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@Enlightement It sounds like you just gave up. Spiritual work is not for the weak minded. The spirit does not bow to cowardness and weakness. So, it is your choice of course... but good luck in your spiritual work. You have just made it much harder for yourself.

@Butters I did coach in the past. Nowadays, I just run properties that I own. But, to answer your question... It was 9-17 hours a day just reaching out, writing email, calling prospects, etc... Just grind bro. With the right mentality, it isn't as hard as it seems, but it does take long hours and "thinking" on your feet.

@Enlightement It took you about the same words as a high school essay to assert that you don't care (385 words)... That means you do care. If you don't care to take care of the things you care about... well, it is going cause you to care a lot less about the things that you should care about. You become too careful... Haha... I'm just playing around. Look, all this resistance is a good thing... but you have to keep going and not stop. You need the mentality that you have already achieved your goal and never stop until you get there. Even if it kills you. It is all about mental toughness. If you fail, note the improvement and keep going on. It is only failure when you stop.

You just want a girl, don't you! lol can't BS me...

@Butters Haha, nice one. I don't need to pick up women. I just enjoy playing life and opportunities present themselves. Just last month I was doing a speech in a Karate seminar for a friend. It was just as a favor for a friend... and a $500 fee. I actually ended up with about 15 numbers and even when out with 2 of them. When you just go out and play around with no expectation, meeting women isn't really that hard.

Just do some work. It doesn't matter what, just put everything you got into something. The best it can do for you is give you a super tough mind.

The book that gives you the knowledge to complete your targets in the most productive and efficient way possible.

Don't consume, create. Simple.

Just participate. When you solve other people's problems, your own become more approachable. If you are only watching the game and not playing in the game of course you are going to get bored.

Do both. Nobody can stop you for doing it all.

Well, he certainly does display unshakable confidence. However, you don't need him to create that attitude toward life. Just be confident. All you got to do is sort out the bullshit.

See my response here: Other than that, I would suggest contemplating the moment you decided to be cautious and careful about being around people. It relates to confidence. You are quite spiritual, but spirituality needs to be balanced with actualization. That means handling the things that are not going well in your life. Job, career, relationships. You have to use self-development on these things to be able to have confidence in yourself and your abilities. It could be about believing in yourself. To simplify. You got to be the boss; you can't be bossed around. Build the ability to be the boss.

@not-a-faerie Great questions! You a very deep and insightful person! Well, you will have to realize what love depends on by yourself. I will give you one perspective, however. Love has no barriers. So with this piece of information, you know the more barriers that you, yourself have... The more limitations you have on love. It is a personal discovery. You are beautiful. LOVE

Great information. Good start. I would add some constructive criticism that the idea of the home, in the way you presented it, is kind of abstract. A metaphor allows complex ideas to be connected to an image. While reading, I totally forgot about the metaphor, so there needs to be some adjusting and rearranging there. Here is the first google search for metaphor. "A great metaphor recasts the familiar or mundane as something strikingly different yet truly parallel. It gives a startlingly vivid picture or brings a surprising insight. A bad metaphor fails to achieve the parallel, or the fresh insight, or both. The element of surprise is an important part of a great metaphor." I could not relate or connect with your metaphor. Again, I could be interested in buying your book, but I wanted to give some honest feedback. I think your book has potential. LOVE

To know what you don't know. For example, Love. Do you know everything to know about love, how it works, how to develop it, how to manifests it, how to know source love? Do you know all the types of love and how they relate to each other. Do you really know? Do you really everything there is to know about love? Do you even know what it truly is? Does it even exist? Is it a creation? Or is a reaction? Or is a response? Is it an attitude? What is it? Where is it? Where is it not? Is it the same as Hate? How is similar to hate? How is it different? Am I love? Is Hitler love? Why? Why not? I could think of hundreds or thousands of questions. All someone can do is to shine a light on something they discovered in themselves. It is up to you to see if it is relevant or not to you. If you are lying to yourself, you and only you have to live with that lie. Not many people have the courage and tenacity to "bushwack" and cut through the jungle called self-discovery. They would rather follow a path that has already been taken. What they don't realize is that it goes in circles, and they need to carve their own way eventually. That's something you must discover for yourself. Only you have the answer to that question. When you are confident in what you know, you can easily handle other people's Pov and not be affected by them. You know that they, themselves are asking questions and acting like asses because, they are going in circles too. When you see enough truth and trust your inner truth, it is easy to view the rat race with amusement and love. It is like watching externally, like you were watching tv or something. So, if you are annoyed, you are too involved in the game. Which is totally fine, depending on the role you are playing.

Do you realize that it is practically impossible to make money or distribute philosophy without business and marketing? Other than being a wage slave professor, I mean. Otherwise, great. Keep up the good work. There is still much to explore but it seems like you are on the right track.Kudos

Great, now how are you balancing this with self-actualization? Do you feel totally in love with reality? Are you in total love with your environment? I mean honestly? I mean the material world you live in. The cars, girlfriends, your personality, your enemies. Your job, your freedom, your slavery?

@Someone here How has this statement been improving your life? How has it been increasing your understanding? How is it making you feel better? How is it helping you get where you want to go in life? How is it making you happy? How is it increasing your abilities? How is it solving your personal problems? How is it increasing abundance? How is it making your life better?

@Harman I'm sorry, friend. I don't know what you are asking. If you could simply it for me I would be grateful. Maybe make a short list for me?

I can't listen to him, it's like sandpaper in my ear. I would read about him if I thought he had a chance, but... Well I have avoided the topic all together because of that voice.

Oh... I don't know. I am really unplugged from social media and really don't encounter it in my real life. Soo... Be more like me I guess ?

Just exude love and acceptance. Speak to them in a way they can relate. Be warm and kind, smile and show them you care are are willing to accept what they say with gentleness and serenity. People are quite sensitive and fragile and put many guards and faces to mask discomfort and uncertainty. I know that is a very general response, but I don't really know what you are asking.

Lol alrighty, no more alien talk from me. Unless of course I get kidnapped by sexy 7 foot green alien babes.

@Princess Arabia Wow, really... cool. It's a game we used to play in algebra class as kids with the TI graphing calculators. They spell a naughty word in Leet, lol. Angel... 58008

I see "5318008" everywhere I go. The magic power of abundance! haha, I'm such a kid sometimes...