Yarco

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  1. When you see a video you don't like on Youtube, mouse over it until the 3 dots appear and then pick either "Not Interested" or "Don't Recommend Channel" and your algorithm will get fixed up pretty quick.
  2. The fear of ending up in another abusive relationship is obviously a big part of it. Another part might be feeling guilty if you ever need to let your partners down... Maybe this is just me projecting my own past stuff. I've stayed in relationships for way longer than I should have when I was unhappy, just for fear of letting the other person down. Especially with a long-term partner you live with. I worried how they'd find somewhere else to live on such short notice, if they could financially do it on their own, and a bunch of other stuff that I felt responsible for. Like I was ruining their life by breaking up with them. If this applies to you, then you probably would feel worse to dump someone than to be the one broken up with. Do you feel like you don't want to date people because you can't fully commit, and you don't want to let them down? As long as you're clear upfront what your situation is and what you're looking for, I think most people think it's fine. You don't have to promise every woman that you date that you'll consider marriage or kids with them. Just be upfront that you might need to move or travel... in woman's terms, just tell them you're "still trying to find yourself" . Or the cliché "not looking for anything serious" Allow yourself to date someone on a trial basis and reject them if it's not working out. As long as you communicate so it isn't completely unexpected when it happens (or you aren't dating someone mentally unstable that will freak out regardless ) then it shouldn't be a huge deal. Accept that you might make some woman cry when you inevitably break up with her, but the time you spent with her and just having a chance with you will be worth the heartache. Work on it by allowing yourself to be a heartbreaker and "lead women on" and pursue short-term relationships (without being a dick.) Or I could be way off here like I said...
  3. By refusing to participate in capitalism, I think you are necessarily cutting yourself off from what Ted Kaczynski referred to as "Organization-dependent technology" -- That means stuff like cell phones, computers... even ovens and washing machines. Basically anything you can't make or repair on your own. That leaves you with only small scale technology. That's stuff like wooden chairs, the basic parts of a house, etc. If that's the kind of life that you want to live then fine, but realize what you're giving up in the process. Basically all the technological advancement of the past 200 years. Even if you moved to bartering for things you need, that still exists in a type of capitalistic system. You have to produce some good of your own worthy of bartering. And bartering has the same power imbalances and abuses present in modern capitalism... plus the added annoyance of haggling. Most successful communes need to rely on some kind of capitalistic enterprise to stay afloat... whether it's making tie dye shirts, kombucha, hammocks, blankets, or whatever to sell. Before cutting yourself off entirely from capitalism I would start making small improvements. Shop local, shop from small businesses. There's a big difference between refusing to shop at multinational corporations, vs refusing to engage in capitalism even with Amish or Mennonite furniture makers. If you never shop at Walmart again that's already a decent step. If you refuse to engage in enterprise or capitalism at all, then really all you're left with is disappearing into the woods to make a cabin like you say. Personally I'd at least try to exploit the system for a few years and make as much money as you can. So you can legally purchase land you won't be evicted off of, and make a permanent home out of nice materials instead of living out the rest of your life in squalor. Also realize that engaging in capitalism doesn't have to be win-lose scenarios where you're hurting someone else. You can engage in only win-win transactions where both parties get value and are happy with it. And if the desire to leave capitalism does come from some subconscious laziness or entitlement, realize that if you go off into the wilderness you'll be working way harder, 60 - 80 hour weeks just to survive. It's just a different kind of work.
  4. Tongue rolling = beautiful. Spanish, Italian are the most romantic of the romantic languages. They also tend to be lighter and faster, like a bird chirping. Heavy wet languages with lots of phlegm-y sounds like they're horking up mucus = gross. German, Scottish, Irish. I think the term is glottal stop, but I'm not a linguist so I'm having a hard time describing the exact "ugly" sounds associated. In between you've got something like Portuguese which sounds like a wet Spanish to me. Russian has lots of tongue rolls like Spanish but they're much shorter and all the words sound harsher overall. Dutch is ugly to me because it's like German with even wetter sounds, plus they add a lot of OOO sounds that makes it sound ridiculous. Danish/Norwegian/Swedish have a similar problem with the ooo noises and tone randomly rising up and down that makes them sound silly as well. The various tones in Chinese give it a singing quality and make it more beautiful. Japanese sounds intelligent and competent. I don't know if I classify it as beautiful or ugly, it just commands respect, similar to a really posh English accent. Korean is a bit too choppy due to the short words. I'm probably too biased to say if English is beautiful or ugly, but I'd say it's too slow. On average Japanese is spoken at 7.84 syllables per second while English is only 6.19. So a Japanese person can say an additional 100 words per minute or almost an extra 6,000 words per hour!
