Butters

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  1. The older I get the more I realize building a large social circle is by far the best way to gain "status" and be more social on the regular, which results in more flow states, which results in more girls etc. I also often don't feel like doing cold approach but not sure if I'm a bitch or it's just not something I'm into at this moment. I'm organizing a few comedy shows this year which will be my main thing so I've already got it going on a little. I also perform stand-up at open mics around the country. But what I want is more girls in my circle who can introduce me to more girls, and then we can go out and meet more girls etc. So I wanna create a snowball effect. Some of my kickboxing coaches have done this and whenever they give the class it's filled with hot girls lol. So to anyone who has done this: What are the fundamental rules and principles to remember when building a social circle? I want it to be as natural as possible all around my interests and personality which is stand-up comedy. I think I know what to do but any tips welcome. Also my time is limited and I'm not really interested in dating apps or anything like that unless it can be automated.
  2. @CoolDreamThanks your rhetoric or what you think you've read has nothing to do with what I wrote.
  3. I've been doing some very cool work on myself lately and my main focus right now is creating the lifestyle business I want so I can travel, focus on my art and start a really cool business down the line. Doing this I've noticed a very interesting trap that I fell into that I'd like to share with you guys. The trap, simply put, is 'identifying as someone who's working on themselves'. You can probably already guess why this is bad practice. For example: V1: "I'm going to reach my goals this week" (there is no other way) V2: : "I hope to reach my goals this week" (and I'll work on it) So what happens when V1 doesn't reach the goals, or input from the outside world doesn't match with the vision? I was very surprised to have fears, frustrations, anxiety come up that I hadn't seen in years. Something wasn't working. Waking up at 5AM to seize the day with 3 hours of morning rituals, facing my fears and working hard, and nothing gets done. So now that I've burned out from this one too many times I'm trying something new. Bite-sized, realistic goals with no strict schedule attached, as that beats the whole purpose of this lifestyle business. No more "putting happiness off into the future" but just living the life I want to live today, while working on my business from a place that seems more honest. Success comes from the present moment. Productivity is 95% a lie as I keep falling into a 'false productivity trap' (feeling productive instead of actually getting shit done). More hours at the computer doesn't equal more income. In fact, more clear thinking away from the computer probably increases my income way more. Seriously I'm not trying to find the cure for cancer here, just build upon my lifestyle business so I can travel a little and save money. There's wisdom is being present and following intuition. Following those intuitive thoughts for what to do next. There's little wisdom in my rational schedule based life. God was I miserable after that last week, I felt so disconnected.
  4. I've only read 1 kratom in this thread, has anyone else tried it? So many mixed reviews online. Probably my best night out sober was on a microdose of LSD.
  5. So by lifestyle business I mean an online business that allows me to travel and am not time or location bound to anything. So basically passive income online. I've had a Etsy store for almost 3 years now that I live from but I messed up financially, I just got lazy. In a nutshell: I had easy access to business loans so I had money. Then even when the numbers went down, I'd have a magical thinking "oh it'll be fine". On the bright side it did give me lots of time to explore my passions and do inner work, but now I have a lot of debt. Now my goal is to expand with more Etsy stores, more online platforms and automate as much as I can. I'm doing Print-on-Demand, a kind of dropshipping. I'm doing it, the trick is to be myself and do it at the same time or I'll get too stressed.
  6. Yeah I guess it's a bit of a paradox. I've noticed you're always really into the LoA stuff and I love that. What do you think is the biggest misconception about it? I could say "I believe I can only sleep 4 hours and be a millionaire within 6 months" but then the real-world results are going to conflict with that so much it's gonna throw me off. Or is it "What the mind believes, the mind creates and achieves." but I just confused brain for mind, and mind is something else? Have you done any techniques to reprogram your subconscious beliefs? I'm currently doing a hypnosis program for that with money beliefs called NeuroGym, it's interesting. Thank you!
  7. Admit it; you're struggling with women because you're Bi. If you were 100% straight you would have figured it out by now on your own. But instead you come here to find magic solutions. You don't want to emerge yourself in women because of fears, because you are sensitive to the female's energy because you have that in you. Think about it: the guy in the relationship is more straight than the guy who just fucks girls. Why? because the relationship guy doesn't mind putting up with the woman's bullshit all the time. He loves being around a woman and is not even sensitive to the manipulation and the BS. The guy who just fucks is sensitive to the girl's paradigm and it annoys him, so he chooses himself and connections to many people over 1 partner, he's less straight! I'd rather be guy #2. Owen is clearly Bi, so are most famous rappers and charismatic leaders, they're just not out. Bi doesn't mean fruity or acting like a woman, not at all. It doesn't even mean sexual attraction to guys! It means deep down a love for all humans and you could entertain a romantic attraction to a guy, if the mood was right. You can be the coolest, most stoic chick-magnet on the planet and be Bi. You can never have sex with a man and be Bi. Those are just choices.
  8. Don't misinterpret my thread: I am Bisexual so that's why I have this philosophy. And I have no interest in casual sex with men and have never watched gay porn. It's very different from that.
  9. I agree. But we all know Leo lives in Vegas so, you know...
  10. Can you define extroverted? I think most people think it means becoming the life of the party and talking to everyone But what if it just means having more interest in other people's souls and energies? You could actually become more introverted as to how other perceive you but still become more extroverted by this definition. You'd be more at peace with yourself, the way you are, while remaining open to other people.
  11. Please come in every thread with this, genuinely funny af 😂
  12. Much easier to obtain than high purity psychedelics.
  13. Thanks for your input Mr. Follower. I'm just asking what it means.
  14. No the alien was talking about their race, that they can heal themselves and then Leo says he disagrees, I don't get it.
  15. No in the US you also need a doctor's prescription but it's more commonly stocked at pharmacies there.
  16. It's pretty much impossible to get a prescription in Europe if you don't have narcolepsy. Sourcing is not allowed but I'll give you a hint: the most authoritative website on this topic has info about EU suppliers and they're all legit afaik.
  17. Here's me going: I should do an approach today. Walk around town for ages, couldn't even find an attractive woman. So I'm like "fuck this shit, I'm going home, I got stuff to do". Then all of a sudden there's cute girls everywhere trying to get my attention. It always goes like that. It's almost like God has created women to encourage me to do my LP and that's it. When they become an objective nothing happens.
  18. Have you tried expressing your desire to have sex with her?
  19. Your life purpose is the one thing that you would do for the rest of your life even if it didn't make any money. Forget about thoughts like "how is this going to make money", the path will become clear once you commit and have faith that it will move into form. Don't think in concepts of doing something selfless, all those thoughts are objections that come AFTER the intuitive thought of what you love. The path will become clear automatically, you don't have to worry about it.
  20. Judging by these awesome analysis videos I think it's gonna be 100% true to the brand and the biggest GTA so far
  21. My misbehavior was part of my development. I am very grateful for your work. Believing solipsism without sufficient love and understanding seemed like the truth but I was wrong. I don't know anything. Thank you Leo.
  22. I was thinking: If God is real, why doesn't he do my laundry? But then I thought I am God So God does do my laundry, I never have to do laundry again! But seriously, who does the laundry?
  23. I always question events and see what I did to attract it. So if I'm doing great and something bad happens I get confused.
  24. The thing is: you got to decide when it's appropriate to confront someone for doing you injustice vs when to let is slide. Sometimes the latter can be bad for your mental health if you crop it up.