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LMAO omg, that is just brilliant!!

Not at all, believe me I am much, much more harsh and disrespectful of my own thoughts, Ideas and conclusions. I look to break them down and rebuild them, so I appreciate the feedback. I would not have put this subject out here if I did not expect or want at least one insightful viewpoint. An old saying: Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answer to... No if I can get my friends and partners to follow that rule @Spiral @Yimpa Thank you for sharing. What if you put you entire trust in someone. I mean everything. Relationships is based on trust and every facet of that relationship is based on that trust. Complete and utter faith. To the point that if that trust is shattered, so is everything about that relationship. Reduced to rubble and smashed into ash. How can you stay if there is no relationship? What in the world is there to discuss? What was is no longer, it is gone. Nonexistant.

For me, the role of masturbation is training the machine. It is only allowed release after 3-5 orgasms. This allows me not to be a servant of the dick wants and allows me to the attention units to serve and explore every aspect of my partner. The more you put energy into your dick, the more the dick rules you. If you can freely direct the flow of energy, you have much more control over your sex drive. Sex should not be a reaction... that is a sign of a lack of consciousness. @LSD-Rumi However, i can understand and appreciate that you do what you do. The intensity of the experience must be beyond belief. Thanks for sharing.

Really? Princess... Really? The magic is that you don't see the magic right in front of your very eyes. How are you pulling that off? Common Male (Archetype): God! it is so hard to get laid or get a girlfriend. I am going to stay this girl's friend for years so she can fall in love with me. I am going to spend hundreds of hours reading about how to attract women. I am going to spend hundreds to thousands of dollars to buy drinks for ladies so that they can see I have value. After years, nothing is working. Let me try pick up. Let me spend thousands of dollars on pick up. Let me endure the pain of thousands of rejections. Finally found a girl. Oh God, she's crazy. THIS B**** has fucked up my life!!! I hate women! I F#$%ing hate women! I gotta spread the good word, women are evil, let me scream it from every mountain top! Modern Women are EVIL! EVIL I SAY!!!#RP #MGTOW Joe: Oh, God... A storm is coming. Guess I gotta lay the pipe extra good tonight... #HolyJoe! Answer in a nutshell: Everywhere! If you can't laugh your ass off, then you can't see the magic. #really#really

Lol, that will require some back story. I used to be fascinated with the story of Ches McCartney, the goatman. I took a motorcycle ride across the country, when I was young, while collecting stories and investigating the man by any means I could conceive. It turned a simple drive into one of my most amazing adventures, following the crumbs of the goatman. The stories I could tell. A real American legend and mystical being. So that was an inside joke ?

It means no baggage.. If current girlfriend, Sharon, has many male friends. I am not going to get upset if they hangout or go on a trip together. Just because ex gf, Lola, used constantly having sex and continually lie about having sex with her friends.

No, I don't see. I understand a relationship is a set of agreements. Accordingly, if we officially start a relationship, I want my most important set of agreements to be crystal clear. I agree to be completely trusting, which means no jealousy or controlling behavior. Even if she goes out clubbing and comes home at 6 am. Or if she disappears for days at a time, I will give her the benefit of the doubt. I state my commitment once and only once over the course of the relationship. So I don't see how it is based on fear, don't all relationships have ground rules? Hmmm interesting to consider. A little of both. I guess, I am a bit eccentric. I can work or get involved in something for days to the point that I forget to eat. I am sometimes say a little too much what is on my mind, or not enough. it's a weird balance. However, I do find it distressing that women find me odd to say the least. I can be quite charismatic when I need to be. Yet, I do have difficulty letting women know the real me and when I do, it is quite distressing that they would reject my personality. I attempt to circumvent this by maintaining a routine by tasks to complete that are supposed to be to be conducive to maintaining healthy relationships. Thus, I do frequent contemplation of proper and acceptable conduct several times a week..Thus, I do try to delete repulsive traits yet it becomes a point where it really does become inauthentic. I would say, I am unhappy. I'm leaving. I would not t ever betray her trust, and cheat... Ever. I am baffled, what kind of person would do that!

@LSD-Rumi Great questions and awesome response. Thank you for replying❤️ 1. It's happened multiple times with different partners. 2. I tell her upfront, I will trust you 100%. I will give you any benefit of the doubt. I will not exhibit insecurities or jealousy at all. I keep my word. 3. You betray me you are dead to me. 4. Why do you say fear, I don't see how that fits in the equation. 1. She decided to make the decision to cheat. She decided to hide things. She decided to act unethically.She decided to betray my trust. 2. I do accept the fact that I am eccentric and difficult to understand. I understand a relationship comes with a risk of betrayal. I do know my personality flaws. 3. I do understand the concept of taking 100% responsibility, which is why I am constantly learning and adjusting. It is why I am capable of trusting someone fully regardless of what happened in the past. Well, that doesn't sound very loyal to me. At all. Are all women like that? If so, then it is a very good idea to never commit to a woman and just sleep with women on a whim. I would not wanna fall in love with someone like that. Nuh uh, not me... Hope they find their sucker lol

Awesome man! That is admirable. ? No more headache, no more mess. Of course, some people have different cutting ties. That is the challenge.