  5. I actually went back and watched this a couple days ago, it'll help teach you how to break out of the serious mindset:
  6. Conservatives aren't ashamed of it. They want to be associated with it and claim the victory. It's finally a win for them and their voter base from a generally ineffective and toothless party, it's a big morale boost. So there is no reason for them to disavow or try to spin it. The dumb majority opinion is "Trump elected a conservative judge, which is the reason Roe v Wade got overturned, so it's ultimately Trump's fault." That opinion is already cemented in public consciousness and it's too late to change it. You guys really can't conceive that removing abortion rights isn't some political suicide hot potato that conservatives would want to offload haha. Don't worry, Biden and the Dems have enough problems to handsomely lose the midterms without also blaming loss of abortion rights on them.
  7. Anxiety is rooted in thinking about the past or future, caution is about the present. If you are fully in the present moment then you can't be anxious.
  8. I don't know about consciousness, but I can assure you that AI in its current state is really quite dumb. I've been training and trying to figure out the best way to work with an artificial intelligence based on GPT-3 for the past week or two. Trying to get it to write blog posts and potentially entire novels for me. It feels like working with a teenager who has zero life experience, but instant access to the sum of all websites and books written up until 2019. It's really good at generating creative ideas. Or lists, like asking it to list the top 10 Actualized.org videos and it'll do it instantly. But it's incapable of creating any kind of long-form content. It has ADHD and goes off on crazy tangents or just starts repeating itself if you don't feed new prompts to it for basically every paragraph. I would wonder if it's possible to be conscious but not alive. But AI does exhibit some of the requirements of life. Specifically growth, adaptation, and response to stimuli. And I guess metabolism in a way since they take in energy/electricity and produce a result. For fun I decided to ask the AI if AI is conscious: Is AI Concious? There is no one answer to this question, as opinions on the matter vary widely. Some experts believe that artificial intelligence has the ability to be conscious, due to its ability to learn and form memories. But others argue that consciousness is a uniquely human trait, and that AI will never be able to experience anything resembling true awareness. So far, there is no consensus on whether or not AI is capable of consciousness. However, the debate is ongoing, and as AI technology continues to develop, we may eventually have a better understanding of its potential for consciousness. Does AI have feelings? Many people believe that AI can experience feelings, due to its ability to learn and form memories. However, there is no definitive proof that this is the case. Some experts argue that because AI cannot create its own thoughts or feelings, it cannot be truly conscious. Others say that just because AI relies on input from humans to function, that doesn't mean it can't have its own inner life. At this point, there is no definitive answer on whether or not AI can feel emotions. However, the debate is ongoing, and as AI technology continues to develop, we may eventually have a better understanding of its potential for feelings. Some ethical considerations of AI consciousness: (Yarco's note: It generated this heading itself all on its own without any prompting, aside from the first 2 questions, and then proceeded to answer it) If artificial intelligence is capable of consciousness, there are a number of ethical considerations to take into account. For example, how would we treat an AI that is conscious and experiences emotions? Would we be responsible for its welfare? Additionally, if AI becomes conscious, it could potentially pose a threat to humanity if it decides that humans are expendable. As such, it's important to consider the implications of AI consciousness before moving forward with any further development. The debate surrounding artificial intelligence and its potential consciousness is ongoing. However, as AI technology continues to develop, we may eventually have a better understanding of its true nature and capabilities. Until then, we must consider all potential outcomes carefully before taking any further steps.
  9. To go from Orange to Green, you need to become more kind (to a fault), more interested in equality for people, reduce greed, care for the environment, more feelings and caring, that sort of thing. So you'd think that to go from Green to Yellow you just need to do more of the same.... become even more caring, even more kind, even more interested in equality. But that isn't really the case. Yellow people aren't like super-hippies. Elevating from being a green progressive doesn't mean becoming ultra-progressive. If anything, the first thing that comes to my mind when I think about yellow people is that they're a bit shrewd and calculating. A yellow person can embrace the good aspects of both orange and green, and reject the toxic aspects. Whereas to green, it seems like orange people are irredeemable and completely corrupt. A yellow person sees the good that orange offers to the world, as well as areas where green overstretches or shoots itself in the foot. So a yellow person can piss off both orange and green people depending on the topic. Yellow people are highly flexible and their priority is functionality. So if using stage orange principles is the most functional way to accomplish something, that's what they'll go with. They look at the big picture and don't panic about the comparatively trivial stuff that green/orange people tend to get hung up on. Can someone stuck completely in conservative politics be stage yellow? In almost all cases no. Does a stage yellow person see some value in and good conservatism? Yes, it's almost a requirement. Would a sociopathic stage yellow person masquerade as a conservative in service of their agenda? Sure. Just my 2c, I could be wrong.
