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What? Of course there are. That is a total lie. He might deserve to be in jail for life but that doesn't mean there are no good things. That is a very prejudiced thing to say 2 wrongs don't make a right. Would you have been saying this if he had never decided to become the president? I should hope not.

Did you take Leo's LP course? I had a little trouble knowing what I wanted to do with my life and it really helped. I discovered that it is writing, and passive income work... but after a long time of failures, I learned that I have to maximize many of my qualities and attributes that I discovered from the course, before I could even face my LP. In fact, I spend so much time building these character traits that these traits will not let me stop working on my LP lol. For instances of my traits is to learn, so I made a commitment to learn about one subject a week, just the basics like a "Great Courses" set of lectures or a dummies book on audio or something. I did this for years, and know I just have this need inside of me to learn something about my LP and passive income every week. I mean I really go nuts if I keep trying to put it off, or make excuses or procrastinate, the urge burns like an addition lol So that is my advice, learn your core values and put everything you got into building them.

Yes, I trained the body the same way I would train a dog. Positive reinforcement, practice and repetition.

I could write a book about this subject. I am thinking of at least 20 things off the top of my head. However, I want to reduce it to simplicity. I work out what I always want to have in a friend and then I do my best to exhibit them. That way, I can immediately recognize it in others. I want to be a source of inspiration to others. I want to be sincere, with me you know I will not talk behind your back. I only tell people what I would say to your face. I want to be accepting, you don't have to agree with me to be my friend. I will try to be a kind and supportive as possible and I don't ever want to discourage your experiences or your abilities, however I also want you know that I will always try to steer you on the right path. I want you to know that you can tell me anything and I will never tell anybody else and judge you for anything that you may have done or has been done to you. I will keep your secrets; you can trust me. These I the traits I continually strive to nurture in myself and look for in others.

Nice, motivational words. Boldness is definitely a trait. You will definitely get noticed. Stay firm and people will often change their mind about you. Nobody likes to be wrong, lol. Kudos

To understand something, one has to view it as something that has revolving facets, when you get stuck on one side, that is when the trouble starts. Of course, I understand the temptation of cheating. It is thrilling and exciting. I imagine that the experience is so amazing compared to the boring and mundane world. It feels so good to loved, cared and treated so well. It is wonderful to escape the harsh realities. There is nothing better to feel truly special and for it to be all about you for once, you give and give and it's nice to feel acknowledged and appreciated. It is so good to have all the dreams that live in your mind come out to play and can fantasize about the possibilities and feel joy and bliss even if it is for a fleeting moment. Yes, I know the appeal. I can emphasize with it. I can appreciate it. Even admire it. Atrractive to men and women alike. However, no matter how great something is to him. It can damage whatever is around him. You build a house, insects, plants and trees and animals that depend on that tree are going to die. What you do has a footprint. When people are involved, you got to watch where you're stepping or you are going to damage something you love. Therefore, to build something lasting, it is imperative to conduct yourself in ways that cause the least amount of damage. That means building a relationship on trust. If there is a simpler and easier concept that builds a relationship, I would be so happy to explore and examine it. Concepts like love and compassion and selflessness are nice but esoteric and complex and require years of contemplation to get, by the time you get it, the relationship is long gone and your have to work it out with a new partner require even more years or cocreating the concept. Trust is simple, you believe in that person, you rely on them, you know they got your back, it provides a purity and simplicity, Most important is has utility, it is useful. Accordingly, you have a concept that builds a relationship. Trust. I simply assign faithfulness as a symbol of that trust, because sex is a core part of a relationship for being connected and for having a family. Therefore, faithfulness is non-negotiable.

