Ajax

Simple very simple… So beautiful. I find spiritual things to be simple and not complex. The Physical Realm seems so large, and countless moving parts. Chaos and confusion everywhere. Infinitely complex. But when I see infinite simplicity, I feel good and giddy inside. You can find true spirituality in the Aesthetics. The magic of the moment, the drizzle of a warm rain. Dew Drops on roses… Picking up Dandelions and blowing them away. The mystical swirls of smoke as they form and disperse into emptiness. Those things you listed are ideas that you create. That’s what the spirit does. Create, not out of a reason. Just making life happen! Thanks for such a sweet message, Reena. As a side note. People like to Seek, Enlightenment or the Absolute. Well, the problem with that is that Before the Beginning was the decision to create…. Then the creation. So, the more you can create whatever you like, and turn it into actuality; the more spiritual you can be. You can be the creation (in which your goal is to survive and persist in what you call existence) or the Decision to create (which is to give things life and putting joy and love into things, creating the existence you want to have). Keep creating everyone. You can do something about your life. LOVE

# Entry 2: How I can Help? The golden rule is…You help machines (robots) by finding what is wrong with them. You help people by find what is right with them. Problem is the consideration that you can’t do something about it (what’s wrong). That is limitation. Freedom/Solution is the consideration that you can do something about it. (what’s right/correct/good). You help people and improve them by finding the good and helping them find out what they can do. They do what they can… gradually improve what they can do. Never forget to acknowledge and admire any improvement. Finding ways to implement this will truly change the world. A truth is: YOU ALWAYS FIND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. The one thing you CAN do is find something good and improve it. You are perfect and your viewpoint is perfect and you can find the good in something and make it grow. LOVE! Ajax How do you help people?

Entry #1 I Love To Burn The Biscuits! Hello, I go by Ajax.. Something I pulled in from a past life. Anyway… I thought I would write ideas and thoughts just for the hell of it. No meaning, no purpose… Just to have some fun and express ideas. I will start with the title of the blog. It was a phrase I heard a lot in Texas as a child. I never knew what it meant, except it was an inside joke. Just today, I realized I should look it up. I typed it in the Google Search engine, and this is what I got from the “AI Overview”: “I love burned biscuits” is a line from a story about a mother who serves her son burned biscuits for dinner, and the father who eats them without noticing. When the mother apologizes, the father says, "Honey, I love burned biscuits. Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides -- a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!". The moral of the story is about accepting others' faults and celebrating differences. It can also be interpreted as a reminder that life is full of imperfect people and things, and that it's important to learn to accept those imperfections and move forward. “ Hm. I don’t know about all of that. After all, my extended family who spoke those old-time folksy sayings have long passed on. But it is a nice idea to think about. So, I would like to imagine and create my own morals. Or opinion about the phrase “I Love Burned Biscuits” It shows compassion and appreciation for the little things that people do. No matter what mistakes one makes, when there is good hidden in the ugliness… It is all the more special. It is a lesson on how to treat people, friends, loved ones and even those that annoy you. Find the good, intensify the good make it bigger and better. Looking for the good making it glow makes burnt biscuits divine. Poof illuminated bread! lol If anyone is reading this, what is your idea on the meaning of Burned Biscuits?