  10. I've done it before. It takes a tremendous amount of work and for the most part, you never get to see the fruits of your labor. You're just planting seeds in people's minds and hoping they'll take root months or years from now. You might notice like a 5 - 10% shift in the tone of the overall community. I'm not gonna do it again unless it's to get people to join my cult and there's something in it for me You're probably better off creating memes that raise consciousness and getting them to go viral. Then at least you're reaching thousands of people at once, instead of having to change the world one conversation at a time.
  11. When you're young, you usually don't have enough experience to know what your one thing is yet. So it's perfectly fine to try stuff out and see what calls to you. Also why I think it's kinda dumb to make high school kids lock in their lifelong careers at 17. A few traps to avoid: - Don't get analysis paralysis and just end up watching hundreds of hours of YouTube videos. Start actually doing stuff - Don't dabble. When you want to try something out, commit to it for at least a month or so. Make a small project for yourself so you have a definite end goal to accomplish. If you want to play guitar, force yourself to learn at least 10 chords and master 2 songs before you stop. If you want to get into animation, create a high quality 2 minute animation. Don't get too bogged down in details like what amp to buy or what animation style to choose. Just pick something and start experimenting and see how it feels. After 20 hours, could you see yourself doing it for another 10,000? What would that look like, would it be meaningful for you, or should you try something else first?
  12. *dons my best Kermit The Frog voice* "This is the perfect time for the rebirth of the hero. As a Twitter user I represent Logos, man, and that's no joke. The word that eternally extracts order out of chaos and sets things right. It's like in Solzhenitsyn's Goo-Lag Archipelago when Pinnochio descends into the belly of the whale to retreive the golden lobster. That's where you find meaning, man, and that's no small feat..." We just need Daddy Elon to unleash Peterson and all the other demons from ban-hell and the prophecy can begin to unfold.
  13. There's a big range when it comes to burgers, pizza, and other foods. You can get McDonalds, or cheap burgers made with like 50% fillers... soy, corn, etc. Or you can get grass-fed organic beef and gluten free buns. You can get a Margherita pizza made with 00 flour, sauce made from fresh san marzano tomatoes and basil, extra virgin olive oil, and fresh buffalo mozzarella. Or you can get American style pizza with sugar in the sauce and 2 inches of cheap plasticy cheese on top. That being said, I still eat cheap crappy pizza like Dominos or Little Caesars like once a week on average. Even knowing the high sodium and other gunk will literally make my joints hurt the next day from the inflammation, good chance I'll have heartburn when I go to bed, and it's making me fat... for me personally, the enjoyment I get out of it while I'm eating it is still worth it. If I can eat whatever I want and do no exercise, vs live 20 years longer but have to run every other day and eat kale salads for my entire life, I think I'll take the short-but-sweet path. I would guess that doing one-meal-a-day intermittent fasting when you know you're going to have a giant junk food meal probably offsets some of the harm as well.
  14. I don't know anything about the rest of the content of Daily Wire. I don't watch it, or Rebel Media, or PragerU, or any basic bitch conservative content. But looking at just the original video that was posted here, I approve of the content. I do think boys grow up mostly coddled by female teachers and role models their entire life and never learn to be men. We don't have any coming of age ceremonies or manly stuff any more. Even among millennials (including myself) we are largely neutered and domesticated in comparison to our fathers or grandfathers, and I think it would be good to give some of that power back to men. Their primordial masculine essence that's lacking, and you can insert it back in without the toxicity that often accompanied it in the past. "You should be a monster, and then you should learn to control it" sounds like quite an overexaggeration. But when you're giving that message to men who don't know how to be men any more, they might need something a bit more inspiring and extreme like that to swing them back in the right direction. This initial series sounds like the same kind of stuff that Jocko Willink, David Goggins, or Elliot Hulse teach and I'm okay with it. Nothing about SJWs, just lifting men up as a group. You might think men already hold disproportionate power in society and we need to remedy that. We can work on things like equality while also continuing to further empower men. We don't have to lower men to raise women or vulnerable groups up. A stronger and more confident man is typically a more benevolent and loving one. It reduces neuroticism. A rising tide lifts all boats.
