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Indeed! Perfect appraisal! There is nothing wrong with this idea! 1) Some men say they want youth and good looks. That is not true for all men. They may admire beauty and feminine traits, but that is not all they want. 2) Very true, great observation. 3) Actually, men feel exactly the same but both sides have great difficulty, defining what that means, understanding what that means, communicating what that means. There are some serious communication blocks. 4) Men are wondering the exact same thing about women. Love is only part of the problem/solution. In fact, love alone will not last. Due to mindsets and programming like the idiocies and brainwashing from school/university, youtube, ticktok, social media... There is virtually no quality data available for forming and maintain healthy and long-lasting relationships. To simplify, love and relationships are in danger and doomed to fail because of people's inability to to separate lies from Truth.

Indeed it is deeper. I imagine this is something most guys don't understand. Feelings change constantly does that mean love changes? Love is not consistent because it is related to feelings? How would a man know if it will change if it doesn't seem reliable? What if the feelings are stronger for someone else? What if he is really having some "bad" luck and her feelings change? No right or wrong answer, just contemplative questions. Actually I see it all differently, but I know that goes through men's minds and it builds a wall of ice around their heart... making it hard for men to love.

What is your definition of love in regard to relationships?

Beautiful Post Love it! Thank you for sharing! It warms my heart to see this expressed so artfully! Actually, the only thing wrong with arrogance is whether or not it delivers the expected results. The metric should be on improvement. Not winning or losing. If you start doing stupid things to avoid losing, you are not delivering the expected result. This is coming from a place of uncertainty. Be able to win and lose with the same level of enthusiasm. Thus, Arrogance is a manifestation of certainty. If you feel you can't be strong, without putting others down... making them feel wrong... you are right, you are not strong and you are operating with uncertainty. This is why people often have a problem with arrogance, they recall past experiences where they felt suppressed by someone making them feel wrong. It is a reaction... a dramatization of past experiences. I won't go into humbleness right now, but it is also based on a consideration of certainty and being right or wrong. Confidence is an ability that is also based on certainty. It is important to differentiate between knowing and belief... just as you said... know thyself. Arrogance and humility are related how you deal with other people. Confidence is a more personal thing, how you regard and treat yourself. With a great deal of confidence, you can say with certainty, that you are an immodest man that truly has much to be modest for (as well as state the opposite of that statement). That way you can operate with both + and - and not be fixated on one or the other and be able to express and experience innumerable viewpoints at will. This makes you source. Thanks for the wonderful post. LOVE

@integral I recently responded to a post about intimacy here is what I said: "The word means, to make known. Or innermost. This means that you have so much admiration that you admire the positives and negatives with infinite intensity. This means that you love the negatives of a person just as much as the positives. Even more... Ideally, with highest levels you can love a person being a complete bitch and breaking your most valuable possessions (like and x-box/PlayStation, mobile device) with the same amount of passion and love as getting a blowjob. Obviously, there are levels to intimacy. " Like most things in the physical universe, there are + and - in everything. There are + in your GF and there are - parts of her personality. Actually, it appears from what you said... you are doing a bit of fault-finding yourself. Try this instead: When she brings up something like " I hate the dog"... say wow! Amazing! Beautiful! That is an excellent expression. Wonderful! I l admire your opinion so much! The idea is not to add data, or correct, or change the behavior, or positive reinforcement but to genuinely express admiration. Creating +. We all get a little overwhelmed and start focusing on the minus. We all suffer from being effect, no matter how developed we try to be. Actually, I believe practicing gratitude is not workable in the long run... because you focus on the things you want... and try to take away the things you don't want by intensifying the good things. That is often from a place of effect and trying to resist the bad. Rather, a better spiritual practice is to freely practice admiration. Free, uninhibited admiration good and bad. No journal... just actively creating admiration. Practice on your dog... watch how she reacts; she will be almost mesmerized by your expression of love. I volunteer at an animal shelter, and I have taught and rehabilitated many animals with that one ability... pure admiration and consistent communication. It's the ability I am referring to... not relating your gf to a dog... lol

MEIN GOTT!!! Too much symbolism and interpretation... Truth has no continuation (a part that is attached to and is an extension of something else; the fact of continuing or a thing that continues or follows from something else...Oxford/Cambridge dictionary). Simple is best, nice... and purely simple and beautiful..understanding..

