Ajax

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  1. Ego: Imagine always wearing these sunglasses that fuck up everything you see, which fuck up everything you know. Everything you think and do. Everything you feel and believe. Everything that makes your aware. Imagine wearing those sobriety goggles but infinitely trickier. Awakened God: The eventually realization that you are wearing these trick goggles, and really Knowing. Realizing that everything you thought you knew before was utter garbage. Of course, there are stages of insanely powerful realizations in the process. To explain infinity would take infinitely long to explain. To reduce as simply as I can. The Ultimate Realization. Because you are living your life on a concept of the truth not the truth. You can't fit all 5 oceans into a shot glass. Now, concepts can be incredibly powerful... like the concepts related to science and technology. But they are nothing compared to higher level concepts, that lead to higher concepts, and so on... that eventually lead to truth. To simplify: You could, most people do, but you will be missing out. Ever heard of blind leading the blind? That is enlightenment in a nutshell. It would be useful not to think of it as a goal or destination, but a Knowing. A major limitation we have is that we don't know the difference between truth and falseness. AT all. Imagine Jane has made these amazing realizations about love and shares them with John. John isn't a total idiot and he realizes..."Hey" there is some Truth here I am going to keep that with me. And yes, John now has some Truth. The problem is... he didn't have the same realizations that Jane had. You see, so it is a partial truth. A weaker and deluded version. So now you have some partial Truth that is filled with Bullshit. Now John starts talking about these amazing revelations with friends with his own shit-Truth concoction and the friends will then create their own Shitty Truth. Remember when I motioned about the Trick-Goggles that are composed of near infinite deception? This is one feature of deception. So, when you say it is stripping of all beliefs. It is true, but at the same time it is very deceptive. You have to be able to really know what that means. You could Say EGO is nearly infinite deception. But unless you can really understand that you are going to be deceived. Even If I tell you that Ego is like a set of super tricky googles that completely distort your perception, causing you to limit your consciousness of God and it was one of the highest Truths you could put into words. You should not accept it as True. Because it is not True from your perspective. You did not make the realizations about it that I did, you did not conceptualize it like I did, you did not make the deductions that I did, you did not contemplate it like I did. IT IS NOT TRUE FROM YOUR PERSPECTIVE! Even if what I tell you gives you a magical feeling, The most magical feeling, like stardust flew into your face and it completely changed your life. You should not completely accept it as true. IT STILL IS NOT TRUE! That is the great deception. If you are close to something that is True, the EGO will weaken and you will feel amazing, better than you have ever felt. But before you can enjoy it. The EGO will conceptualize it in its own way that Is not true. You experienced truth and the EGO rearranged it for you. So that in essence even the concept of enlightenment is an idea that someone's ego fucked up. You are getting a Shitty Truth here. Some truth mixed with a giant pile of steamy hot shit. People have no idea what enlightenment is, they just don't. Your realizations about enlightenment and suffering are worth much more than what anybody has ever taught you about the subject. It is ok to learn about them, just don't place any value of them unless you have had your own cognitions of magnitude even then... beware of booby traps. I dunno, what do you think?
  2. That really is beautiful. To deny love is to limit yourself. A limited being has limited willpower. Limited willpower means he can only serve his impulses which in turn hurt the ones he loves. To hurt the ones you love, is to deny more love to yourself and the cycle continues... To love yourself, is the way to not limit yourself and keep hurting the ones you love. Yet another reason to implement a no tolerance... I love myself too much to let my partner hurt herself on my account!!! Oh man I am dying!
  3. A creative person creates. Simple. How to be truly creative? Demonstrate your creative abilities at every opportunity. Reject any excuse or justification for not doing so.
  4. Does that include a body? Could you not own a body and still be happy?
  5. I have seen wardrobes so big you could literally sleep in them. I would have a hard time fitting in your wardrobe.
  6. @Sidra khanHaha, nice so what is the first thing that comes to your mind when someone tells you that they have laundry day?
  7. @Sidra khan Congratulations. The victory is all yours.
