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What is the thing for Tinder that gives you the highest leverage in 2026 as a male? My results have always been abysmal and I don't know why. I once asked a cute girl and showed her my Tinder profile and she got upset saying I look really handsome IRL, implying that my pics were bad or misleading. I've always been bad at this stuff, but at the same time don't care enough to make better pictures.

Why does it have to be Thailand? But yeah my first intuition also said Asia. Saw a documentary once about kids in the Philippines growing up with a single mom and no dad cause the guy just went back to Europe and didn't take responsibility. So op is doing a much better job.

He already said South Africa I believe. My question (only if you want to answer of course): is the tension in your relationship caused by cultural differences you think?

The website is soooo slow these days this doesn't even load for me 🤦

I have several more questions. First of all, where did the cosmic horror post go? Because there you said something like humans being less important than certain bacteria, but earlier you made humans feel special by saying we are more conscious than animals, aka closer to God. I forgot my other questions now.

Dead 😂. See this is why we have the forum, Leo would never post this.

Congratulations. How has your life changed? How do you do the travel? Did your kid get your Swiss passport or where are you raising your kid?

Great news! I will begin volunteering in Bali next month at a resort. I will help building their website in exchange for a place to stay, free food and free yoga classes throughout the day. And of course a really cool experience. But mainly: this is really good for my portfolio AND I get to learn more about my niche, from the inside! Got onto a call yesterday to help another resort with their website as well and implement a booking system. I'm learning new stuff every day about the industry and how the existing booking SaaS work. Some resorts pay $400+ per month or more just for their software, but at a high enough volume this becomes a no-brainer. Been doing more gratitude lately and it works like a charm. Life is just a dream, so I can rewrite the past any way I want, including my limiting financial beliefs.

Great news! I will begin volunteering in Bali next month at a resort. I will help building their website in exchange for a place to stay, free food and free yoga classes throughout the day. And of course a really cool experience. I've found this through some website. I think they were looking for marketing and then I proposed web design instead.

I'm looking at volunteering at retreats in exotic places, mainly Thailand and some others, to get a place to stay in exchange for labor. I much prefer to offer my tech skills than some general work like gardering or cooking. It ties in with my life purpose as well so it's perfect. But some of these are paid opportunities. Like today I saw one that asks a $45 a day contribution and you still expected to work 30 hours a week for free. Even the Ram Das ashram in Portugal here charge you $450 contribution in order to volunteer for 40 days. Do you believe this to be ethical? It feels like my time is not only being valued low but negative? Yes you are paying for this 'good cause' but cmon 😐

Saw Leo on TV for team Canada! (ice skating?)

Just to clarify what I mean by 'frequencies'. For example: when I am in a state of gratitude (open heart) I attract such beautiful things to me effortlessly, it feels magical. You've talked about how diet influences how you do science for example. That's kind of what I meant. Awareness would be another word. Will the book touch on that? You can entirely reshape your reality when at a sufficient level of awareness? Or is a better term not bending reality but re-contextualization?

Can you explain frequencies? To what extend can reality be bent to our will through beliefs? If there is a limit, why?

Loved these videos.

Oh yes! I forgot about that. Does regular dark chocolate do anything you think? I love chocolate.

So you said "I am God and I'm dreaming up this life as an infinite mind" and they didn't get it? Sheesh 😂

Very nice! Not my field but really good read from @CARDOZZO about lp vision 🙏

Abundance is all there is. Your mindset is what narrows it down.

They say that in prison they fuck these dudes and just don't talk about it outside and it doesn't count.

Had another dream last night. I was at a urinal peeing and there was a woman next to me. I thought "that is odd" so I looked over and what do you know? She had a penis. Just like Leo described seeing the tail of the ox, I only saw part of it.

Everything related to self help is a bit of a scam because it puts whatever you desire into the future.

Why can't you just print out the forum posts and publish that as a book? Saves you lots of time. (joking, obviously)

Do you think this applies to the Ram Das ashram as well? You need to pay to do the Seva program, which is like volunteering at the ashram.

If you are a pigeon, you might find this list helpful. 1. Mumbai, India Status: Extremely high population due to cultural and religious feeding practices (Kabutarkhanas). Key Location: The Gateway of India and dedicated pigeon feeding towers. Population Trend: Continuing to rise due to urbanization and sustained feeding. 2. New York City, USA Estimated Population: 1 to 4 million feral pigeons. Status: Iconic urban wildlife; often cited as having a ratio of one pigeon for every human resident. Key Locations: Times Square, Washington Square Park, Central Park. 3. Venice, Italy Density: Highest per-capita density in Europe, historically estimated at up to 3 pigeons per human resident. Status: While feeding bans have reduced numbers from their peak, Piazza San Marco remains a global hub for pigeon interactions. 4. Cairo, Egypt Status: Distinct from other cities due to massive rooftop domestic pigeon farming (flying flocks) mixed with feral populations. Culture: Pigeon keeping is a major sport and food source, creating a unique skyline density. 5. London, United Kingdom Status: Historically famous feral population. Despite the feeding ban at Trafalgar Square reducing local density, the citywide population remains in the hundreds of thousands. Key Locations: Trafalgar Square (historical), various railway stations, and parks. 6. Istanbul, Turkey Status: High density centered around mosques where feeding birds is culturally encouraged as an act of charity. Key Locations: The New Mosque (Yeni Cami) and Taksim Square. 7. Milan, Italy Density: Scientific surveys have recorded densities exceeding 570 pigeons per square kilometer in central districts. Key Location: Piazza del Duomo. 8. Paris, France Status: Ubiquitous presence in all arrondissements; often referred to locally as "rats with wings," receiving significant municipal control efforts due to their sheer numbers. Key Locations: Notre Dame area and Centre Pompidou. 9. Mexico City, Mexico Status: Supports a massive feral population due to the city's size (20+ million people) and open plazas. Key Locations: Zócalo and Coyoacán. 10. San Francisco, USA Status: Noted for high concentrations in tourist-heavy districts despite active control measures. Key Locations: Union Square and the Ferry Building. Pigeons are literally everywhere!

Commenting because I also really wanna visit Australia some day 🇦🇺 Perhaps also New Zealand, I've already seen old Zeeland.