My metric is simple. I either know or I don't know. Viewpoints are infinite; thus, my main activity is in perception and making distinction. Points of comparison. Words, are merely for collaborative efforts. To teach and learn. Thus, they are of limited value. The only thing that is true is what is true for your according to your viewpoint that is continually changing. A lie is a separation (or alteration) from the original unchanging truth. You can add meanings and interpretations, however as they are changing, those are also lies. Thus, all awakenings are lies. Because total awareness of truth as truth is a nothing. Human or even spiritual perception cannot conceive of nothing, because all physical must be a something just as a human body must be glued to a planet or grounded to a solid object. Human perception must be grounded to a "something", but as soon as they can perceive a nothing, they are immediacy pulled into something it is an automatic response, just like gravity and the human body. This is not to say a "nothing" is nonexistence. Which is something as it precedes or succeeds "existence"... A Nothing is nothing, we can identify the nothing as consciousness, but consciousness itself is a something, thus "nothing" is imperceptible to human consciousness.

What is the part of you that causes a person to act irrational and insane?

Simple enough... Empowered women want empowered men. "Woke" isn't exactly empowering to men which can be a significant barrier to self-improvement for men. So now you have stronger females and weaker men. Ideally, you want strong females and strong men. That is the best partnership. Men and women tend to gravitate what they consider to be the best partnership regardless of ideology.

The word means, to make known. Or innermost. This means that you have so much admiration that you admire the positives and negatives with infinite intensity. This means that you love the negatives of a person just as much as the positives. Even more... Ideally, with highest levels you can love a person being a complete bitch and breaking your most valuable possessions (like and x-box/PlayStation, mobile device) with the same amount of passion and love as getting a blowjob. Obviously, there are levels to intimacy.

Wow. Wow. Wow! I love this post!. Yes, that is a challenge that all creators face. This shows your power and magnificence! The thing is you can't make a copy of yourself. It's impossible. That is why it will never be good enough. That is why when someone sees something really beautiful and amazing like a landscape or rainbow and wants to take a picture to keep that moment with them and never lose it.... ultimately to put that photo aside and almost never look at it again. In this one post you artfully described an essence of spirituality. I have listened some amazing musical pieces and actually got to talk to the creators of those pieces and they showed me things about their song that totally blew my mind. Now that I listen to the song again, it is a completely new song with so much depth and scope, but I have to be content with the fact that it will never be an exact duplicate of what the creator had in mind. Although, it is not an easy pill to swallow, it is important to accept that you will lose something in translation. It is important to be ok with that and be willing to move on to the next thing. Believe me, artists are never fully satisfied with their creation. The only thing you can do is just put your attention on to the next creation. What's the alternative? Join the band of amazing artists who sunk into a spiral of depression and self-destruction and marched right into the graveyard because nobody could appreciate and understand what they have in their heart. What path will you choose? Creators know that it is their life's mission to create and keep creating new things and not be trapped by their own creations. Love the post, thank you for making my day! LOVE

There are 2 kinds of people: consumers or contributors. You reap what you sow. Ideally, a person finds the right equilibrium between those two. If someone doesn't understand this, they are too much into being a consumer.

Well, I will suggest taking a more SD Orange approach. Books are often a kind of passive thing, so are videos. You got to get out and do shit. You got to make shit happen. Many times, it is better to learn the good stuff when you put some money on the line. I continually buy courses or enroll in Udemy courses to get knowledge. Passively watching a video is not going to fire up all the cylinders in your mind and get busy making things happen. Leo’s LP course is one of the best investments I made in myself and it gave me the power to really hone in and focus on what I want. Don’t get me wrong, I love reading. I have read at least 20 of Stephen King’s books for fun and to look for ways and ideas to improve my own writing. Action is more powerful than consuming data/information. When you do that, whatever you read becomes so much more powerful.

I have no clue what a serious romantic relationship is, and I question its workability. A lasting relationship is based on a strong bond of agreements, whether it is spoken, unspoken, or written. That is why many religious tend to have longer lasting marriages. A couple subscribes to a religion, agrees to what that religion says about marriage, and practice marriage according to what is written, or what is agreed to by the group(s) they relate to. As for “serious”, and “romantic” … these are just words. Ideas that require additional comparison to be of any value. For example, what does romantic mean? It originally meant knight in shining armor. An image of a hero doing amazing things to impress and win his lady’s heart and affection. Well, that idea has changed considerably today. As far as I can understand it, it mainly means having sex and spending some time together. And what does “serious” mean? Just sexual exclusivity and having a priority in companionship and emotional support? Yes, these terms have far more questions than answers to me. I have no clue… maybe to see if it works or not or make discoveries. Pro: Get into some trouble to challenge the spirit to make something amazing. Con: Not having a clue what you are getting into. One might not be willing or able to handle the troubles that could come your way. Pro: An adventure.

