Scud

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  1. the Budha interestingly, at the time of this post and even now i am reading up on Buddhism. I find that its resonates a lot with what I truly believe.
  2. @BFNK : i totally agree with you on this one . But i just feel like i'm running around like a headless chicken right now . i am doing stuff to change things . But either i'm doing to many things or expect to much to change over a short time. i want to have the confidence to take this one step at a time ,but admittedly i am afraid. i just feel like i'm running out of time for some reason.
  3. Btw this is my my first post here , So Hello everyone ! So basically I am frustrated in a many aspects of my life. I am 27 years old and i feel completely lost in life. I also recently lost my job and i'm financially unstable , which adds to it. I feel its now or never time for me to turn my life around. So i'm looking for some guidance. Reasons Why i am un happy : No direction in life I do have vision of what my life should be - But i just don't know how to achieve it. i Feel like i loose most of my days in thoughts of what could be. what ever i have done till now does not feel like steps in the right direction. Never had a fulfilling positive romantic relationship Never dated or at least got passed the first date. Can't recall the last time i flirted wth a girl. Silly as it is. Its something that is really pain full for me. Starting to loose my self to addictions porn ,marijuana - starting to feeling like doing either or both is the only way i'll get to sleep at night. even worst is that i'm feeling dissatisfied after. junkfood - starting to live off it. Not really sure of what i want do professionally i have been working for over 5 years now as an apps developer and i'm good - but i have nothing to show for it sure i can wealth of knowledge but can't seem to show that in interviews i really want to work on something that will solve real world problems. Not fun toys Strained relationship with family Had a bit of a rocky childhood Very negative role models - both parents Positives : Heath and fitness i was 80-90 pounds overweight. Now i'm 10 pounds overweight i was never athletic but managed to train and complete a full marathon. I also do long distance cycling. I have every intension of completing an iron man triathlon. Music its something i am really passionate about i can sing (well kinda) and i was learning the violin. Things i believe are wrong /i really need help with Keep loosing focus i keep getting distracted and putting my life goals on hold every few months i look back and think where did all that time go. Low confidence, self esteem and love for self i am not happy with myself . i define my worth with respect to everyone options around me. Finding work in what i'm passionate about i really want ot feel that burning passion that i used to feel when i started out . Dealing with loneliness This is my kryptonite - i don't have any means to deal with it yet. Dealing with emotions i am a very emotional person - specially when it comes to people i do make most decisions logically but i get very bad emotional whip lashes when i do So i am going through a lot of the videos here and they are really help full . but i'm more a people person . i guess what i'm looking for a someone to talk to about these things a mentor or something. To discuss how to move passed my problems and maybe point out things that i am not aware of . i'm not really sure where to find such a person either.