Nahm

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  1. @Visitor There is observance without judgement.
  2. @blacksapp Godspeed! Keep in mind, choosing positive thoughts is the only way. Also, when people say, you are what you eat, it's because you and all your thoughts are literally made from what you eat. A Taco Bell series of thoughts is garbage. A sugar series of thoughts is garbage.
  3. @Mehyar Happy birthday. You got a gift for your birthday from the universe. If you are not someone now, you get to start from zero on momentum and be who you want. Choose.
  4. @LeMale I am sooooo hungry I can barely stand it. I used to eat and when I did I felt great! I am soooooo hungry. Can someone please tell me what I can do?????
  5. @WaterfallMachine You are learning what unconditional means. You are so close. Everything you choose to place above happiness becomes a condition. SImply choose happiness, OR concern for how others see you. If that sounds too simple, you have possibly completely underestimated the power you hold in simply being able to choose. Choose happiness. Nothing needs to be done with the rest. It is alive and being sustained by your thoughts alone. If you let it go, it will be gone. We can not unchoose negative thoughts, but we do a great job of fooling ourselves into justification of holding such thoughts. We can choose positive thoughts though, and that makes us the most powerful thing in existence.
  6. @Angelique First, stop referring to this as "being emotionally attached to other people". That is a perspective rooted in victimization. You're talking about this as if it were something happening to you. It's not. It's something you are doing and have been in control of the whole time. Start referring to it as "I am focusing on how I feel about other people and how they feel about me". Second. Stop focusing that way. Start focusing on how you feel. Notice how thoughts make you feel good or bad. Apply resolve in letting go of the bad feeling thoughts and focusing on continuing to choose thoughts that feel good. Meditate for at least 20 minutes every morning. Stop bullshitting yourself about meditation. Keep returning your focus to your breath. After just a few days, you will stop the momentum of this way of thinking and thus allow yourself to choose to repeat positive thoughts about yourself and your future. It is as if you have been on a train, meditation stops the direction of the train so you can pick a new direction. This can not be understood until you experience it, so have some reasoning and faith and get started.
  7. @blacksapp It will take time but you must focus on what you think. No more spending any time on what others think. Practice focusing on your own perspective. Focus on how you want to feel. Listen to positive videos. Days become weeks, small raises in your being become lasting permanent raises. Relax and trust the process.
  8. @Russell That passion really was never yours in that way. It is the expansion of the universe happening through you. Your role is the chooser. Sounds like you have chosen to stop taking drugs and focus on your health. Your inspiration will come back. It can be no other way. Be patient with yourself. You will become what you focus on. Keep the focus.
  9. No one can make a choice for you, unless you choose not to make a choice, then someone else is making all your choices for you.
  10. It's not that time is linear or nonlinear, it's a concept in our heads - that's why time is relative to each of us. Reality is not between us, but within us.
  11. @mariustuhut That is a reaction that was learned. Think of meditation as a way to let go of being reactive. When someone says something like that to me, I honestly have no personal reaction. I see that they are expressing the way they choose to see things. It has nothing to do with me.
  12. @Arkandeus right on. I often wonder why people use their will power to express that they have no will power. I guess it's one of those things that is revealed to each of us in our own time. I hear so many people complaining about what they don't have, can't do, don't want, etc. Weird world. Happy for you Ark!
  13. @Visitor human values are subjective though.
  14. @Visitor I can certainly understand your perspective and need for concern. There is a state of being found through meditation that allows you to be without concern because the concern is a perspective rooted in thinking.
  15. @Vinsanity @Mert With breathing meditation eventually you realize you're experiencing that you were never breathing but always being breathed.
  16. @Progress Makes total sense. Thanks.
  17. Having fun knowing it's all make believe. Work, school, etc. All of it. FUN
  18. @Progress @K VIL @Cjaryo @Progress @Veggies make me FART Isn't the concept / vibe / idea / feeling / of discipline counter productive to begin with? Help me understand this guys. Thanks.
  19. @Key Elements We're all like, it's not love, it's this. Ya, it's all love.
  20. @Parki There's no rush on getting back man. It would be like looking at a photo and as soon as you see it you start saying "why can I only see this photo" and then you remove your focus from the photo and lay it back on the general world. We're all going back but fuck sakes Parki, you're the one who focused through Parki. Soak it up man. No rush. Would you rather see all 8 billion photos from a distance at once, or experience each of them individually? Me too.
  21. @SFRL Intend to get a good night sleep. It is optional, choose it. If you repeatedly invoke a good feeling when you choose a good nights sleep I don't think you would need any of the below suggestions.... Divorce floride & aluminum deoderents all together. They can clog the pineal and mess up your melatonin. Alcohol can have this effect too. Notice the itch you get on your body while laying down to go to sleep. Don't scratch it. It's a signal from your brain checking to see if your body is awake. The brain can't tell the difference between external and internal 'reality'. Don't scratch the itch and you'll be asleep within 10 minutes. If you aren't sleeping through the entire night. Meditate every day for at least 20 minutes. Still not sleeping, try taking melatonin. Consider cutting out caffeine after around 1pm. If still not sleeping, address a strong & deeper belief. Consider that the need for sleep is a collective belief. You really only need rest. Know that, be content with the rest. Sex or a rub out changes brain chemistry in a very sleep favorable way also and after a few nights may get you back in a pattern of good sleep. Good luck! Hope something helps.
  22. @Edvard From any observer's perspective there certainly is right and wrong, but from the deeper perspective everything is one thing so it wouldn't perceive right or wrong because there is no other thing for it to be relative to or have a perspective on.
  23. @Dizzy The brain can't tell the difference between internal 'real' & external 'real'. IMO, this is a good thing you have going on. It seems to me that you're witnessing yourself becoming influential energetically speaking but don't know what to do with it. Did you have an experience or consistent feeling recently of being very connected? Or maybe someone who led you to feeling seperated in your past recently moved, left, or passed on? Maybe you moved? Just curious. Anyways, meditate until the momentum of your thinking has calmed, maybe 20 minutes of focusing back to your breathing. Notice your breathing goes to almost none. Now notice the thoughts that arise from your desires. Things you want to do basically. Focus on those thoughts (one of them) as long and as much as you can or like. Do this in the morning and again around 5 or 6 pm everyday. Soon, you won't be seeing oddball stuff like you described. You'll be seeing awesome unexplainable coincidences except that as soon as they've transpired they will be explainable in normal practical ways. I think you're very intuitive at a deeper level and when you get a couple weeks in of practicing putting your thinking aside you are in for wild ride.
  24. @Azrael Great sharing, thank you! Chopping wood, carrying water huh?