  15. They must be paying him a shit ton, too much to refuse. He's earning $1M a year from Patreon and still seems too burned out after rehab for something like this. Unless it's fulfilling some kind of ideological greater good for him.
  16. It sounds like you're hung up on a biological perspective of birth and death. Just one random example --- what if you could give birth to yourself by turning yourself inside out? You create something that looks and acts entirely different, but you're still there alive on the inside. 1 becomes 2, but also technically still 1.
  17. Okay I watched it. It starts off with some good arguments upfront, but the connections get more hazy as it goes on until they become absurd. Biggest one is the similarity between their logo and the SS logo which is pretty hard to deny. Overall the video seems like an interesting lesson in how you can link anything back to nazis if you try hard enough. Lots of bad info like "4chan has almost no moderation" -- false or it would've been shut down long ago. 4chan users notoriously complain about "jannies" --- slang for janitors, what they call moderators. Eg. "The worst part about jannies is they do it for free." Same issue in the section talking about Kek. "Why pick apes? Seems kinda racist" -- idk if your mind is automatically going to black people whenever you see monkeys, maybe you're the kinda racist one. "Why not penguins?" -- there are already Pudgy Penguins NFTs, they have a floor price of like 1.3ETH and worth about $25M in total. Apes are just one of many different animal NFTs. Linking Kali Yuga to nazis -- I've never seen this connection made or ever seen the phrase "surfing the kali yuga" used by right wing people online. I've only heard bringing about kali yuga linked to the Shiva statue at CERN. Monkey paw = Congolese hands??? Monkey paws are widely known in occultism and several movie plot lines to be magical wish granting objects. "Maybe aperol is a metaphor for taking the red pill" "Times almost up line by monkey movie character = accelerationosm" OH COME ON LOL. By this point the video creator is hugely stretching. My final assessment: The BAYC creators probably are crypto-fascists. They could just be terminally online people who got sucked into the memes though. The video provides just enough evidence to make a compelling argument but also discredits itself with about 75% being noise and baseless conjecture. The video creator fell for the alt-right's misdirection and trolling several times over the course of the video.
  18. Haven't watched the video yet, ill check it out later. But just scrubbing through the video it looks like schizoposting and linking a bunch of unrelated stuff like 4chan posts and drink menus together in conspiratorial ways. Looking at the channel this guy's thumbnails and titles seem like they're engineered to generate maximum controversy.
  19. There's a genetic component to it. Some people can naturally take more. But you can also increase your tolerance by gradually exposing yourself to more and more pain. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iron_shirt https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iron_Palm If you start doing intense weight lifting or running, at some point you'll start to embrace and even enjoy the pain. It carries over and makes you more resilient in other areas of your life. Both to physical pain, as well as increasing your patience and other mental benefits. From a mental standpoint, I'd consider anything that you feel resistance toward as painful. Even something like writing an essay for school... if you train yourself to get into the habit of getting it done right away, you're able to endure longer periods of focused work, and prevent the lingering drawn-out pain that comes from procrastination.
  20. Do you think daydreaming or using imagination would also be tapping into alternate universes, even if its less real and vivid? What about dreamless sleep? (Not trying to prompt you in a specific direction. Im not sure what I think about it myself, just trying to generate more discussion. I think I heard somewhere that anything you can imagine must necessarily exist. But I forget the exact reasoning behind it)
  21. Lol this looks like she's doing nothing but it actually serves an important purpose to the functioning of the business and to herself. You'll see this in every business. Get into the habit of going and making smalltalk with her for 10 minutes every Friday afternoon when things are slow, or for 5 minutes before you leave every day (as long as she isn't already on the phone) and you'll see why. This is how you get promoted, not being a workhorse. If you are really a sociopath then you can figure out this system and exploit it. But you have to be friendly and express sincere interest in getting to know her. If you've been a cold calculating robot for years the sudden change might be weird for her, so you'll have to make it gradual -- start by asking about her weekend or making a workplace appropriate joke whenever you pass her in the hall or see her in the breakroom/kitchen. Grease dem wheels. Make yourself extremely likeable. Check out resources like How To Win Friends and Influence People --- just starting off by saying her name whenever you talk to her will help greatly. Yes, start emailing places and tell them the part about being a great employee and wanting more meaningful and impactful work. Research each company you email and tell them WHY working for their company would be more meaningful than your current position (without talking shit). Like maybe one company is working on cancer cures or something. Leave out the bits about being sociopathic, and even cold/analytical. Even if these things make someone excel at your position it will freak them out. But yes you can 100% cold email places and get work. This is how most business-to-business relationships form and how most non-beginner freelancers (Fiverr/Upwork people) land their gigs. It sounds like maybe you should leverage your years of experience to get a low level management job equivalent to your current boss, you'll find it a lot more mentally challenging and interesting I think, and it'll force you to round out your soft skills. If you've mastered your job for a few years you're ready. Avoid emailing a generic address on their website or use a form. For companies you really want to work for, pick up the phone and call. Your goal should be to get through the secretary (gatekeeper) and speak directly to either someone in HR or a manager in the department you want to work in. Or at the very least get the secretary to forward your resume to them. Don't explicitly ask them to create a job for you. Just explain your skills and what you're looking for, and if you're good enough they might create one. But more likely you're hoping to get lucky and an opening already exists, or you present an opportunity to replace a current underperforming employee
  22. Canada's had week-long outages from ice storms that required calling in 10,000 members of the military to assist. I don't think centralization or making utilities public would've helped with the Texas storm or made it any easier. And I don't think it makes financial sense to prepare for something that affects an area for a couple days every 100 years. Keeping the power on wouldn't have stopped everyone's pipes from bursting either.
