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Thanks I will check this one 🙏

Yeah but the times I ran into these folks it just felt weird. Like when a guy was actually really into being chucked he just gave me weird vibes and I wasn't down with it. But there's also regular swingers that are just chill and there's not really that cuckolding inferiority complex involved.

@Leo Gura what is a girl? Should they be treated like a human? Why are we learning all these strategies on how to deal with "girls" like they're some sort of alien creature? Why is this pickup so unnatural? So it goes against nature?

It gets crazier, here they attribute some young guy's deaths to peptide use

I never said that.

Well cocaine is the opposite, it amplifies ego.

Has anyone here done this? I've had a few offers but I always declined. I once went to this place where old people massage each other on a table with oil and and I joined in lol. But not like full on swingers. I also offered doing some swapping with my ex but she hated the idea. I guess I just liked the idea of another chick or couple watching while we fucked. I think swinging is much more prevalent with older couples cause after 20 years of marriage they just don't care anymore and see it as something novel. If she's old then the guy doesn't get jealous anymore.

But the behaviors that got me diagnosed in the first place have been significantly reduced over time as I got older and distanced myself from old patterns and people. In other words my empathy and understanding grew. Turns out that old behavior was just a survival strategy. Possibly I was just caught in deep empathy with my brain damaged father, or somehow emulated the behavior. Like I was literally hurting animals and kids when I was younger and got pleasure from this. But I got lots of love from my mom so the empathy was always there. Also they don't call it aspergers anymore but rather throw it all under the Autistic Spectrum umbrella. So it's the other way around and they've stopped making this distinction.

I have not read the book you all seem to be talking about, and couldn't find much on YouTube. Is there a free YouTube course or something for beginners? Thanks!

Plot twist: Leo was developed by OpenAI.

I highly doubt this. I was diagnosed with aspergers on two occasions; once in my teens and again in my early twenties. What you describe here sounds more that the sociopath interview that Leo shared. All sounds more like narcicism, not autism. Have you even seen love on the spectrum?

Damn right, he's a top public speaker. Just him repeating this "sound effects" sentence a few times just immiduately translates.

Yes and I think the reason Owen goes so hard on psychedelics is because he doesn't want to let go of those illusions.

@Leo Gura Living with pigs, but it's super easy and automatic when you yourself have had sexual experiences as a kid, abusing kids is just natural to you. If you've had narcissistic influences from men in your childhood, you will naturally do the same onto others. As a way of expressing your truth, as a way of expressing your love. Right?

That is indeed another contradiction. He says that it's not about money then goes on to talk about spending $250.000 on his ex girlfriend. So what does he get out of doing that? He says there is nothing more beautiful than spending time with his kids, so why doesn't he save that money for his kids? Or give it to poor kids.