OBEler

@Dodo I am sorry for your destiny. I don't know your background, why did you really jump? You were in a drug induced psychosis and decided to jump because you thought it was the right thing to do to fulfill your destiny otherwise it would betray your country? How can you fall into this delusion. What happened before to this point? You don't sound like you have some issues. Edit: ah you made some posts about it you said. Ok I will try to find them.

@Joshe interesting perspective. I agree on that. Also the behavior on not looking weird because of society pressure could not show the true interests of women on the Internet. And that forum users and podcast audiences are mostly intps, there is definitely a truth in that.

@Princess Arabia Yeah that is missing im this thread for sure. I made the differences about one certain aspect, the interests women have on topics outside their personal space. I saw that most women really don't care about these. Some men for sure also. I don't want to start a gender war here just make some generalizations. Maybe if some women make a thread about generalizations of men, that would be interesting to see.

@Princess Arabia I never ever want women to be men. Not even the things which can be annoying. They should stay in their nature as they are because of balance and attraction and so on.

@Leo Gurahe talks about kechari mudra and 5 Meo malt: Definitely worth exploring that.

@Puer Aeternus absolutely and what you describe is common sense to me. But here in this thread I wanted to focus more on the differences. Because that's also interesting to see and you can get a lot of insight. Overgeneralizing can be harmful but I don't see overgeneralizing by just making differences between genders and acknowledging at the same time that these generalizations only fit to a certain degree and can change over time.

@Rishabh R do you really think I don't know that? Again read my previous post. I concentrate on the deeper patterns in groups with similar wired brains. If you say ok everyone is so total different because of their culture, their genetic, their hormones, their lifestyle so making generalizations are meaningless to discuss I think you see then reality in a very distorted way. Because these patterns are used in politics and marketing and they work very well. You cannot dismiss these by just looking at how different we are. You cannot turn off these are wired patterns. They exist and deep inside you you even know that you are just too unconscious to recognize that.

@Rishabh R If you see everyone as different you miss the deeper underlying patterns and forces which triggers common behavior patterns in groups with similar wired brains.

@Xonas Pitfall Dramatic is described as something sad happened. Drama is overreacting. Yes men have their own way to express drama. Yeah I haven't seen that way, nevertheless men and women express drama radical different.

They are dramatic but not drama. Do we scream in a high pitch voice about that and throw things out of the window just to let everyone know about our feelings?

@Puer Aeternus Well thats interesting how you see that differently. Maybe I am from another generation or maybe it's a cultural thing? Or maybe your brain is wired differently. My list is surely not perfect. I hope more people here can clarify.

Haha yeah, we don't recognize that we create drama and it's just the woman showing us a sign in her way she thinks we understand. It's sad this miscommunication exists.

@Puer Aeternus core: we love games, we love women, we love technology. We have respect for great things. We acknowledge that. We are not insecure, we know that we have power and it's not someone's else guilt - we don't play the victim card. We recognize the weakness women have so we never hit them. We love facts and information, not talking around the bush. We are creators and more active than passive in doing things. Looking for help is more difficult for us. We are curious, we can forgive. We don't like drama. We love battlefield 6, a woman would only play that game for money or attention. Again just generalizations. I know there are some special men with a different wired brain.

@Princess Arabia I just mean gender related and biological. And yes men love to talk about themselves in front of a woman to attract her mostly. Between men it's not so common. But on the Internet on podcasts I agree there are some men also, who just love to talk about them. It seems that's not so gender dependent. I choosed Megan because she is kind of an archetype of a typical woman to me. A woman wo thinks she is a princess and somehow entitled etc. That she really is a princess makes her feminine behavior even come more true.

@Puer Aeternus well I am male and all men are almost the same. There is no mystery really if you know yourself as a man you know other men too. The wiring of the brain is almost same in men. Even Osama bin Laden had memes and counterstrike on his computer. If you want to see somehow a balance so that not only women are portrayed negatively for sure. Men have very dark forces in them. They can be grifters like women in a more effective way. They can lie, steal, destroy, being total delusional, irrational. But yeah it's somehow a bit pointless to talk about because we all know I think how men are because we are men ourselves.

Ok I got you. Yes there is something going on. Half of mankind are women, you can't ignore them, they are very important. So it's important to understand them. Yet understanding woman is a rare topic - mostly just in a funny way and not seriously. Right now the cultural narrative is that everyone and everything is equal in their minds. Even if I never buyed into this I got brainwashed with this narrative. So even if I know men and women are very different I still get shocked how different they really are. To such an extreme that I try to figure out if some of that maybe a distortion of my reality. Of course I am aware of my own projections on to them, seeing truly for what they are will hardly be possible. If I watch and read womens behavior on the Internet I come to some deep realizations about the nature of feminity. Yes Internet is not the real world but still you can see patterns. I am open to exploring that field. Unfortunately here are mostly men so it's a bit difficult. On the other hands in general women rarely show their true face so they would be instantly triggered and would probably protect their gender.

@theleelajoker everything is a narrative in your head. Harmful ? Every generalization can be harmful. "Pointing out the dangers of projections" You don't understand projections can also be very useful.

@Puer Aeternus well this topic is clearly triggering you.

@Hojo I mean manipulation tactics like greeting cards or birthdays wishes etc.

@Hojo actually there was a marketing research where customers reacted more positively even they know the friendlyness of the company was just an total act. Something in our brain will still be manipulated even if we see through the act women play. But yeah some women with their baby voice are doing it too much.

@Puer Aeternus "You talk only of ideas that feed your own narrative" Yes so I share it here for discussion, everyone can agree or disagree. So what's wrong with that exactly? It's very important to understand the feminine part in human. If you dismiss that or if you are triggered by that ask yourself whats really going on with you, if you have some issues or something.

@theleelajoker I have started many other topics. You behave as if it is somehow forbidden to talk about a topic about a large group of humans. Or can you tell me why you are reacting so protective? Do you want to keep the image of a certain woman? Then this thread is not for you maybe. Again read my disclaimer.

@theleelajoker I am not here for helping women, I am not here to change anything. I am just observing nature and share it with you and see if it fits. It is very simple and direct. No hidden agenda. Why I choose women is because women are a big part of our reality we live in. I mean something different than you I am not new age. You mix here completely everything around. It's like starting a discussion about how crypto could have a comeback in the future and you come to me with "can't you see how you create the kind of impact on cryptos going up or down? Bitcoin is now over 100k , can't you see that you created that?" To be honest, It's annoying.

You are maybe the only active girl on this forum now amongst hundreds of men. All these topics besides off topic and relationship are pure manly. 99% of these threads you see on this forum are opened by men. An exception was the journal area, there women opened threads on their own so they can speak about themselves - one of the few things that matter to them. How do you feel here, do I represent general women correctly?

@Schizophonia I love you too.