If I am insignificant and replaceable, and so is he… why would I want to commit to him? What is my role in such an arrangement? To what extent are my obligations to him? If he is feeling sad and blue because he lost his mom, but I am really hot for this new guy, why show I care about my boyfriend? My new guy is making me feel great and my boyfriend is kind of dragging me down. He is replaceable and insignificant, if he loves me, he will be happy I am following my joy and living my best self. If I am replaceable and insignificant, why should I marry him? Why should I live with him? That is really going to cause pain and trouble. It is better that we have a good time together when it is convenient and avoid dealing with the trouble. He is replaceable and insignificant to me. I could find a better guy at any time. I should keep my eye for an upgrade. He has so many problems, annoys me, this new guy is just so more interesting, he makes me laugh and every time I am with my boyfriend, he is always complaining about something and making me feel bad, about something. I am starting to fall in love with this new guy, he doesn’t make me feel away. I want to spend as much time with him as possible. How do I know if I really need him, he will be there for me? How can I have a child with him? How much trust is in a relationship such as this? Where is the commitment you can trust this person implicitly? Can I trust such a person with my inner deeper secrets. How do I not know he is not talking behind my back, sharing my secrets? All of this stress, complication and uncertainty is bending my sanity. How can I give myself fully to my partner? My child? My profession/life purpose, my friends, My spirituality. How can I raise my child right if I can’t even get my relationship right? if all these difficulties are coming at me? My big question to you is how can such a perspective form and maintain trust and survive almost any challenge that comes your way and maximize your long-term goals including the optimal raising of children, financial security and fulfilling any personal dreams and attaining your material desires? That is why I have a no tolerance policy. I don’t need trouble; I won’t deal with that kind of trouble. From a certain perspective, it can appear to be a fact that you are insignificant and replaceable. What we need is somehow powered agreement that we can always follow. It needs to be super simple, so that you can follow it and easily return to if you fail. Rules are made to be broken especially if they are forced on you. That is why religion is so pervasive in civilization. It addresses certain problems and provides the solution. That is why I choose the no tolerance policy. We make a very, very simple agreement at the inception of the relationship. To me it is a simple commitment of trust. Not quite marriage vows, but close. If you want to see other people, break up with me. What do you wanna be with me for?

I haven't spent any time studying twins. To what extent do their body languages stay in sync and deviate? It seems they are so in sync that you could determine their real feelings by observing the disparity between the two. Especially If Kevin has a discordant reaction regarding a topic in one video and Keith having a similar discordant reaction regarding the same topic in another video. Therefore, the truth would actually be in the discordant details. In other words, typically, when one studies body language, they find a baseline and note and process the deviations from the baseline. However, due to the fact you are observing two people and they are intentionally being facetious... the deviations from the baseline are in fact the baseline!

Your enemy could say 100 good things about you but still covertly do anything they can to destroy you when they think you are not looking. Words represent intentions. You have to take special care to pay attention to the meaning behind the words and why they are saying them. #Allwarfareisdeception #Terribletest!

What? Why? I have been studying deeply into Agreements. Very Deep subject by the way. It is the core component of any relationship. From animate to inanimate/ material/immaterial. Why do you think the relationship is the same? I don't get it. If you value truth, you don't appreciate lies. If truth is one of your core values and the one you allow to be closest to you is creating lies, well not only is your relationship being based on your lies, but you are being separated from your core values. The way you choose to live your life. Why? Weak? What do you mean by that? Could you explain. Like the idea of having a person assigned entirely to them? Please explain... Where did you get that idea? Who told you that? Why? How did you come up with that idea? It is curious and I would like to explore more.

Too bad, I sell them 2 for a quarter. Guess I am going to have to sign it myself...

LMAO omg, that is just brilliant!!

Not at all, believe me I am much, much more harsh and disrespectful of my own thoughts, Ideas and conclusions. I look to break them down and rebuild them, so I appreciate the feedback. I would not have put this subject out here if I did not expect or want at least one insightful viewpoint. An old saying: Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answer to... No if I can get my friends and partners to follow that rule @Spiral @Yimpa Thank you for sharing. What if you put you entire trust in someone. I mean everything. Relationships is based on trust and every facet of that relationship is based on that trust. Complete and utter faith. To the point that if that trust is shattered, so is everything about that relationship. Reduced to rubble and smashed into ash. How can you stay if there is no relationship? What in the world is there to discuss? What was is no longer, it is gone. Nonexistant.

For me, the role of masturbation is training the machine. It is only allowed release after 3-5 orgasms. This allows me not to be a servant of the dick wants and allows me to the attention units to serve and explore every aspect of my partner. The more you put energy into your dick, the more the dick rules you. If you can freely direct the flow of energy, you have much more control over your sex drive. Sex should not be a reaction... that is a sign of a lack of consciousness. @LSD-Rumi However, i can understand and appreciate that you do what you do. The intensity of the experience must be beyond belief. Thanks for sharing.

