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@Loreena lol. Ya. It was either deleted which I doubt, or a glitch, or of course, paranormal. I'm a believer now.

fake it till you make it practice makes perfect just do it they're all the same thing trying to bust through to you. Maybe there's a shortage of reception.

Your previous level of desire will return. Maybe a week to three. Keep enjoying the change. Consider it a vacation from your norm. When the desire to do things returns, hang on to the intuition. Great post to read. Thank you

@jse right on. you're a desk, and I'm an apple.

@MissMiki why were you being apologetic?

@Epiphany_Inspired I meant it is hard for each person to realize they are making their choices that are bringing their circumstance. You, on the other hand, are clearly aware of this. When you look around, you say - why is the fucking world would anyone go through so much suffering vs doing even a tony bit for themselves. IF there was one brownie left in the world, and you were the lucky recipient of that brownie, would you eat it and enjoy it, or would you suffer thinking about why no one else get's the brownie? You asked for enlightenment, and now you have some. You must let of the need for your higher level of common sense to apply to others. There is nothing in between each of us but empty space. It is each of us who are the reality. You changed your reality. Now change your reality again to the one where you find others suffering perfectly fine as it is. Or help. But be at peace, and remember what got you here, was choosing, not destiny.

So many people not doing the mirror thing and commenting on it. This is how religions are founded people. This is how Hitler did what he did. Please at least be aware that you're giving advice to someone who is trying things that you are not even trying. @electroBeam

@Ry4n There is always pain. Suffering though, is self imposed. The pain is lessened when the suffering is understood.

Let go of victim mindset, what remains is love & ease. Take ownership of creating our life and drop the expectation that anyone else should do anything for us. All that remains is unconditional love.

@LRyan More variety is always better. Your resolution is in awareness of what you're choosing, not what is avaible to choose from.

Stare into your own eyes in a mirror for just ten minutes. You'll have seperated to the extent you call uncle.

@MissMiki That's a beautiful story. You explained it well. I get that what it means to you is that you have metaphysical powers. Can you see that another version of the story is that a butterfly landed on a finger? It's not the being born, breathing, etc. It's a butterfly landed on a finger. I find that both beautiful and easily explainable. We have a lilac bush in our yard, my kids and I hold our fingers out and butterfly's land on them, It's beautiful. Implying that I've 'forgot' those things are incredible is an ego protection reaction. I completely find those things to be incredible. what limiting belief are you referring to? The frustration / ego protection, usually starts where one's ability to articulate one's accusations ends. Also, I'm interested, are you stating that you have personally observed fairies? Or do you mean that you are experiencing that magic of the world?

@Paradigm So you know what you want to do, but are confused because you are taking someone els's word for something? If you read your statement above, you'll probably see the continuation of your self imposed conflict. You're equating taking someone's word for something that is contrary to your own desire, then reshaping that into duality of earning a living doing something you're passionate about. Of course you should do something you're passionate about, and you probably would be doing it, if you never made the choice to let someone else throw you off course so easily. Just follow what you knew in the first place. It is in pursuing your passion and dreams that you shows others they can do that also. Isn't that the world you want? Someone else's passion might be to make a living convincing you of something other that what you already know you want to do. At the moment, they are doing a better job. There's going to be lots of those people. Let their words merely increase your commitment to your own dream.

I would love to have the breakthrough of a lifetime here. I'm wide open to it. I've pursued and allowed for a long time. Seen quite a few renowned psychics. I was sold by statements that they could contact the dead and tell me anything. But none of them could tell me my middle name, or a single detail. Not one. They all stear the conversation to trying to tell me the generic feel good things. There's a psychic who I talked to on this forum, Saramarielifecoach, who stated exactly that she could share any info without limitation. Couldn't tell me even one specific minor detail. If she could have, I would gladly pay her $125 an hour fee to have more questions answered. Hell, I would gladly pay her $10,000. I offered. She couldn't do it. Am I stuck in a logic and common sense paradigm? There are organizations who literally offer a million dollars for her to simply show up and do what she claims she does every day. But no one has ever done that. Why not? Seems like common sense to me. I don't see how the pertinent factor is my paradigm. It seems that she claims I'm in a paradigm that she's not in, but then when a simple offer is made for her, she comes up with nothing and moves on to the portion of the population who is easily fooled by the generic feel good messages. If I lived in a rainforest and did psychaldelics I bet I'd have some tripped out experiences too. But I'd have the sense to decipher what I saw on drugs, vs what I see sober. Similarly, I had learned enough psychology to have made the call that Ted Haggard was obviously homosexual, before he finally confessed that he was. For all his angels & demons speaking, it was very obvious to me what he was dealing with and why he was projecting his issues onto others. There are many examples of Ted Haggards, and not one example to the contrary. A smart phone would have been unexplainable by ancient Greeks. But that would be because there were no smart phones in that time. It's not paranormal or unexplainable, it literally didn't happen. For a scenario to have the opportunity to be unexplainable, it must happen first, that gives us the opportunity to then discuss if it is explainable or not. What am I missing here? This seems like common sense. At the end of the day, isn't telling someone that I've seen angels & demons, but that they can't see them because of their paradigm, really just my ego fooling me into a superiority perspective? Wouldn't I obviously be the one who stands to gain by letting go of my paradigm?

@ChimpBrain I understand what you mean now. Thanks. I've just never seen any of that so to me it's fictional, vs unexplainable. I would love to observe any of that, and I've been open minded about all of it since I was a kid. Just never saw anything but fiction. Heard a lot of stories from adults who remember a story they made up when they were a kid. Have you by any chance experienced any of those?

@bazera i actually did

@bazera I also would suggest meditation and to try out a variety of PD, spiritual and science sources, read books consistently. Expand his frame of reference so he doesn't wrestle with not knowing what he wants to do. 20-23, in my opinion, are the toughest ages. The brain isn't fully developed until 24, but the world implies you're on the level with adults by and large by age 21. Not to mention, you're dealing with your potential. That's a lot to be dealing with. Life gets easier in my experience. Also, the ups & downs you mentioned are somewhat simply from your age but consider that carbs and sugar cause addiction highs and then 2-3 day withdrawal symptoms. Took me many years to accept that. I'd tell him that too.

I'm calling bullshit on this post.

@Robert66 ya. I think if a man insults a woman, and she is attracted to that, he should know she's trouble.

@jse Any church. Crafting shows. At the mall, right when it opens. At the hospital (visitors). Any movie theater showing any movie with Diane Keaton in it. And of course, he should consider inventing Tinder for seniors and call it Elder.

@aurum That's awesome dude. You nailed it.

From what I see going in the world, the number one relationship killer, is people staying in the relationship that they should most obviously get out of. It really kills the relationship.

@jse You're hilarious. @clytaemnestra I just received my male translator from amazon and am happy to use it.... "I don't want a relationship with you" means "I don't want a relationship with you" Hope it helps. This thing cost me twenty five bucks.

@Joshuar I'm curious. Can you describe what it is you intend to do once you are 'life coaching' someone? This might help with folks adding practices to your list.