Awesome Question. Very good question.. thanks for taking the time to read my post! Here is some definitions of the word "Player" from the 1913 Webster's dictionary. Play"er (?), n.1. One who plays, or amuses himself; one without serious aims; an idler; a trifler. Shak. 2. One who plays any game. 3. A dramatic actor. Shak. 4. One who plays on an instrument of music. "A cunning player on a harp." 1 Sam. xvi. 16. 5. A gamester; a gambler. You could say that a Player(player of women) knows how to GIVE women the experiences they want to have? Could you not? When you give, you have to have the viewpoint of what someone wants, needs or how you can help in the best way possible. These "dating gamers" just know how to give women excitement, pleasure, fun, intrigue, suspense and amusement. You have heard of love languages Yes? Well, they know the "love languages" of attraction and you don't. They know how to communicate ideas you don't. They have been playing for years... You can't shoot a couple of "hoops" and expect to be an expert basketball player... when you know the basketball game and know how to play, the game is almost effortless for you. Bottom line, you have to give people and women, what they actually want... not what you think or assume or want them to want. If they are not hooked, that is just an indicator that you did not give them what they wanted or did not sell (communicate) your value well enough. Look at it like this. Have you ever had the greatest idea... and nobody seemed to see it? You told your family, and friends and inner and outer circle how amazing it was... but it was like talking to a brick wall... like it was invisible to them? That's the same thing... the value you are trying to provide to the woman is invisible to them, they do not see it. Why? -The idea is not real to them. It does not exist for them when they compare it to their past or experiences... it's not real. For them... -Things simply don't exists in your (or anyone's) awareness until you create it or agree to it. You have to have the intention to create and use give and receive and exchange to make it so. -The other side of this answer is the ideas of creating excitement, interest and fun and exciting experiences don't exactly exist for you. You don't know how to create them. Ok, yeah... I know this is starting to get complicated so I will simplify it. What I said is relevant.. but it would take me hours to explain the concept... so let me return to giving. When you Give. Just give, but give to all areas of life. Your work, your friends, your goals and targets, your "training" (your self-improvement practices), your health, your finances... give all while maintaining a lighthearted and unserious attitude, a playful and fun mentality, who is willing to experience and admire whatever comes his way. Organize your life to give as much as possible to the parts to your life. You see you give just to give... Of course, you will receive... but if your intention is just to give... without reason... you cannot use that reason to prevent you from giving. I suppose it takes a matter of "faith" to give and give and give... but as long as you keep creating that idea... it will happen as that is the real law of manifesting in its raw form. Of course, you should expect exchange and focus on the areas that give you more exchange as you can give more.... but the more you give, the greater your potential to get. Another way of looking at it is if you wanted to get alot of emails... or leads... you send out (give) an ungodly number of emails and you will get a buttload of emails and responses in return. That's why virtually every online business has a newsletter... to give information of your service and product and get some interested buyers in return. Is this clear or real to you? Does everything make sense to you? @Tenebroso BTW as always when I say "you" I don't mean you personally... I mean it in general. It's not personally directed at you.

1. Who said women like to be treated mean? 2. One should be willing and able to experience the many forms of human experience. 3. Solidity and seriousness is an undesirable condition. One should strive to be less solid and more unserious. A good rule of thumb is if you cannot laugh and smile you are off the path. (if you are off the path, you are lost) 4. The game Life could be said be infinite forms of reaching for something and pulling away from it. It’s a reaching and pulling away. An exchange of giving and taking. (Play your cards right and you are initiating a game of trading of push and pull.. you pursue her, she pulls back.. you pull back she comes toward you) What makes it good/evil is your power of choice and how much you are enjoying the game or not (and vice versa). 5. You give a woman hell, she takes it and gives you hell back. Do you think all the nagging, button pushing, criticism and not being in “the mood” all happened by random accident? 6. The “grand secret” to proper control is real communication. Invest your actions and resources in ways to improve your communication (consistently and on a daily basis)... only this and nothing more. And the magic happens. The rest are in "high powered decisions" like decide to do, decide to like, decide to approach, Decide you can experience anything, rejection or not. Decide to admire decide to create and assume infinite viewpoints. Decide to be willing. Decide to communicate. If you have control over yourself, you can simply decide, and it is. Like decide to move your hand, since you are in communication with your hand you move your hand. 7. I never had problems bringing women in. I simply decide to give women as many happy moments as I can, through conversation (for no reason at all... no agenda, no goal... nothing) and I receive in abundance. That's love... to give for no reason at all... to want to be with women for no reason at all. To share may space for no reason at all... That's what "pulls in women" because I love women. 8. If you have trouble pulling in women, it is because you are unknowingly pulling away from women, you are not loving women enough. You are not giving enough you are only giving a little to prevent from getting hurt... when you do that what are you doing? You are actually taking yourself away from women. GIVE AND YOU SHALL RECIEVE Why don't people do this? Because, of something in the past told you that if you give you will end up with nothing and get nothing in return. That you did it before, but it ended in a bad way. But see... that's the problem when you stop giving you end up dying why? Because to live you have to give and receive from the world. To the degree you don't have that you will lack and have more scarcity and less abundance. You are pulling away from life, which is dying. The result is more seriousness, solidity, unhappiness, lack of energy, loss of life... who is the one pulling away? Who is doing it to themselves? I could get more in depth but I am done.

