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@Vrubel Well don’t be pickin it up too much brother. and thanks. And maybe those are masculine traits. Idk. Seriously though, I think the word you’re lookin for is transmutation. Which is experienced via expression.

@StarStruck I’m pretty confident Leo meant that from an integrity standpoint, as he doesn’t drink alcohol and likely doesn’t want to encourage it either, and not so much from a monetary reasoning. My two cents, don’t be cheap man. If you can afford to, as you mentioned, take her someplace nice, and ideally lively & fun. Don’t think so ‘tit for tat’, or transactionally. Having fun and enjoying experience, regardless of ‘if she’s the one’, or if it’s even headed anywhere beyond the moment, so to speak, is up to you. Paradoxically of course, this light & easy way (non-transactional thinking) attracts.

Sorry, using power tools presently. I’m gonna claim state.

@OneHandClap That’s what she said.

@OneHandClap Clappiness.

@julienw I think the point or intention of debunking science is really the freeing of minds, so to speak. Truth. It’s not really about the science or scientists. Though, scientists can free their minds as well and carry right on with the science, choppin the wood, enhancing theirs & all of our lives. Yes, in knowing some scientists more intimately the attitude or tone might be different (idk)… but I’m not convinced that difference would be for the better in regard to the Real Message. Might be infringed, even skewed or tainted perhaps. In a way, a very big favor is being done which is really kinda just, beautiful. Edit: sorry, I stand corrected.

@OneHandClap Once again, two hands clappin over here.

@julienw Sun, thought attachment wise… go inside, notice the thought ‘sun’… go outside, notice the thought ‘sun’. Notice the thought, the label, arises with or without, any corresponding perception. Then see if it’s noticed that no thoughts correspond with perception. Anything other than self referential thought. This is to ‘empty your cup’… as there’s no such thing as a cup, just the thought ‘cup’, and perception. Use those delightful nuggets for some song lyrics. You got the gift of prose there imo.

There is no “long term”. ‘That’ is this, ‘then’ is now. You’ll be barfing that karma up inevitably, tasked with the weight of righting your wrongs, and I can’t say I’d envy it. @Raptorsin7 Beautiful to witness my friend. ?

‘Doomed mentality’ is one thought. The corresponding feeling is not “because of the pandemic, the new variant, people not getting vaccinated, climate change, abortion laws, pulling out from Afghanistan, dealing with worsening wealth inequality and just the general chaos that's ensuing in the world.” It’s the experience of thought attachment. We’re in the same world so to speak, and in this experience, that’s the emotion of blame, not a mentality or any thought at all. “no idea what I'm doing with my life and how shit is going to pan out because how unpredictable and bizarre everything is” That’s also thought attachment, belief, veil. An idea is just the start, not some thing which is supposed to or could reveal what you’re doing with your life. Put all aligned ideas on a dreamboard. You’ll see for yourself just how predictable this place can be. You won’t remember what it’s like to “have” a ‘doomer mentality’, just happiness, love, compassion and understanding. It’s not “other people’s fault”, and without thought attachment, being reminded of anything isn’t really even a thing. Don’t cope and avoid, feel & understand.

@julienw But are you right though? How do you really know that’s true about you? Maybe it’s just indicative of your experience.

@julienw Thought attachment is the root of emotional discord. ‘Sun’ is only a thought. There is no such thing. Similarly, scared is not an emotion.

You are your own energy drain so to speak, but aren’t noticing this yet. Be willing to be aware of self referential thinking, and double negative thinking. Give it a google. Get back to your dream board. Utilize the emotional scale to understand and transcend, or, see through doubt. You’ve a habit of focusing what you don’t want. Not a big deal. Write a long list of it. Then step away, go for a walk. Then come back to it and write the opposite of each thing you wrote. That’s what you do want. Write that on the board.

@Fearless_Bum Believing they’re seriousness. I guess. ?‍♂️

As a testament to the truth of what you shared… don’t know that either, as it isn’t true, it’s projection. ?

A you can neither be serious, nor taken seriously. That would be impossible. ?

Preference arises, then is experienced, new preferences arise, then are experienced. Perfect. No judgment of self or process required. Address the fear & doubt by learning, understanding and using the emotional scale.

The same way focusing on the path inherently equals not running into the trees. Can’t not be what & where you are, and can’t look at where you’re going and where you’ve been at the same time.

Feeling is giving you all the answers, but is being suppressed with labels. Many people in fact completely understand from having transcended this ignore-ance, simply by no longer ignoring feeling, and understanding the emotions. The refusal to spend some time doing so is suffering. When one does not understand the emotions they are experiencing, one projects this, and it sounds like ‘no one understands me’. There is only for you to understand you. Nothing less, and nothing more is necessary, and nothing could be better. Take a permanent break from the conceptual, and spend time understanding the actual.

(Sorry, missed this post a while back apparently.) No, ignoring would be the opposite orientation from what I would suggest. Notice to judge thoughts as negative is already to ignore the feeling. The Good is what’s felt. The thoughts are not negative, they’re discordant with that Goodness. You don’t have anything wrong, that’s similar to believing in negativity… feels off because it is off. Thoughts repeat, so to speak, attempting to meet with the truth, again and again. We call these beliefs. The resolve is expression & understanding using the emotional scale. This is bursting the bubbles of beliefs, and the alignment in doing so feels really good because… you are really good, and there is no such thing as negative or wrong. Awesome! Indeed that is how simple it is, and that is exactly how it works. It is crazy-awesome. Literally zero ‘mental energy’ at all. A preferential thought arises, and I just write it on the board, and that’s it. That thought doesn’t arise again, literally. There is a momentum to dreamboarding. It generally looks like: deflection & projection onto the messenger, then recognizing the discord of cynicism & skepticism, then openmindedness to ‘see’ the direct experience for one’s self (rather than only experience thoughts about it), then seeing that it does in fact work, then believing in and enjoying the process, then experiencing more and more ‘synchronicities’, then inevitably knowing this is how creator-creating-creation works, then just living in pure joy as a creator basically, enjoying the mind-blowing actuality all day ? and of course all the experiences you’ve lined up on the board. I’d write what I want to experience. The expressing is key. I would undertake no actions, but I’d be inspired, and quite literally moved by this inspiration. It’s more polluted than convoluted, you’re already good. The thought “figure it out for myself”, is a bit discordant with that very goodness, which is actually “doing” (is) all the “figuring out”. The thought that ‘you are doing’, or ‘you need to do x, y or z’ is discordant. Understand what conjecture is, to the degree you ‘take back you’re own way’ so to speak, by relinquishing the discordant perspective(s) you innocently adopted as your own. Learn, understand, and implement daily.. meditation, expression, and the emotional scale.

@Vrubel All stomach & digestion issues are created by indigestible (discordant) thoughts & beliefs. People label the momentum of dis ease as disease, as if an outside force exists and is acting upon them, basically pretending something is wrong without recognizing the truth of the situation. This can easily be cleared up in one session, but can’t really be properly addressed in text or obviously I would. Link’s below if interested. Can only imagine how this could be taken or received, and any ‘but not mine’s’ which might arise, but, it’s true and to understand requires an actual conversation.

Realize they aren’t yours. Understand what conjecture is. Stop adding more. Daily meditation & expression for years, maybe decades, and then take psychedelics.

@Blackhawk I just want you to know that as far as I’m concerned you’re accepted, in it with the rest of us, and loved.

@Intense https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/41823-the-loophole-shake-easy-way-to-change-diet/?do=findComment&comment=521516