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But that invalidates your own earlier statement. Both conformity and the absence of it must be 100% Tolkien.

Isn't that something? I didn't know there were words that could carry irony.

I've been watching this show, it's pretty neat. Extreme orange masterclass 😁

So the most conformist people in the world are the furthest removed from God? But isn't that place reserved for like .. .serial killers and Hitler? Hitler is quite non-conformist you could say. Or am I just playing word games at this point? I guess non-conformist people don't get lost as easily in the illusions of society, but at the same time neither do the mentally ill, and they're quite lost. Is there any significance to this whole conformity discussion at all then?

I think the point of this thread is to poke through the illusion. How else will we get to the higher stages? More specifically what I mean is: so that we don't 'fall in love' or fall for the illusion of what other people display to us. So we don't think 'that person is so special'.

Thinking for yourself. Following your intuition So are these the only examples of non-conformity?

I've had it many times a girl and I would make strong eye contact in public and immediately she'd look at my dick, especially with sweatpants. I have a small penis but you can't see that, or they don't care. That's about as direct as it gets with a stranger lol. I never approached any of those cause I was too shy, like now all of a sudden I was missing a connection first. But I would bet those would be extremely quick daytime lays, something some people in this thread seem to not believe exist. Someone else posted about sweatpants here too a while back. Some women will literally try to grab your thing by walking really close and letting their hands lose in that direction. I met a guy once who wore a kilt to the pub and he was basically sexually molested by girls all night lol. If you wanna get laid quick, you definitely can. Yes there are cultural differences, this was all in the Netherlands which is both a direct country and a very equal country when it comes to men and women, hence their incentive to be so direct about sex.

Lol I've recently started collecting license plates in my head.

Then you could also say: all other cultures.

Couples who go jogging or rollerblading.

@Olaf my experience has literally been the opposite. I feel like girls wanted to have sex or make out where I didn't want to way more often than the reverse.

@Olaf yes what you say is correct but my point was: I can't remember going on dates to 'please her' only to want to extract something from her in exchange (sex). That seems dishonest. My experience has been girls are hornier than guys but they won't outright ask cuz they can't handle rejection.

Not my experience. My quickest win came at a club where I grabbed a girls hand, we made out and then she asked your place or mine. Was like 5 minutes tops. Other times it was more like tinder dates but I never saw that as playing games for hours, just a date. What you're describing is inauthentic game, I don't think it should feel like a struggle. But tbh I haven't done a lot of pickup.

I just don't get it. Some top entrepreneur 200 years ago worked 80 hour weeks. Now, with AI agents and all the information in the world, we still do it? Seems like a scam. Like some limiting belief that only hard work creates riches. However, it might be more about emersion. If you work seven days, that's what 80% of your mind will go to. But if you also have hobbies, interest, other friends etc it gets scattered and reduced to maybe 30%, not enough to get momentum.

I didn't know Moroccans could swim lol