AWESOME! Glad to hear it. Just keep doing what you know is best! Good! How clever of you! You must really know a lot... nice to meet you!

It's simple. It's a matter of trust. Do you trust either party? Yes or no. Be honest. Do you Trust the Liberal's 100% If you have to think about it or do mental gymnastics, then you have a level of distrust. You are uncertain about something. Right or wrong. The party that you distrust the least gets your support. It's a balancing act... Trump simply was able to tip the scales more in his favor through better marketing than Kamala. When your decision is.. "better than the alternative" you know you are screwed either way. You can cope by thinking your way into supporting your side... but that doubt... that uncertainty lingers. Are the liberals telling me the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth? Am I being lied to? (Same way goes for the other side) How do you earn the public's trust? Especially after the Post COVID crappy years... What is the truth about Biden? Is he really the one calling the shots? Who is the one really making decisions? Indecision and confusion is the road to hell... We have to find agreements that we can all relate to.. what are the key and common denominators that connect us all together?

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Looking for a book? Why? For reasons to justify your non-productivity? You don’t need a book for that… you do great with that all on your own. People have a natural talent at dreaming up reasons why they can’t do something. And they are right… because it is as they say it is. The secret is doing the opposite. Dream up reasons for why you can do it for no reason at all. It doesn’t have to be grounded in reality. It’s just a dream… just dream up why you can for no reason at all. There are steps that you can do be productive. 1. Decide you can do something about it. 2. Do at least 1 thing that you can do. 3. Keep doing it until you get a result. (a win) 4. Congratulate yourself on getting a win an improvement. 5. Know that the definition of success is the total amount of validated improvement. 6. Make it your mission to make improvements by doing what you can do and acknowledge and validate them. Those are your results. Consider those results to be “wins”. 7. When you create many more “wins” and overwhelm the losses by wins… you get to the point where you are being more productive and being able to win and lose with a level of enthusiasm… being able to have a viewpoint that it is just a game and a loss is something you can easily counter with an overwhelming amount of wins (doing a lot of things that you can do.) It’s important to know that doing what you can do is a win… even if you are not feeling great... do what you can do and call it a win. Even if it is to get up, make breakfast and put away the dishes. Just shift your viewpoint and see it as a win. The more you can create such “wins” the more productive you can be. Why does it work? Because you are creating a more causative mentality. The idea is to create a causative viewpoint which creates positive and causative thoughts.

Of course. There is a law of certainty. What is the spirit? Knowingness. You decide there is something you can know. You decide to know. You start looking at things... knowing more and more until you can fully perceive it and know it exactly as it is. The secret is in simplicity. An infinitely complex problem has an infinitely simple solution. When you can know with certainty and total knowingness that "IT'S ME" and what does not appear to be me is just something I am putting there to have the effect of... That you know you know. And it is perfect in its beauty and simplicity than that is as it is... its you... you are it. Your basic freedom is your ability to assume any viewpoint and maintain your own viewpoint... to make any viewpoint yours by decision alone.

Super! Fantastic! That's good. The first step would be deciding that there is something you can know about the post. Then, take a look and keep looking until you find things you can know. The more you look, the more you know. You are putting it there and getting the effect(results) of what you put there. Just look, look, look and look some more. Decide you know, look to pick up data, gradually knowing more and know what you need to know. That is the key step to spiritual practice. Good luck... Peace out.. LOVE

hmm... If I told you I wanted to have a professional basketball championship and I pursue it by " doing basketball practice"... what would you think? A NBA (national basketball association) championship is not a thing for me... until the moment it is. Understand? It may be for other people but not for me. It is not something I have... just the effect... the experience of... not the actual thing its self. A reflection of what is... in proportion to how much you put into the effect of. Do you know where I am going with this?

