Ajax

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  1. yes and it's good we agree that you are insane ?
  2. Haha good one, I am going to memorize that quote a recite it in a crowded restaurant, just to provide entertainment. Dinner and a show, baby!
  3. Lol I am just messing with you ? I didn't say anything is insane. If I don't like something, I am sure as hell not going to choke down the whole damn thing. I also found it funny that you think drinking down a bottle and enjoying it is insane. ?
  4. Really? Really? It's insane to stop something you don't like?
  5. Haha, this put a funny image in my head. Imagine begging in the street for quarters to buy some condoms from the vending machine. Oh man, I got a good laugh.
  6. There are 3 people in the relationship. You, her and jealous. In this case, three is a crowd. If there is any chance you have to kill that 3rd wheel ( the shadow) For me, selecting a mate requires that they have certain traits and not have certain ones either. I would not ever date a woman with promiscuous tendencies.I got better things to do than deal with that shit.
  7. Oh God I hope not the bride was 87. My dad married my mom in his mid 50's He had my younger sister at 64. He was an amazing father He did pretty much everything a younger man could. You'll need lots of naps though!
  8. I can't evaluate your dating techniques since I am not there to watch them. You mentioned logical conversations... Hmm that flashes a warning light in my mind. Would you provide examples of how these conversations typically go? A helpful tip to keep in mind is that a date should require very little thinking and a great deal observing. You should keep most of your time on her. Pay attention to her non verbal cues. It would be time well spent to study the awesome threads on body language that are on this forum. You should pay attention to signs of interest or let her initiate subtle flirting. Other than that, dating is the time to get to know her. Your job is to keep the conversation light and fun. Being funny is a major plus. There are many other things to cover but, it's time for me to stop!
  9. Could you? Yes. Should you? Well, that depends on your character. Will it help you get where you want? Or will it distract you and delay your goals. No one can answer those questions but you.
  10. Because the law is based on past experiences rather than truth and ethics ( which I define as implementing the best possible solution). Imagine taking on a task and making a new rule for every new problem and decision made. Eventually, you are going to create an ungodly mess of complexity. Just like any chaotic game, the people are structured in a hierarchy so that the semi strong will take orders from those above them because they are comforted by the fact that people are below them so they can feel secure. Anyway, the advantage of the hierarchy is that someone will make a decision and many people are willing to go along with it because they feel secure in their position. These legal decisions are then made by the top accordingly to the time, place and their worldview. So now that some decisions are made and this massive mess of systems is starting to run smoothly so they don't want to really mess something up so they go along with it every if it isn't so relevant anymore. That is one perspective of many, but I am ready to do something else lol.
  11. That just means that you have never seen truth. Just because you have not seen Truth does not mean others haven't or that it doesn't exist.
  12. 1. Truth is important because it is what remains when all the lies are removed. If you even saw a sliver of truth, you would not ask that question, you would simply know. 2. Everything that is not you is a lie. 3. To experience, you create stories, these stories take a life on their own and then you believe these stories to be true. 4. A "person" can only see truth, only when an identity is created, the lie, things go weird. What happens is that you know Truth when you see it, but you imagine that you don't. So, each identity is looking through his own screen that distorts truth, he knows it's true what he sees but is oblivious to the distortion. So no, it isn't what you decide it to be. It is what you see and its appearance is changed by the limitations of the identity. However, it doesn't really change. 5. " What does it mean for something to be true?": You can't explain what it means. It supersedes words. You can only describe some characteristics. For me an experience was just infinite awesomeness. Imagine the most awesome experience that you have ever had in your life. Then double that experience, then double that experience, and keep doubling that experience to infinity. Another is that you just Know. I can't explain in other than that, it is just know. pure clarity. There is no such thing as complexity, just infinite simplicity. I can't go on about it, it just defies human experience.
  13. Your opinion about love is simply a lie. That's all. You have no idea what infinite love is. If you did you would know the answer.
  14. 1. In video games you are just copying someone’s design. It seems easier to paint when you are using a “paint by the numbers” canvas. 2. The flow of a skill comes after years of practice. 3. Your “theory” that successful people don’t experience growing pains is pure trash. 4. Sorry. You reap what you sow. That’s just the way it works. No cheat codes for you.
  15. Circuit training routines are perfect for me a few times a week. I generally mix cardio with mobility calisthenics, that way I am exercising my heart and training my muscles to function more holistically.
  16. Marriage. Been There, Done That, Over it... for over 10 years. Great for the experience. Would be willing to do again if circumstances present themselves. I find that lasting happiness is cultivating meaningful relationships with people. That is where I spend most of my time and energy. I would rather have a good friend than a lover who is not a good friend, if that makes sense.
  17. And you think power over others is going to help? I'm sorry, but no. It will be good for you to find someone to talk to. There isn't much anyone can do on a forum. This is something you can't handle alone and I urge you to find a professional that can guide you through whatever difficulties you are facing. Be well, friend.
  18. Indeed, I try to follow the 3c's of writing, whenever possible.Clear, Concise and Compelling. ( The 4th is correct, which means accurate form and information, but I avoid that one when I can,lol) For me, writing, is a form of discussion with myself to process what I have just read. This allows me to understand the material in my own way and come up with new ideas I can make my own. That way it sticks with me better. Accordingly, if I must take notes, I design it to be used in my personal writing discussion. I often write the notes in the form of a question with this purpose in mind.
  19. Well, I think you have much more to worry about than narcissism, my friend.
  20. Could you summarize what you just said in 1 or 2 sentences, please?
  21. Your not ready, God never gives you what you can't handle
  22. Yeesh, tough day at the office, bro? Wanna talk about it? What is really on your mind?
  23. Cut out the news and social media, then you won’t see it anymore. I am sure the 200+ year old Brazilians who got their county back from mean old Portugal are no longer holding a grudge. They are just mad they can’t make churrasco like you guys. Get over it bro, build your life and relax.