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@theleelajoker I know exactly what you are pointing to, but what I was pointing to you, you didn't. Again, it needs some ambivalence. A boy cannot handle ambivalence.

@Natasha Tori Maru well I explain it to you in more detail: someone here told me I have too much negativity, he has just positive experiences, go on street see women as positive and it's just the mind. I told himthe same thing he says can be seen in another way, gave him then an counter example of going to street and see women as grifters instead of positive beings You must understand that I said that women are grifters in an counter example to seeing women as positive. I even included men, too. Telling me that I speak negative about women because of this is therefore out of context.

@Natasha Tori Maru What you do right now is mixing my answers in different contexts and therefore misunderstand things. That way it is hard to discuss with you, so I will leave it by that quote from you again: "The guys here are bringing up stories from direct experience, and you did acknowledge you don't have many female friends/acquaintances." I have right now not much female girlfriends because I have a girlfriend and a full-time job so not much time.I am a little bit older than most people here. In my age as a man that's pretty normal. You are coming up with wild conclusions about me, you don't know my life experience. You don't understand that I was young too and had plenty of experiences with women already. How you behave here is not what an open mind looks like for me.

@Natasha Tori Maru "People are just dickheads really - case closed." Does that look like an open mind? He wrote: "Don't know why there's the idea of "exploitation" and "secrets" when you easily can work together to make interaction between genders better. Says a lot about the lense you see the world through IMO" That's some form of idealizing genders in both ways. By the way I never judged women about being not interested in abstract things. It just was an neutral observation, the negative projection comes from your own mind. To say that there must be now a balance to this because it's negative, is somehow biased.

@Natasha Tori Maru of course you can see that in men too, maybe even worse. See in context what I wrote. I tried to help this boy to not idealize women too much so I gave him an counter example to his advice to open him up to both sides.

@theleelajoker What you say is really low basic stuff man. I can say the same about you. Go on the street, open up your self and see women as grifters and exploiters. You will see it. The difference between people like you and me is I can hold ambivalence in my mind. I can see both positive and negative behaviors in women and am not stuck in one side like you. For me this is a way more sober way to look at reality.

@theleelajoker maybe I see the world in a more sober way than you. It's not all about working together and sharing everything.

@Carl-Richard no, do you have? Am I a woman hater now?

@Princess Arabia I can say the same about you, you have totally interpreted the intention about my post in your own way. I am not angry at women at all - never was. Just because I want to discuss differences and show that women have low interests outside of themselves doesn't mean that I am angry or that I judge them for this or that I want to change this or helping them getting more intellectual. That are all your projections on that. Y

@Lord Kadaver Woah your first trip and one of the most powerful trip reports I read. Insane. Yes first time taking LSD is different to other trips following so don't expect the same happening. But very good results, you know how to manage yourself during very radical states, congratulations!

@Xonas PitfallThanks, by the way are you a man or woman or transgender?

@Princess Arabia so women keep their insights and tactics about men in secret and won't share that in a male dominated forum so that men have no chance to exploit that?

@Dodo I am sorry for your destiny. I don't know your background, why did you really jump? You were in a drug induced psychosis and decided to jump because you thought it was the right thing to do to fulfill your destiny otherwise it would betray your country? How can you fall into this delusion. What happened before to this point? You don't sound like you have some issues. Edit: ah you made some posts about it you said. Ok I will try to find them.

@Joshe interesting perspective. I agree on that. Also the behavior on not looking weird because of society pressure could not show the true interests of women on the Internet. And that forum users and podcast audiences are mostly intps, there is definitely a truth in that.

@Princess Arabia Yeah that is missing im this thread for sure. I made the differences about one certain aspect, the interests women have on topics outside their personal space. I saw that most women really don't care about these. Some men for sure also. I don't want to start a gender war here just make some generalizations. Maybe if some women make a thread about generalizations of men, that would be interesting to see.

@Princess Arabia I never ever want women to be men. Not even the things which can be annoying. They should stay in their nature as they are because of balance and attraction and so on.

@Leo Gurahe talks about kechari mudra and 5 Meo malt: Definitely worth exploring that.

@Puer Aeternus absolutely and what you describe is common sense to me. But here in this thread I wanted to focus more on the differences. Because that's also interesting to see and you can get a lot of insight. Overgeneralizing can be harmful but I don't see overgeneralizing by just making differences between genders and acknowledging at the same time that these generalizations only fit to a certain degree and can change over time.

@Rishabh R do you really think I don't know that? Again read my previous post. I concentrate on the deeper patterns in groups with similar wired brains. If you say ok everyone is so total different because of their culture, their genetic, their hormones, their lifestyle so making generalizations are meaningless to discuss I think you see then reality in a very distorted way. Because these patterns are used in politics and marketing and they work very well. You cannot dismiss these by just looking at how different we are. You cannot turn off these are wired patterns. They exist and deep inside you you even know that you are just too unconscious to recognize that.

@Rishabh R If you see everyone as different you miss the deeper underlying patterns and forces which triggers common behavior patterns in groups with similar wired brains.

@Xonas Pitfall Dramatic is described as something sad happened. Drama is overreacting. Yes men have their own way to express drama. Yeah I haven't seen that way, nevertheless men and women express drama radical different.

They are dramatic but not drama. Do we scream in a high pitch voice about that and throw things out of the window just to let everyone know about our feelings?

@Puer Aeternus Well thats interesting how you see that differently. Maybe I am from another generation or maybe it's a cultural thing? Or maybe your brain is wired differently. My list is surely not perfect. I hope more people here can clarify.

Haha yeah, we don't recognize that we create drama and it's just the woman showing us a sign in her way she thinks we understand. It's sad this miscommunication exists.

@Puer Aeternus core: we love games, we love women, we love technology. We have respect for great things. We acknowledge that. We are not insecure, we know that we have power and it's not someone's else guilt - we don't play the victim card. We recognize the weakness women have so we never hit them. We love facts and information, not talking around the bush. We are creators and more active than passive in doing things. Looking for help is more difficult for us. We are curious, we can forgive. We don't like drama. We love battlefield 6, a woman would only play that game for money or attention. Again just generalizations. I know there are some special men with a different wired brain.