Really? Princess... Really? The magic is that you don't see the magic right in front of your very eyes. How are you pulling that off? Common Male (Archetype): God! it is so hard to get laid or get a girlfriend. I am going to stay this girl's friend for years so she can fall in love with me. I am going to spend hundreds of hours reading about how to attract women. I am going to spend hundreds to thousands of dollars to buy drinks for ladies so that they can see I have value. After years, nothing is working. Let me try pick up. Let me spend thousands of dollars on pick up. Let me endure the pain of thousands of rejections. Finally found a girl. Oh God, she's crazy. THIS B**** has fucked up my life!!! I hate women! I F#$%ing hate women! I gotta spread the good word, women are evil, let me scream it from every mountain top! Modern Women are EVIL! EVIL I SAY!!!#RP #MGTOW Joe: Oh, God... A storm is coming. Guess I gotta lay the pipe extra good tonight... #HolyJoe! Answer in a nutshell: Everywhere! If you can't laugh your ass off, then you can't see the magic. #really#really

Lol, that will require some back story. I used to be fascinated with the story of Ches McCartney, the goatman. I took a motorcycle ride across the country, when I was young, while collecting stories and investigating the man by any means I could conceive. It turned a simple drive into one of my most amazing adventures, following the crumbs of the goatman. The stories I could tell. A real American legend and mystical being. So that was an inside joke ?

It means no baggage.. If current girlfriend, Sharon, has many male friends. I am not going to get upset if they hangout or go on a trip together. Just because ex gf, Lola, used constantly having sex and continually lie about having sex with her friends.

No, I don't see. I understand a relationship is a set of agreements. Accordingly, if we officially start a relationship, I want my most important set of agreements to be crystal clear. I agree to be completely trusting, which means no jealousy or controlling behavior. Even if she goes out clubbing and comes home at 6 am. Or if she disappears for days at a time, I will give her the benefit of the doubt. I state my commitment once and only once over the course of the relationship. So I don't see how it is based on fear, don't all relationships have ground rules? Hmmm interesting to consider. A little of both. I guess, I am a bit eccentric. I can work or get involved in something for days to the point that I forget to eat. I am sometimes say a little too much what is on my mind, or not enough. it's a weird balance. However, I do find it distressing that women find me odd to say the least. I can be quite charismatic when I need to be. Yet, I do have difficulty letting women know the real me and when I do, it is quite distressing that they would reject my personality. I attempt to circumvent this by maintaining a routine by tasks to complete that are supposed to be to be conducive to maintaining healthy relationships. Thus, I do frequent contemplation of proper and acceptable conduct several times a week..Thus, I do try to delete repulsive traits yet it becomes a point where it really does become inauthentic. I would say, I am unhappy. I'm leaving. I would not t ever betray her trust, and cheat... Ever. I am baffled, what kind of person would do that!

@LSD-Rumi Great questions and awesome response. Thank you for replying❤️ 1. It's happened multiple times with different partners. 2. I tell her upfront, I will trust you 100%. I will give you any benefit of the doubt. I will not exhibit insecurities or jealousy at all. I keep my word. 3. You betray me you are dead to me. 4. Why do you say fear, I don't see how that fits in the equation. 1. She decided to make the decision to cheat. She decided to hide things. She decided to act unethically.She decided to betray my trust. 2. I do accept the fact that I am eccentric and difficult to understand. I understand a relationship comes with a risk of betrayal. I do know my personality flaws. 3. I do understand the concept of taking 100% responsibility, which is why I am constantly learning and adjusting. It is why I am capable of trusting someone fully regardless of what happened in the past. Well, that doesn't sound very loyal to me. At all. Are all women like that? If so, then it is a very good idea to never commit to a woman and just sleep with women on a whim. I would not wanna fall in love with someone like that. Nuh uh, not me... Hope they find their sucker lol

Awesome man! That is admirable. ? No more headache, no more mess. Of course, some people have different cutting ties. That is the challenge.

Haha haha ? Now, THAT is rich. Magical being indeed. Thanks for sharing.

To answer the subject title of this thread: You are not alone in your struggle to date. In fact, this is one of the big reasons why Red Pill Philosophy and MGTOW are getting more popular with some men. They have had enough of all the trouble! The sad thing is that RP often does get them laid or at least see enough potential and they buy into it. Many men just don't care anymore, they feel the game is rigged and they can't win no matter what they do. Dating isn't even the hardest part. Not even close. It can get much, much worse. It freaking sucks lol. I have som Norwegian friends and they are importing women from like Korea and the Philippines, lol and they are pretty happy.

Excellent questions!

Well, what is mature love? What does it look like? Will I never know mature love because I have never heard of Absolute selflessness? I gotta learn absolute selflessness, before I know what mature love is? If Mature Love is Absolute Selfishness, why use the word Mature love? If I am missing one piece of absolute selflessness will mature love be lost to me forever? Then you jump to God... what does he have to do with mature love and absolute selfishness? This is a bit complicated for me... can you reduce this into its simplest form?

Nope, just personifying for the sake of using language. Replace with whatever word you choose. The label rarely matters.... well unless the label has a skinless skull and 2 crossed-bones, then the label matters, it matters alot.