Selfish is a label or an appraisal that someone gives to you. It is a way of judging you and telling you who you are. I don’t agree with that one bit. I define who I am not other people. I decide why I do something, not other people. Selfish is a false appraisal that serves no value and does not explain what I do and why I do it. It does not establish what is excessive or exclusive concern. It does not determine what is the deciding factor of what constitutes a disregard for other people. Selfish is a bullshit concept. It has no value for me in either a self-development or spiritual development context. Am I to agree that I am selfish because some black words on a screen tell me that I am? Lol, nope. Not today. I know I am more than that, much more. Much more. So are you, my friend. Don't let people confuse you and tell you that you are a nobody. Don't let people say you are Autistic or strange or creepy or narcissistic. You are who you say you are, not who people say you are. LOVE

Freedom is the ability to do whatever you want. Human freedom is the ability to do whatever you want; but is limited to the limits of a human body as well as the laws and rules of conduct and etiquette agreed upon by the current or perceived majority in the environment the human lives as well as their attitudes toward life.

I kind of take a conscious based perspective. Accordingly, I don’t have a preset routine. I find it too limiting. One of my goals is to overcome all limitations. As for the Why, I reduce it to the most basic form. So basic that I could state the reason in one word. I can’t tell you that one word, because everyone is different. The only way it will work is if it is truly authentic for you. My word is DISCOVER. When I realized that word, everything changed for me. It isn’t something that I have to force or program or remember. It is what defines me. Everything I do is with the intention of discovery. Even when I am listening to music, I am not listening for entertainment, I am listening to discover as much as possible, the lyrics, the instruments, the beats, the patterns, the mistakes, as much as possible. I am doing this from a place of fun and joy, so it is something that is incredibly enjoyable for me. Funny, isn’t it? When I take a break from work, I am still working at making discoveries during my “free time”. I continually make discoveries every day, hundreds of them, in fact. I keep validating them. People wonder how I can work long hours. It is because, in my mind, I am not working, I am making constant discoveries as it is in my nature to do. The desire for more discoveries keeps fueling me. Essentially, if you have to remember why, you don’t really KNOW why. It isn’t the right why. I am not sure what you are asking. Are you asking about how to keep making spiritual discoveries, while still making money? Well, by only accepting what makes sense to you and what helps improve your life. Existential truths should be applicable in your life if they are of any use. Like I said, my viewpoint is mainly through the lens of finding discoveries. So, if there are some concepts that don’t do it for me, I put it aside and look for concepts that do provide me the opportunity to make discoveries.

@Butters Well, great. I am so happy to hear that you are determined to make this coaching thing happen! It is very rewarding and worthwhile. I can tell you that when you put yourself in those position of responsibility... It helps you grow like you wouldn't believe. You come up with all of these ideas and understanding that will just amaze you. I am excited for you and am excited to learn more about your victories and accomplishments. I know you got this! LOVE.

If you say so, tell me what services am I selling? What programs am I peddling? What advertisements am I selling? LOL nonsense! My direction is toward infinite bravery and certainty. That's all. The spirt has infinite potential and the less cautious one becomes; more potential they have at their disposal. And I reiterate... Advanced Spiritual work does not respect weakness. It will chew you up and tear you to shreds. If this applies to you, well, friend you better get busy raising your consciousness. You can do it, I know you can, but only if you are strong enough to handle it.

I see each and every person as a person with infinite potential. Their suffering is not my suffering. They are creating their own suffering. The more I learn to increase my abilities, the more I can help others escape the traps of their own creation. My issue with selfish is that it is a limiting concept. It's not only me, its "me and+++..."

No. I care deeply for humanity. I can’t agree with that. I know that the stronger I am, the stronger I can be of service of humanity. The betterment of humanity is one of my main goals. Here is the definition of selfish from Meriam-Webster “ concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself : seeking or concentrating on one's own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others” I continually have high regard for others and go out of my way to have regard for others. I will not consider myself “selfish”. That is false.

Well, to make a business profitable. You must have order and structure. These are the foundations. You aggressively hit your targets on a daily basis. Your life is well controlled and planned out. You know exactly what you are going to be doing every day for the next, week month, year, etc... The plan can be flexible at times, but most of the time it is not. Production and results are what you admire and cherish. As for stage green. I am really not sure what you are asking. What is it that you are asking?

Hey, it's your sandbox, bro. Just don't give up, until you have tried at least 15 million different things.

Without responsibility, at least be willing to accept and enjoy whatever terrible thing goes your way. That is the direction you are headed, so if that is what makes you happy, go for it.

A genius is someone who works on their craft and don't stop. That's it.