy-expectation) is what creates the fear. And then you think its the women, but not, Its your expectation. If you approached your boss or anyone trying to get something out of them, you get anxiety. There are two ways to work on this. First, you need to create a spyral upward self-fulfilling prophecy of being attractive to women. You need this belief first. How to create it? Go to bars as a habit without any expectation. Just be there to become unsensitive and comfortable with the place. After that, just small talk to people or say something, ask something, whatever. Then do the same to many women and see their responses. You will read her facial and body language. But you are not looking for anything yet. Then, after you get many good responses (first impressions) from her, your subconcious will create the belief that you are attractive to women. Then, you can simply talk to them, build some tension, and control the direction of the conversation. Ofc, Its better if you practice what arguments you will use to move the conversation to your will and make it come as natural. Its a slow but sure process that builds up and escalates quickly. Get the foundation right, the rest will come. You basically get to a point you just talk to women randomly and trust your mind the rest will happen by its own. But only after certain practice. In regards to your question of Conciousness and pickup. Yes, enligthenment can absolutely improve your pickup, but that doesnt mean she will like you or that you will even want to do pickup at such point. She may like you for a while, while she sees your glowing aura. But after getting to know you, she will loose Interest by not having much in common. Your dating chances reduces to mostly only girls in the spiritual community. What you can use from spirituality for pick up is. Calming your mind, deep breathing, relaxing and presence. Before you do a cold approach, if you get into a very Present state, you will be anchored in your presence for a while, which means loosing all fear, thought, expectation and becoming luminous. This can help you approach more easily, yet dont depend on it. Grow your confidence by getting the shit out of you beaten up.

@The0Self If those mantras and attitudes are working for you, great. Keep it going. To progress in the path you need spiritual ego. Programming the mind to constantly remember and think of Truth in a fixed way is a must. Other wise, you get lost and distracted.

@Preety_India You are saying things you know nothing of, lol. Let @Leo Gura see this thread. He will understand. If he doesnt wants to do it, thats his problem. But the truth of the matter is there even if ignored.

@The0Self The thing with waking up in the Middle of the jungle (Matrix) is that you literally start acting like God. So, your survival-antagonist filters are dropped. So, if the people around you sense your armors are down, you can get fucked up easily. How? Well, first of all most of them get jelly on you because of your calmness, joy, silence, freedom, peace, love, self suffiency and being different. This last one, "being different" is the highest trigger, because they cant identify with you, which means to their survival mechanism that you are a stranger (threat) to them. See, even if you are a stranger but act like the majority of personas in your culture, they can identify with you and feel comfortable. And, when you give this image of not having an armor, theres no room of respect for you. Some people might like you like this, but they wont take you serious. Why? Because of your lame body language, facial expressions, Calm tonality, little personality, and all the other honest signals. When you are on the spiritual path, no one understands you. They think theres something wrong with you. So they see you as a weirdo. You wont care about any of this, but this doesnt mean it wont affect your image as a body-mind organism. If you are not financially free, people at work will spread rumors about you, play games on you, lie, try to get into your head, influence you, make you unhappy and even get you in problems to be fired. Your ability to fight back reduces with out a strong ego persona, theres not much influence coming from you and social control. Also, your thought process is very reduced due to Spiritual practice, so your mind wont work the same way at that moment. Its a difficult position to be at. You are mostly under others will, externally. Also, as you do alot of spiritual work, your awareness has gone inside and its carrying momentum in that way. When awareness its inwardly focused with momentum, you are not very mindful of social situations, because you are beyond socializing. You can socializa, but its different. You dont see with the same lenses and skill of the average person who socializes everyday in his culture. Meaning, you appear as an introvert to the World, so be ready to be attacked as socially weak. It becomes annoying at certain point. And this is not to say, something leo has never mentioned. When you start to crumble your World-ego, you loose confidence. Your ego is the anchor of your consciousness to be mobile and skilled in the matrix. Thats why you see many people in the spiritual community trying to become confident, but its counter intuitive. You can only get absolute certainty in the spiritual path, at the final stages or enligthenment. At the initial, Middle stages its hell. All your worldviews/frames start to shake, so your confidence levels that were anchored in them. The main thing you need for confidence is a strong mental framework. You need strong self belief in you and an ideology (I use truth/spirituality to make the trick). Literally, if you want alot of confidence, get in a challenging/conflictive situation. While you are in it, your mind will delude you to believe in things so you can act out of them, which will create an identity. Do this repeatedly and you will have a pumped up proud ego (true confidence). In my case, i discovered this by randomness. I went through my awakening in a third World country and challenging enviornments. The situations were getting more conflictive so i had to grow an ego to survive. By learning how to deal with enviornments and studying them I got alot of confidence as a by product. Not even by trying to get it. Now, I have knowledge, higher awareness and confidence (ego-strong mental frame). Fastest way, go to war and come back alive. Im not saying to avoid spiritual work, but to do it strategically. If you push it to far, all will go down. Investigate negative beliefs, emotions, relax, be present, breathe well. This can improve you superficially.

@Preety_India Leo is not going to manage social media. Im saying to get someone to do it for him. People spend more time on instagram than any social media. Its very difficult to find Leo on youtube and be interested on listening to one of his long videos. Also, average people are not thinking its possible to even find such type of advice on youtube or even do research or think of asking for it. But, if he appears on IG it will quickly catch people attention, cuz everyone is just scrolling down aimlessly. They wont have to even click, just scroll and give a chance to what leo is saying. And if the clips resonates, they will want to listen more and then probably listen the long videos. And, if people like the clip they will share it with others via IG, or even repost it. It can go viral and spread on IG by itself more easily. See, sadhguru knows its a need not to be ignored so he adapts to the times. Its not about liking it or not. But seeing the truth of the matter.