Haha haha ? Now, THAT is rich. Magical being indeed. Thanks for sharing.

To answer the subject title of this thread: You are not alone in your struggle to date. In fact, this is one of the big reasons why Red Pill Philosophy and MGTOW are getting more popular with some men. They have had enough of all the trouble! The sad thing is that RP often does get them laid or at least see enough potential and they buy into it. Many men just don't care anymore, they feel the game is rigged and they can't win no matter what they do. Dating isn't even the hardest part. Not even close. It can get much, much worse. It freaking sucks lol. I have som Norwegian friends and they are importing women from like Korea and the Philippines, lol and they are pretty happy.

Excellent questions!

Well, what is mature love? What does it look like? Will I never know mature love because I have never heard of Absolute selflessness? I gotta learn absolute selflessness, before I know what mature love is? If Mature Love is Absolute Selfishness, why use the word Mature love? If I am missing one piece of absolute selflessness will mature love be lost to me forever? Then you jump to God... what does he have to do with mature love and absolute selfishness? This is a bit complicated for me... can you reduce this into its simplest form?

Nope, just personifying for the sake of using language. Replace with whatever word you choose. The label rarely matters.... well unless the label has a skinless skull and 2 crossed-bones, then the label matters, it matters alot.

Keep a close eye on they/them. People tend to be on their best behavior when they are being closely watched.

Then the mystery is solved. It has been written by the one by davecraw by clarification of this post. Unless, unless it is all a lie! OMG lol don't mind me, I am just being silly.

I don't subscribe to the concept of ego, because ego means your identity, your ideas about ego become entire new identity. The hell is that! To hell with ego! Nope, I don't even know what the hell is self-love is. What is it?

Right now, I am thinking that I see= black markings on a screen that contain ideas that I would like to consider. Who is typing it, does not enter my mind. So, I have to make up an answer on the spot. I am faced with questions. What do you mean by typing of this post? Do you mean the one that I am currently writing? Typing is an action, reading is a reception. Since the question is offered in present tense and I am currently typing, Obviously, I think I am the one typing this because I can feel my fingers clanking on a keyboard and can see a letter pop up after a button I push, so it leads me to the notion that I am the one currently creating the effect. This is my current perspective. I think people try to force high-consciousness concepts right up their ass, hoping that shit will stick. Well, good luck with that one, lol.

Why does a thinking/pensive face often have the mouth of a sad face?

I see that I got a little to philosophical for the practical nature of this section of this forum, so I will try again. It solves problems. It makes life better. It is worth doing. No, there is knowledge, power, position, health, relationships, management, technology, abilities and money. Truth is simply a higher power. Nonexistence. 1. I have no idea what you mean by "absolute material truth" so any response will be off the mark. The creation of civilizations is a major subject, I don't know what you really want to know with this question. 2. What? The point of civilization is to make your life easier by working together with others. What are you asking? Do you even know? 1. "The Truth will set you free". A very basic meaning is that it is liberating. 2. When you start learning, experience is the only thing you can rely on. You can only judge truth for yourself. However, the more you advance, the more you realize....experience is bullshit. It is about realizations, then it is about realizing those realizations are bullshit and on and on....But now, we are going off the rails... Great stopping point.

The more you understand, the less you need to follow the rules. It is there, you just don't see it.

Compliments can make you feel uncomfortable. A complement comes with an expectation or obligation to respond, which makes things awkward. I you use a complement; it should be mixed with a joke or immediately move on to a different subject, because it will give her the opportunity laugh it away, or not have to directly respond to the complement by moving on to a different subject.

That is garbage. Simply a lie.

These are concepts. They are not real. Thanks for sharing ?

White or brown rice? Brown is much more nutritious because it contains more fiber and B vitamins. But I prefer white because it is more yummy and I get a big Buddha smile after eating it. That's gotta be spiritual right. is raw ginger good for you? Yes, it is also good in tea. But I mainly eat sushi ginger because it is super yummy. is kombucha good for you? That is what people say. The science is not definitive. And it may contain added sugar. it also contains alcohol. However people swear by it's health effects like probiotics and antioxidants. I find it super Uber yucky so I don't mess with the stuff. I would rather just have some nice hot tea... what are the most important supplements to take? It depends on your situation. I take a good multivitamin/multimineral capsule, some protein, and some fish oil. Also a probiotic. That is pretty much it. This body is healthy so only the basics are needed. best book to read on nutrition? You know, I don't believe I have ever read a book on nutrition. Leo has" rich food/poor food" in his booklist. If you want to learn about health issues and nutrition, then I would recommend you check his list. Personally, I took a few nutrition courses and some lectures offered on audible.