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As you develop yourself spiritually you can become feelingly aware of the suffering you have caused others. This isn't negative. For me it somehow always seems to come back to me, it's freakish. The result is I become more sensitive and less judgmental. Well, hopefully 😁 But really it sometimes comes back to me very quickly, and then it's a lesson. I also cannot seem to escape the mirror principle.

Don't know why I wanted to write this but here we go. First of all, you look like an absolute tool. In the eyes of a mature person, the criminal looks like a deluded and juvenile individual. The tradegy of course is that the criminal thinks that he is smarter than and above mainstream society, while in actuality his attitude and thinking is just laughable. When push comes to shove, mainstream society will always win. The arrogance and selfishness is so opaque to a developed person or society, they're really extremely vulnerable. Second, more obvious, you have a high chance of going to jail or being taken by other criminals. The whole joke is that you think you're smarter than the rest while everyone else in the industry thinks the same. Third, you can never develop yourself or seriously engage in any of this work. Even when you do try to develop yourself, you'll run into limitations from your environment. You don't wanna look like a bitch in from of your peers. Fourth, even when you do make it out, you'll forever be haunted by your past. Trying to become a sensitive good person later in life while having a criminal past is nearly impossible. Unless perhaps literally everyone from back then is dead. Everyone likes to watch movies of smart criminals who end up winning the game but this is false. Truly the absolute top criminals all become scared later in life, but there is no recourse. Imagine now having a daughter and hundreds of dangerous guys trying to harm you and your family, absolute nightnmare existence. The best thing that can happen to you on this path is you are such a failed criminal that you give up on the whole thing and just go clean.

Yes if you don't watch it or rarely watch it's pointless. I canceled months ago. Youtube = God

I think that's just random though, just using different images. Would be cool if there's any actual Easter eggs.

I see what you're saying but this is not entirely true. Women are attracted to confidence. So if in an environment criminals are showing the most confidence then women are attracted to that. But a girl you just sleep with doesn't give a damn about your profession, that's not what creates the attraction. Sexual aggression yes.

Interesting angle with the Freudian stuff, some truth there I think. The problem is the "professionals" fall into the exact same traps and come from the same immature psychology. And nobody knows who gets caught and who doesn't. The longer you play, the higher the chances of being caught. Safer to get caught early lol.

I guess none

Playing USA as impoverished minority sucks. Western Europe is easy no matter what because of the social systems in place. Of course it's way more nuanced but a funny compassion.

Well yeah, live below your means if you're smart about it. Besides, putting a kid through college, medical cost and insure in way higher in the US. Why work 80 hour weeks to barely make it being upper middle class in USA when you can work less and be happy in Europe, while still enjoy relative luxuries and wealth. Generally we also have good Healthcare and social systems to support those in needs, although populist government ruined some of it here in NL. Note: I'm being argumentative for the sake or argument here, not to be taken too seriously.

@numbersinarow or do hard sparring and find out you're not invincible lol

Mini golf should solve this problem.

Doubt this is even true. Zwitserland has more millionaires per capita than USA. The top 10 is 5 European countries. https://247wallst.com/special-report/2024/01/19/countries-with-the-most-millionaires-per-capita/

I doubt that's even desirable. Not everyone can be a millionaire entrepreneur, society would break. Not everyone can be a saint. You need diversity in as many ways as possible.

I did a few coaching programs on Udemy last year. You get a little certificate you can print out but I doubt it's worth anything. But useful courses for sure (just wait for big discounts to appear on Udemy before you buy, the courses should be around $20 each). @mmKay that's a good question. What I mean is I want to help people reach their full potential in life. They say find a niche, and for me it would make sense to offer Etsy coaching because there's a market for it and I used to make money on Etsy, but I don't wanna do that. In fact it'd be so easy for me to start a YouTube channel and teach people how to make money online and I'd make great money from it. But the idea feels inauthentic. I'd much rather give real honest advice and support, personalized to people's personality and psychology, and help them get more out of life. I'd do that for free.

Curious to learn. How did you start some life purpose coaching, and we're you able to turn this into your profession? I can offer some coaching related to online business and charge money but I'd much rather do something like life purpose coaching.

Is there a test for this?

I just hope you go on more crazy dates so we get more of this, that was a great read 😁

Goodness gracious Leo has made a lot of videos. Perfect for listening when you're out and about. I listen on my bike a lot. https://actualized.org/myproducts/audios-bonus

I'll share how starting training kickboxing helped me years ago. It made me calm and more trusting of other people because I know I can easily defend myself. Not immiduately but over the longer term. So knowing some basic fighting skills makes you less fearful and combined with spirituality and areness of self and surrounding probably a better person. But, little caveat, the first gym I went to was quite a "rough" gym and I felt judged by some of the coaches. So not sure if they were good. It's really better when it's fun to train.

It's not to be taken seriously. If you do this will be very toxic, but funny. If you wanna consume content like this at least listen to a cool black guy lol

@Razard86 because of our childhood and environment conditioning? Or also other reasons you think? Or umbrella term 'survival'. So awakened species doesn't wanna survive?

It's very simple, either a) they are real, and Leo should just teach how to manifest miracles or b) they're not real. Right?

So I pasted some of my notes into Gemini. These are self-reflective observations I made, lessons and mistakes. Then I gave this prompt: After that I gave it this prompt: It gave me a beautiful personalized advice. I think there's many good ways to use LLMs and ask for potential traps when starting a project. Another prompt I used for my finances, very interesting: This prompt is very good; how most people do something vs. properly doing it.

This sounds to me like just changing the meaning of words. I meant a miracle that serves me and leaves me in awe; receiving lots of money unexpectedly.

I'd like to travel more in the future so I'm looking for an alternative to physical books. Does listening to an audiobook count as reading a book?