  8. Eazy, zero. I have absolutely no clothes or shoes in my mind.
  9. This picture got you thinking too much... Time to minimalize your thinking. You are a non-minimalist; we have to minimalize the non-minimal people for us to achieve our state of minimalism. See how a good idea can turn into a whooping stick to rule over others? That is the problem with a "revolution". Am I being over dramatic? yes and NOOOOOO DAMMIT!
  10. It is a helpful method to reduce your desire to chase after things if it is negatively affecting your life. However, the survival game demands that you have the ability to get what you want, when you want it (within reason of course). If you limit that ability or resist demonstrating that ability, it can invite problems. It can be useful if you are facing certain difficulties. But, I reserve my right to obtain whatever I choose! lol
  11. Neurotic can be described as nervous. If you can't sleep, you are usually moving around or keep thinking about things you got to do or should do. Your body/mind can't sit still. Tell me that is not being nervous!
  12. What? Of course there are. That is a total lie. He might deserve to be in jail for life but that doesn't mean there are no good things. That is a very prejudiced thing to say 2 wrongs don't make a right. Would you have been saying this if he had never decided to become the president? I should hope not.
  13. Did you take Leo's LP course? I had a little trouble knowing what I wanted to do with my life and it really helped. I discovered that it is writing, and passive income work... but after a long time of failures, I learned that I have to maximize many of my qualities and attributes that I discovered from the course, before I could even face my LP. In fact, I spend so much time building these character traits that these traits will not let me stop working on my LP lol. For instances of my traits is to learn, so I made a commitment to learn about one subject a week, just the basics like a "Great Courses" set of lectures or a dummies book on audio or something. I did this for years, and know I just have this need inside of me to learn something about my LP and passive income every week. I mean I really go nuts if I keep trying to put it off, or make excuses or procrastinate, the urge burns like an addition lol So that is my advice, learn your core values and put everything you got into building them.
  14. Yes, I trained the body the same way I would train a dog. Positive reinforcement, practice and repetition.
  15. I could write a book about this subject. I am thinking of at least 20 things off the top of my head. However, I want to reduce it to simplicity. I work out what I always want to have in a friend and then I do my best to exhibit them. That way, I can immediately recognize it in others. I want to be a source of inspiration to others. I want to be sincere, with me you know I will not talk behind your back. I only tell people what I would say to your face. I want to be accepting, you don't have to agree with me to be my friend. I will try to be a kind and supportive as possible and I don't ever want to discourage your experiences or your abilities, however I also want you know that I will always try to steer you on the right path. I want you to know that you can tell me anything and I will never tell anybody else and judge you for anything that you may have done or has been done to you. I will keep your secrets; you can trust me. These I the traits I continually strive to nurture in myself and look for in others.
  16. Nice, motivational words. Boldness is definitely a trait. You will definitely get noticed. Stay firm and people will often change their mind about you. Nobody likes to be wrong, lol. Kudos
  17. To understand something, one has to view it as something that has revolving facets, when you get stuck on one side, that is when the trouble starts. Of course, I understand the temptation of cheating. It is thrilling and exciting. I imagine that the experience is so amazing compared to the boring and mundane world. It feels so good to loved, cared and treated so well. It is wonderful to escape the harsh realities. There is nothing better to feel truly special and for it to be all about you for once, you give and give and it's nice to feel acknowledged and appreciated. It is so good to have all the dreams that live in your mind come out to play and can fantasize about the possibilities and feel joy and bliss even if it is for a fleeting moment. Yes, I know the appeal. I can emphasize with it. I can appreciate it. Even admire it. Atrractive to men and women alike. However, no matter how great something is to him. It can damage whatever is around him. You build a house, insects, plants and trees and animals that depend on that tree are going to die. What you do has a footprint. When people are involved, you got to watch where you're stepping or you are going to damage something you love. Therefore, to build something lasting, it is imperative to conduct yourself in ways that cause the least amount of damage. That means building a relationship on trust. If there is a simpler and easier concept that builds a relationship, I would be so happy to explore and examine it. Concepts like love and compassion and selflessness are nice but esoteric and complex and require years of contemplation to get, by the time you get it, the relationship is long gone and your have to work it out with a new partner require even more years or cocreating the concept. Trust is simple, you believe in that person, you rely on them, you know they got your back, it provides a purity and simplicity, Most important is has utility, it is useful. Accordingly, you have a concept that builds a relationship. Trust. I simply assign faithfulness as a symbol of that trust, because sex is a core part of a relationship for being connected and for having a family. Therefore, faithfulness is non-negotiable.