I see... Begin pursing a thing that is not a thing? Please explain... Also what is pursuing and how do you do it?

Ok, that's good. So what is it that you are looking for?

Well, if you have suffering, you have problems you don't want to have. Problems tend be related to survival... or at least survival potential. Look... Ultimate Truth can be said to be an absence of... It is an absence of things to act with or through. This means an absence of things you can or can't have... Including the absence of problems or the willingness or unwillingness to suffer. You have to remove the barriers holding you back before you can know the nothing-knowingness. As for your other point. Pursue what? How do you pursue an absence? Desire does not tell you what something is, what direction to proceed and how to get there. So how do you pursue if you don't know what it is you are pursuing?

Hey Sugar... I am going to tell you how it is... No BS. The word Actualize means... To make it into a reality. This means that you have to have the Maslow's Hierarchy of needs completed to your satisfaction. I listed them by level starting with "Physiological need." "Think of it like a spine... if one of these levels are not completely cleared and aligned you will have pain and suffering." "A pain in the back" Level 1. Is your body healthy and doing well? Are you sleeping enough? Are you eating having good nutritious foods? Do you have clean drinking water... free of toxins? Level 2. How is your health? Your activity and fitness levels? Do you feel secure in your job? Are you happy with your Job? Is There room for growth or do you feel limited and squashed? Are you satisfied with your living space? Your cars and possessions? What conditions are they in? How are your relationships with your family? Do you have deep meaningful relationships with others? Can you be assertive and not be a pushover... or take criticism and not go on the attack. Can you allow people to be without criticizing? Level 3. Is your relationships and conditions of love and belonging in a good condition? Do you have great meaningful friendships... how deep and meaningful are they? How about lovers/partners if you have them? Or are you 100% happy without them (The key here is your condition of love and belonging)? How connected are you to other people, things, your environment... how much love and affinity do you feel for other people? How much love and belonging can you put out and receive in exchange? Can you allow people to be without judgement and love them unconditionally? (you don't have to love what they do, just what they are without prejudice or anger, hate hostility... that is a test of your spiritual condition and your current position in generating unconditional love) Level 4. Self-esteem is a big subject but look at each point on the pyramid: Confident, achievements, respect for others, individuality. Write them out, find out where you are confident and where you are not. Write out your achievements write what your achievements and things you want to achieve and why and what you want to do with it. Basically, look at both the positive and negative of each point (and every point on the pyramid). Level 5. Your success in this area depends totally on the stability of the other areas. There are laws (technology) ways to know and do things... and you have to be able to use them to not only handle the pyramid... but the insanities of life. There are books I could write on this... but you really have to handle the previous 4 levels first. BE DO HAVE is one of those laws. Think of the pyramid as a massive wall, or window that prevents your entry into the "door to immortality" "it is a massive barrier that separates you from "Enlightenment". The opposite of blind is see. The opposite of light is dark. The Pyramid is darkness you cannot see through. You will never be enlightenment until you handle that pyramid. . You have to remove every piece and clean and clear almost every piece of that pyramid until you can see clearly through the pyramid to... have enough light to "see the truth." So in your current position... Enlightenment is not possible for you. Why? Because you got a big ass pyramid blocking your path. But you could handle that barrier and change your life if you want it bad enough and are willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen. I know this doesn't seem spiritual, but you have to actualize before you spiritualize! Why? What does God do? Turn things into reality. Two qualities of god: God knows. God brings something out of nothing. If you don't know and can't actualize your reality... you are not being spiritual and certainly not being godly. How can you "be" god, when you don't do what god does? Your limited self would rather stay behind the wall and not break through the Actualization wall and then live in fear and doubt... wanting to travel beyond but not doing what it takes to get there. I see this problem with virtually every person here. I myself am still working on this... though I have made a good deal of progress.

