Nahm

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  1. Meditation. You won’t hold the belief you’re an introvert for long, because that is thought activity, which settles (disappears) via meditation. Make a dreamboard. Take Leo’s LP course. Between those activities & meditation, focus is no longer on “yourself” (that’s just thought activity) and onto experience. You’ll then never be at a loss for speaking passionately, compassionately, and naturally.
  2. By looking around and actually checking to see if it’s something you in fact do have. If it isn’t, consider it might just be something you believe. Yes & no. Yes, as in you are already awareness (infinite) of beliefs (finite). Beliefs come & go, while you do not. You are already unthinkably beyond needing help. No, as in you can inspect and see through, dispel, and relinquish limiting beliefs. Ask questions instead of asserting statements, ongoing. No longer focus on justifying anything. It’s unnecessary. Eat clean & meditate twice a day, first thing in the morning and again in the afternoon. Write what is wanted on a dreamboard. Include the routine you want. Focus (effortlessly) on only what is wanted, allowing other people to focus on whatever they want. Letting their business be their business, get’s your focus off others, and back to what you want. Understand the emotions experienced, rather than remaining ignorant of this & continuing to believe in depersonalization & depression. That’s aversion. Take full advantage of every resource available to you. Understand blame is an emotion you experience which is guidance in regard to the thoughts about something being taken from you, and re-focus on wanted rather than lack, shortage and injustice. Wether or not it’s fair isn’t the position you’re in. That you are free to let beliefs go and focus on wanted, is the position you’re in. Take trust, and refocus it onto it’s rightful place, this universe, and let everyone else off the hook. Allow them to live their own lives and no longer hold them accountable for your happiness. Own accountability for your emotional well being. Write what you want on your dreamboard, directly experience that it does unfold, and re-understand trust altogether, such that the concept is seen to be unnecessary altogether. When you experience contradiction, don’t settle, inspect, inspect the thoughts. Be humbly willing to acknowledge contradiction occurs as thoughts. Let go of expectations held on others, and the resulting blaming & habitual complaining. Appreciation & gratitude instead. There is much to be thankful for. Take responsibility for your own vision of your future. No one else can do this for you, because they already have theirs happnin. Take Leo’s life purpose course. Feel the life affirmation in doing so. Be aware it is you making the conscious choice to begin changing all this. Be most patient & loving with yourself, and everyone else too. Acknowledge no one or no thing is preventing you from doing this now, and always. No. There is nothing you should do. You’ve become accustomed to holding expectations upon others (shoulds). You can become accustomed to not holding expectations (shoulds) at all. It’s a matter of focus, honesty and understanding emotions. What is true, is that you can do, have, be and experience what you desire to.
  3. Did you read a book or take a course on loa? Thoughts appear & disappear in your direct experience, including the thought magical thinking, while the belief focused on is that this is not actually true. Value is an ideological belief. Loa is a universal law. Just because you believe there are ‘right & wrong’ individuals does not make it true. Duality & separation is not a universal law, which is why there are universal laws, and is what they help you to realize. Loa also helps you to realize pessimism is an emotion, magical guidance for the magical thoughts, and is not identity. That’s unknown with respect to direct experience, but believed, and thus it’s ‘working’ for you, that is your experience. Self inquire, who is the one putting in work? Who are the others putting in work? Which one is ‘the right one’? Yep. When God is tripping balls, there are “planets”.
  4. @WokeBloke https://www.actualityofbeing.com/the-ten-ox-herding-pictures
  5. @WokeBloke On a good note, the first ox pic is more or less complete. ?? SEARCHING One begins to question the nature of oneself, and the origin & true nature of the universe & experience of reality. This is often brought about by loss, fear, suffering, feeling incomplete, unworthy, a sense something is lacking, or simply by intuition & curiosity. The search might also arise from ‘having it all’, yet intuitively sensing there is much more to life and experience which remains veiled.
  6. @PurpleTree That’s helpful imo. If they’re unhealthy, just be mindful it is their health and not yours. What they stand to benefit most from is an example (imo). What you probably stand to benefit most from is being with them. It’ll not only make you more aware of and feel great about your alignments with well being, but of your thus inherent ability to effortlessly influence them toward well being, just by being you, being there. @mandyjw Fun-or-real. ?
  7. It’s a reference to the guy who sits on the street with three cups and a peanut, and you bet five bucks which cup the peanut’s under, after he shuffles them around. Thought is similar. When you switch from the thought ‘change’ to ‘processes’ without noticing, you’re experiencing the ‘shuffling of the cups’, and never finding the peanut. Yes, you totally do. Change can not be pointed to, because it’s a thought. You believe it can be pointed to (see pics) because you believe the thought ‘change’ is perception, or as a concession ‘what’s seen’, or ‘what’s in perception’, or, ‘what’s perceived’, however you’d like to put that. There is no actual separation between ‘what’s seen’, ‘seeing’, ‘knowing of the seeing’, and awareness of the knowing. Don’t take my word for it of course, check direct experience. That’s a belief. Actually check direct experience. Have a back up pair of drawers handy first. Only when thoughts are believed… … and one is “certain” (right).
  8. Three cups no answer. Not sure you’re getting the three cups reference. You can plug any word or thought in, like world, old age, people, change, etc, and it’s still believing the thought is perception. Look around for yourself. Check direct experience. Seeing thoughts anywhere? Believing you’re thinking perception?
  9. Hmm. What’s the thought meditation about, what’s it mean? That’s the three cups and no peanut experience of the unpracticed. It’s just using a synonym for change (processes) which is also a thought. There is no actuality of change or processes, only thought attachment. And not even that, really.
  10. @WokeBloke Unlike meditation, change is a thought.
  11. @SQAAD Good for you. ?? And whatever you hell you want, God.
  12. My good man, the words are sharings, pointings. The intention of, isn’t to convince you that you are the words, but for you to get on your path and see for yourself. Consciousness, nothing, and awareness could be said to be uniquely communicative words, as they point to that which has no opposite. Yet, thinking makes it so. Another pointing word, if ever a pointing was heard, meditation.
  13. Welcome, sorry to hear, and… nice ‘work’ there. Understanding emotion. Recognizing the true source of the true nature.
  14. @WokeBloke That proof would also be, experience. What can’t be experience(d)?
  15. @blackchair Much love, enjoy the holidays and family. Wishing you peace, deep relaxation and heeling eyes. ??
  16. Maybe they’re just enjoying sharing. You’re the truth. Remember?