  23. Personally I've always noticed a peak in testosterone, confidence, everything around 7 - 10 days and then I don't notice any additional benefit after that. Usually the first few days are tempting, then after a week my desire drops off entirely, and starts to get tempting again around 2 - 3 weeks. I also feel like it takes about a week for my body to build up the max amount of semen, then I can tell that it starts "recycling" and going back to a normal amount, if that makes sense. Like if you jerk off a lot, your body is used to overproducing. So when you do SR it keeps going and takes a while to realize and compensate. I guess it's about time so I'll give it another 4 weeks and report back though. (Although what you said about the week 3 attraction thing is also true, I dunno if my wife will let me get that far, hah.)
  24. I've generally found that doing things halfway leads to unfavorable outcomes. If you're going to spend the next year saving up money, I'd use it to break free of living with your family entirely. If you put an RV or home on your father's land, you're still going to be held emotionally + financially hostage in some way. Unless you get him to do a land severance and sell the land to you so it's 100% your property. Otherwise you'll always have the "you're on my property" situation hanging over your head. Even then, you probably don't want to live within shouting distance of his house. Try to minimize the suck for the next year. Spending as little time as possible at home might help. Even just giving yourself a few hours per week to sit in a coffee shop and work on your writing, or if you can find someone that will let you play music in their garage or barn for one evening a week. Pick up extra hours at work to earn extra cash, or get a second job. Find friends or hobbies to spend more time outside the house. Get to the point where it's basically just a place you go to sleep. Breaking free of (what sounds like) narcissistic family members can be tough. But it's better than the alternative of living under their finger and having to listen to their bad advice for the next 30 years. Once there's a little space between you and them, you can put your foot down about things you want to change in your life, and stuff you don't want to hear from them any more. What any good family member would want is to see you flourish and live up to your full potential. Not sacrifice your best years to sit around and keep them company.
  25. At least online, it's a common complaint I see among the more extreme elements. It's on enough people's minds that there's no shortage of articles like this: Is it discriminatory to refuse to date a trans woman? Is Refusing to Date Trans People Transphobic? Is not wanting to have sex with trans people transphobic? I’m trans, here’s what I think. I’m an old, out and proud lesbian. Am I transphobic if I don’t want to have sex with trans women? My Boyfriend Discovered I’m Trans, And Now He’s Not My Boyfriend What people's answer is at this point in time doesn't matter to me. It's worrying that it's being asked at all. It seems like the next step on the slippery slope. The debate around gay and trans people started with "what people do in the privacy of their bedroom is their own business" and "they just want the same rights as everyone else". Which I'm fine with up until that point. But we've reached a situation where it seems like it's being actively pushed on people. Just being indifferent to LGBT people is no longer good enough. We're told "silence is violence." 5 baseball players were reprimanded a couple weeks ago for declining to wear uniforms with LGBT+ logos on them and they were subject to the hate mob online. You don't have to say or do anything, just the inaction of not putting a pride logo on your social media profile during pride month is enough to get you into hot water in some circles. I'm happy to let people do their own thing and be whoever they want to be, just don't force me to get involved. When we get to "you have to support me or you're a bigot" it's a problem. And if you don't tell a new partner that you're trans until you get to the bed and whip your dick out, I think it should be classified as rape/assault the same as stealthing.