  18. If I am insignificant and replaceable, and so is he… why would I want to commit to him? What is my role in such an arrangement? To what extent are my obligations to him? If he is feeling sad and blue because he lost his mom, but I am really hot for this new guy, why show I care about my boyfriend? My new guy is making me feel great and my boyfriend is kind of dragging me down. He is replaceable and insignificant, if he loves me, he will be happy I am following my joy and living my best self. If I am replaceable and insignificant, why should I marry him? Why should I live with him? That is really going to cause pain and trouble. It is better that we have a good time together when it is convenient and avoid dealing with the trouble. He is replaceable and insignificant to me. I could find a better guy at any time. I should keep my eye for an upgrade. He has so many problems, annoys me, this new guy is just so more interesting, he makes me laugh and every time I am with my boyfriend, he is always complaining about something and making me feel bad, about something. I am starting to fall in love with this new guy, he doesn’t make me feel away. I want to spend as much time with him as possible. How do I know if I really need him, he will be there for me? How can I have a child with him? How much trust is in a relationship such as this? Where is the commitment you can trust this person implicitly? Can I trust such a person with my inner deeper secrets. How do I not know he is not talking behind my back, sharing my secrets? All of this stress, complication and uncertainty is bending my sanity. How can I give myself fully to my partner? My child? My profession/life purpose, my friends, My spirituality. How can I raise my child right if I can’t even get my relationship right? if all these difficulties are coming at me? My big question to you is how can such a perspective form and maintain trust and survive almost any challenge that comes your way and maximize your long-term goals including the optimal raising of children, financial security and fulfilling any personal dreams and attaining your material desires? That is why I have a no tolerance policy. I don’t need trouble; I won’t deal with that kind of trouble. From a certain perspective, it can appear to be a fact that you are insignificant and replaceable. What we need is somehow powered agreement that we can always follow. It needs to be super simple, so that you can follow it and easily return to if you fail. Rules are made to be broken especially if they are forced on you. That is why religion is so pervasive in civilization. It addresses certain problems and provides the solution. That is why I choose the no tolerance policy. We make a very, very simple agreement at the inception of the relationship. To me it is a simple commitment of trust. Not quite marriage vows, but close. If you want to see other people, break up with me. What do you wanna be with me for?
  19. I haven't spent any time studying twins. To what extent do their body languages stay in sync and deviate? It seems they are so in sync that you could determine their real feelings by observing the disparity between the two. Especially If Kevin has a discordant reaction regarding a topic in one video and Keith having a similar discordant reaction regarding the same topic in another video. Therefore, the truth would actually be in the discordant details. In other words, typically, when one studies body language, they find a baseline and note and process the deviations from the baseline. However, due to the fact you are observing two people and they are intentionally being facetious... the deviations from the baseline are in fact the baseline!
  20. Your enemy could say 100 good things about you but still covertly do anything they can to destroy you when they think you are not looking. Words represent intentions. You have to take special care to pay attention to the meaning behind the words and why they are saying them. #Allwarfareisdeception #Terribletest!
  21. What? Why? I have been studying deeply into Agreements. Very Deep subject by the way. It is the core component of any relationship. From animate to inanimate/ material/immaterial. Why do you think the relationship is the same? I don't get it. If you value truth, you don't appreciate lies. If truth is one of your core values and the one you allow to be closest to you is creating lies, well not only is your relationship being based on your lies, but you are being separated from your core values. The way you choose to live your life. Why? Weak? What do you mean by that? Could you explain. Like the idea of having a person assigned entirely to them? Please explain... Where did you get that idea? Who told you that? Why? How did you come up with that idea? It is curious and I would like to explore more.
  22. Too bad, I sell them 2 for a quarter. Guess I am going to have to sign it myself...