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Ego A says ego B is evil

No. Just a meditation with a other label. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yoga_nidra Helps with getting out of your head space.

@Garuda if that doesnt work try sleep yoga (yoga nidra).

No. One cant call it a perspective as that is the egos interpretation. Hard question

All those questions are meaningless. Whats the meaning of life? I dont give a fuck. Where can i eat the best steak? Tell me now! Spirituality is just more fantisy. We stop believing in fairys when we grow up. But make up other shit and think its real. Normal huma behavior. Yes we are all fucked up . Confess that to yourself. You think your special, unique, your opinion should mather to others and is superior. Everyone does. My ego included. Again normal behavior. We egos are so predictable. Recognize this. You are not this ego. You are its observer. The more you see this. The easyer it will be to detach from it. Msg from my ego to yours: fuck you dude for convincing you master that he is suffering.

This might sound rough but you need to be painfully honest with yourself to see thru all this nonesens. When we see people torturing themselfs in some religius ritual we think they are crazy. When i look at you mentaly torturing yourself my ego says the same thing. Trust me that you are able to stop this. You just need some time and study.

Short answer: in your head. When you don't think about it, like when you are watching a movie or something, none of it exists. So is it really more then mental masturbation?

@Garuda bring your mind to your body, away from your head space. Ex focus on how your feet feel when you walk in the morning, and make a routine out of it.

Its all about learning about yourself. And since everyone in a sence works the same, with enouge learning you will know more about people than they know about themselfs.

In short yes. All mental suffering is self inflicted. When you think about a tomato its your choice to think about a tomato.

When i drink to much beer i can feel it the next morning

Everything is a expresion of nothing. You already are nothing that believes its something. Death in that sense only removes believes.

Make a list of 10 things that are not ego.

But in fact its not

Enlightened as fuck

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What is genuinely but a list of requirements for validation Instead of trying to detach from things (which is actually nothing more then more mental masturbation) you need to stop attaching to things. I prefer to call it freedom from ego, as attachment in a sense still happens after detachment, It is however voluntarily and observable. Imagine masturbating without attachment... boooring

Points for creativity . People in that situaltion are most likly not to awnser honestly. However what ya got to lose. Be confident in youself as that has been proven to be the best method. Go get youself some kitty

That question has no meaning. Regardless of the awnser your actions remain the same. Keep up being responsible. And dont fall for this pointless mental mastrubation. If you dont take my word for it. Check what other enlightend people have to say on this. You are doing good

You cant get rid of ego, but you can be free from it.

@Dodoster thanks for giving me your point of view. I see how that could be. I see my ego as a tool to so i guess im looking at it in a different way. I however would be carefull with the true self label as this usualy stems from conflicting egos.

@Dodoster yes meditation rocks. My commend was more in response to the title then anything else. I call internal thing tools to. For ex. PD give you tools to work on things. And meditation is a tool to work on your mind.

.... often misrepresenteded as more then a tool.