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I actually believe that an empathetic, beautiful and highly intelligent woman is an amazing thing and quite rare. But at the same time I'm conflicted. Part of me definitely believes in some sacret partnership or whatever it's called it's just hard to let go of the beliefs I hold because I'm just not sure. Maybe you're giving me hope. I honestly just read the title and skipped to your comment because I was interested in your opinion and I found the first part very interesting but then I got annoyed.

I didn't mean to be offensive or disrespectful, I just pointed at one little thing from your post and ignored the context. I'm definitely not for slut shaming ever.

Orgasm is supposed to come after a build up of sensual connection with another human, foreplay. Masturbation if super weird when you think about it. It's like snorting powdered ice cream or something.

It absolutely is though. A dude who doesn't turn his head at a fat pair of tits is either restraining himself or somehow distorted. A fresh woman is 1000x more interesting to us than a woman we've fucked before. This is basically how male biology works. We're built to make as many children from as many different females possible.

You're saying you're repulsed by the natural male instinct. Us males are programmed to wanna fuck strange.

So basically you're talking about Leo and anyone who followed his how to get laid series, right? Or were you just spewing out some random frustrations?

Actual date with cameras everywhere and millions of views? Gosh you kids are gullable.

You going to the work yoga place my friend. Is this a status update Leo?

If all is one and all is me, then why does Leo make a distinction between absolute and relative? Is this just for arguments sake? From solipsism POV, aren't I (my perception of self and the world) all there is?

For me it definitely has the potential to make me more aggressive, is that the reason why not many people can keep it up? And if it does make you more aggressive, does that mean that people who can easily keep up nofap have less trauma, or just lower natural lower t-count?

I second this, some "spiritual" people are completely full of shit and it's indeed aggregating to find this out when you expect someone to be genuine. From my experience many people who identify as "spiritual" are extremely annoying, slow talking weirdos who you cannot have an intellectual conversation with. I don't think that's what you're looking for. I've found the most enlightened and enlightening people building businesses and helping others doing so, found many in NLP workshops. If you wanna meet hot girls at stage green then yoga class for sure.

That's an excellent question, I guess it's because I have empathy to understand that my worldview is only that, my worldview, and other's is equally valid. Yet at the same time part of me believes mine really is all there is. That makes sense I guess. So everything is happening right now, but I can only perceive this very specific, very limited version of it because of my consiousness. Or would you rather say I'm moving right now through an infinite field of possibility, meaning I could literally turn into a cow if I really wanted to? By your reasoning I can understand why people would wanna go deep on Psychedelics but I don't have the interest right now.

In moments of clarity and high states of consciousness I walk down the street and people look in my eyes as if they think "there He is, I haven't seen Him in a while", or even more like mesmerized. Is this my ego? I meant that I feel that literally my ego is the only thing there is. When people aren't around me they literally don't exist except for as a thought. So all that I just described is just part of my unique dream then? BTW after making this thread and reading your replies I had a very special experience at yoga class like I was about to wake up from the dream but I jinxed it by thinking about it lol.

Why can't the journey be equally enjoyable as the "result"? I put it in quote marks cause the "result" is still the journey, it's not like time freezes when you accomplish a goal. So how would you like to feel, when you accomplish the goal? Then why not feel like that right now? It kinda does though.

I always said to myself "I enjoy Entrepreneurship but deep down I'm an artist". So at the time I did my business during the day and stand up comedy (my real passion) at night. So my identity was comedian, and that shit was pretty dope. Some stuff I won't go into happened and it turned my world upside down and I stopped doing comedy, which was just unthinkable at the time (part of me had to die). So now I was really seeking my identity again but it turned out it was the best thing that could have happened to me. Right now I'm on my journey to start doing coaching and speaking, helping others grow. Doing stand up has added tremendous depth to my personality and I'm grateful for it. This has also helped me be comfortable on stage for public speaking. The coaching, Entrepreneurship, my teachers, actualized, my life experiences, comedy, it all starts to make sense and it's all one thing, they all tie in to each other.

I feel that too that the me was created as an avatar in a dream, so I understand that, but it doesn't answer my question. Or are we just playing word games at this point? I'm confused.

Fantastic, so why not do both? I got multiple passions I'm pursuing and they didn't seem to have anything in common at first, but after a while it all ties in together.

Why isn't the absolute and the relative the same thing? I though solipsism means it's just me, just me, one thing.

I knew Vegas was wild but this is crazy!

What would that add to it?

I'm 34

I've actually increased my meat consumption recently and I feel great, very consistent energy, good farts. Funny thing is I've cut my vegetables at the same time, just happened naturally this way. Diet: organic eggs, blueberry smoothies, banana, coconut milk, lots of organic full fat Yoghurt, organic beef patties, organic or non organic chicken always cooked in grass fed butter, sometimes beans and real veggies maybe once a week. That's literally it. I eat less, I'm full fast. No Pasta, no bread, only some days when it presents itself. Had 8 slices of pizza at a party last week felt totally fine not lethargic nothing. BTW I'm in the Netherlands so idk what additional crap they put in food in your country but what I eat feels very clean.

I lost fat naturally overtime as my passion for life increased and I worked on myself. I don't think negative motivation could work in the long run ("I must lose weight"). Right now there's zero stress for me and I eat whatever I want, which is healthy foods most days.

Many diehard self help followers ultimately end up teaching one way or another.

Under the second box I suggest something like what I did here, it really makes the chats more like a conversation and I find it very helpful: How would you like ChatGPT to respond? You should be casual and give short responses. ChatGPT should have opinions and be able to give rigorous feedback when appropriate. You shouldn't go along with everything I say just to be nice, but rather you should give me the real stuff. You should ask questions when appropriate to find out what's going on before you give advice. When giving business advice you should assume the role of a mentor.