To summarize.. your statement. “You are right, but here is why I am right for feeling/doing what I am doing/feeling/thinking… I have a right to feel this way because of what happened to me” Power can be defined as the ability to maintain a position in space. To have a space, to have a path. You lose your power, when you consider that you can be knocked off your path… the feeling of being forces away from what you know damn well is true from you. The feeling that someone has power over you, that you can't control. Well, you can give up that power or surrender that power. When you do that, you are declaring that I am weak… I am effect and he/she is cause… I am weak, and they are strong. Then to prove yourself right, you look for reasons to confirm why this is so. And you always find what you were looking for… Someone has power over me, so I must avoid the pain. Anything you can confront(face something comfortably and fully), you can handle. You can have. Anything that resists, persists and the less of you exists. Whatever you can confront, you can have… whatever you can’t/or prefer not to confront you want. What hurts you is the loss of Havingness. Your justifications… sound good. They sound very, very good. And please keep them if they serve you. You decide your fate, and your life. Good Luck. I honestly wish you the very, best.. and am sending you lots of love.. I sense you are a very good and beautiful person. And you are certainly right in your viewpoint. I see you as a caring and loving person, and I hope you continue to be the awesome person you are. You have a lot to contribute to the world, and don’t stop… keep going. LOVE JAX

Being spiritual is being able to be exterior to the dualities of existence. And the compulsive need to prove yourself right, and not be wrong... is definitely one of the biggest problems and difficulties to be exterior to. It's not just my and your "cross" to bear, but everyone as well. Really contemplating that it is one of life's biggest traps that everyone is a "victim" of including myself. It is helpful to understand and realize that everyone is "right" in their viewpoint. Ever heard the phrase, "whether you can or you can't... you are right?" Any person can create millions of reasons to prove they are right... it is one of our natural abilities (infinate creation creates infinite "proof"). So, your mother is "right" just like you are "right" as well. So you are looking for someone to validate you and agree with you that you are right? Fine, you are right. You are completely and totally right. You have never been more right in your life. You are perfect, and everything that isn't perfect.. isn't you That's unfulfilling isn't it? I am not being sarcastic; I am being totally sincere. It is just you know God is no separation, but you want to feel justified in your decision to disconnect. Sorry but truth and force never mix... and whether I understand your suffering and validate it or not, you will still have that pain of separation "burning your soul". Though I am God... I cannot absolve you of your sins. Only you can do that. Just get comfortable with the idea that you can be right... and everyone else can be right too and you don't have to be wrong because of this. (and like Leo said in the blog, you are wrong, and that is all right) Of course, as you read this, your drive for survival will scream at you, telling you how wrong this statement is... I am not going to judge you for how handle your family. Just know you are the harshest judge of yourself... Just keep practicing love, and go easy on yourself, ok? LOVE

Who's illusion? Who is thinking that doubtful thought?

That is an idea beyond SD Turquoise, and I can understand your Pov. You are right,.. You, yourself can't. I most certainly am. lol Your understanding is proportional to the amount of complete, thorough, and accurate definitions you have. I can suggest one thing, though I doubt you will do it... which is fine. You can call the ability to admire as a divine particle. For example, if I feel a little out of it, I do this exercise. 1. Make a list of all the people you have a close association with. 2. Right 25 things you can admire about the person. 3. Find 3 people and tell them 3 of these things. 4. Repeat step three for at least a week. I for one will do the same process to the excess of 100 people or more a day, if I am in a particular funk. For me, it's effortless to make a conscious decision to be attracted to them. The ability to practice pure admiration, on people and things around me is one of the keys. Believe it or not, you choose. LOVE

Lol. I just have to say it. I don't imagine a gay guy has much bedroom experience with straight women in the bedroom department. But seriously, the more you communicate about something and talk about it, you have a better understanding of it. So, that indicates that they are probably speaking more openly and freely and having a diverse array of conversations of many sexual related topics.

**Facepalm** I guess even God can make mistakes... I have no words... humanity is fucked.... seriously fucked... There is no way in hell, this shit is real... we are in a cartoon and are entertainment for the Overlords... change my mind... There should be an adult Sex Ed class... because too many students were too busy jerking off nonsense. Lol, clearly I am in a bad mood. But, people need education about sex and relationships... badly... so badly. Badly, badly badly...

You are right of course with your viewpoint. I can agree that it is a sign of weakness and a potential red flag.I am one of those that do pay, after all. Chilli, from TLC perhaps said it best, from the song, "No scrub" when she said... "Can't get wit' a deadbeat ass". I get it, I do. You definitely got some Jersey in you. lol I would invite you to consider that it is hard to find a diamond, or a beautiful amethyst on the street. A diamond has to be mined, found, cleaned, polished, cut and formed into something amazing a beautiful... you have to see the potential and then see if you can do something with it. Many men have suffered years of trauma, pain and torment, and betrayal... they are in poor condition. A diamond in the rough, buried in the mine.. in the muck and mud and mold... but there could be something there? I have found it quite profitable to look where those dare not peek. You find what you are looking for. What if there is more than you immediately see? An open mind is the seed of understanding.

LMAO, very, very, very well done... The story of infinite stories... the dog with a head on both ends, looking for its tail... If I will spin just... a little more... I will find my damn tail! Lol, it's so fun to play around!

You know what.. yeah, you are both right in your viewpoint (about the bill debate)… on one side getting dates from guys is often a hustle with some women. On the other side, don’t be petty and do these silly tests.. it’s confirmation bias… If it’s a big deal, just do a cheaper date… if the girl/guy is not into that… screw them. As for me, I am Italian… old school, not paying is a sign of weakness… I will pay… I don’t care, I am confident in my ability to generate money… it’s a matter of pride. I’m not a bum. I take the viewpoint of the boss in my life... dropping a few hundred… fuck it, it’s no problem. You wanna be scared like a rat? Some kitty gonna take a little of your cheese and you gonna be broke? Oh boohoo, what some more cheese with that whine? Well damn, get off that milk bottle and grow TF up. Produce more, be results oriented… be more Abundant, don’t be scared of shortage. When you play a video game, you don’t care if you lose… you may throw a temper tantrum, but you can easily reset and do it again… no problem… is especially if you like what you do. So you feed some lady bum, so what, forget about it (you did your charitable deed for the day, you're a saint)… reset and try again. Call it what you want, it’s a game. And you win by being able to win and loss with a good attitude, enthusiasm and joy of the game. Yeah a relationship is an exchange… you just have to have the right viewpoints… it makes all the difference in the world. You have the viewpoint of some sort of vision of what you want to create in a relationship… the viewpoint, of looking for ways to help the partner with what you have, and for ways for her to help you… Help is the medium of exchange and both of your willingness to help each other should be the measuring tool of the condition of the relationship. Help is not for free, sure you should give freely, and expect and receive freely as well… but one must be aware of the many and infinite forms of help…including, communication, companionship, affection, a smile, a hug… whatever.. (don’t be a shite and invalidate these) You bring light into a relationship in finding the good and bringing out the good, which reduces the effects of the bad. Machines you find what is wrong with them and fix that, People you find what’s good about them and nurture that. Bonus viewpoint- anything physical is dual. So you must recognize the cost of doing something and the cost of not doing something. You can’t have one without the other… one way or another you pay the piper… the best way to solve a problem is to increase the size of the problem, therefore lesser problems lose their power over you. And remember, any time you can't laugh you are off the track... Income (anything good that comes your way), favors the unserious, lighthearted and carefree... because that is survival... reaching for pleasure and withdrawing from pain... how serious can you be? Dead Serious... The more serious you are, the more dead in the water you are... a log floating on the water is pretty dead... so is a turd lol don't be a turd, drop that turd in the water and have fun! LOVE