Nahm

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  1. @Toimur Hasan Tamim Yeah. If reality is spontaneous, what can you do with that?
  2. @28 cm unbuffed Great, great work. ?? In your words, what is the shadow? Not In general, but the one you want to let go of.
  3. @28 cm unbuffed What does that ‘working on myself’ look like?
  4. @28 cm unbuffed I’d start by establishing what you want in life on a dry erase board, and be willing to be attentive to negative self talk and telling the same old story of what you do not want. If happiness is contingent upon the relation with someone else, it’s going to continue to be a bumpy ride. Also, meditation every morning is essential for overthinking.
  5. @Matt23 You don’t want him and everyone else to be under your control. You want the feeling of relief from the belief in judgement & control (and “values”). No?
  6. Just to clarify, that’s your idea.
  7. Yep. Can’t verbalize it. Totally get it.
  8. @Conscious life The mind weaves stories of nothing in avoidance of feeling.
  9. @Scholar So being = delusional? Edit: oop, never mind. I get ya now. ??
  10. Self inquiry & do nothing are inward oriented, un-contraction, to feel awareness prior to the duality of thinking (‘who am I’), to ‘undercut’ ultimately, the separate self of thought. The title conveys awareness / feeling contracted outward to the question (duality / thought), rather than inward of the feeling. The desire for an intellectual answer, insight, or experience, is like a rubber band, being stretched outwardly. In a moment of letting thinking / duality go, the insightful experience transpired, when the outward orientation was at rest. Then, ‘it’ was felt, like an expanded rubber band would be on one’s face when let go of.
  11. @Khron That is awesome to hear! Rather than think about establishing a distinction between thinking and overthinking....just consider, that the amount of voluntary thinking necessary, is 0%.
  12. If you held a rubber band against your face with one finger, while pulling it away from your face with a finger on the other hand....when you let go with that other hand, what’ll likely happen? Where do you get questions from?
  13. Ego is the greatest job security possible.
  14. @28 cm unbuffed To see another approach / angle / perspective....imagine for a second, that I call my wife all of those labels, and talk about her that way. Imagine that she actually believes my words, over her own sensation which is screaming to her that what Nahm says about her is not actually true. How does it look from that perspective? What advice would you give Mrs. Nahm? What advice would you give Mr. Nahm?
  15. @28 cm unbuffed This is now. There is not the past three years actually, there is only the baggage and veils we recreate & carry, now, by identifying via experiences, and labeling sensation as...wrong. (That way, in thought, one get’s to be right. Being “right” is the opposite of being vulnerable) As soon as you get even a glimpse of how you are recreating this, you begin the relief, release, healing, and thus begins the trajectory of well being you are desiring. Does this readily make sense (feels true) to you, when I reframe in this manor.... - The good name of your ever-loving inner being is being beaten up on routinely, in this manor, you are creating your suffering: You can do that, you can say what you are and judge & label yourself, you can say there are second and third you’s, demons, entities, etc, and fragment yourself into ideas. But believing these thoughts & repeating them, recreating them effortlessly in habit, suppresses feeling. You are free to create such experiences, but.... Ya. I bet. That’s exhausting. It’s exhausting to read, I really feel for you living it, except, you are creating it...so... There is no such thing as a wrong feeling. One can willingly acknowledge sensation which “does not feel good” - is right / true, and in doing so, one can ponder, “ok then, how am I looking at this, which is not true?”.
  16. @28 cm unbuffed To me, your answer here, is zero. Am I right? As in, you are not at all willing to be vulnerable, because you could get hurt.
  17. @Mason Riggle That feel true, right, for you? Is there really any response there?
  18. If there is a transmission of God...what is the vehicle, the means, - that by which God delivers the transmission, which is not in and of itself, God?
  19. @28 cm unbuffed How vulnerable are you on a 1 - 10 scale? (By vulnerable, I mean willing to just experience anything and everything, feel amazing love, as well as lose amazing love and experience the heartbreak) Then, what is the number on the 1 - 10 ‘scale of vulnerability’, which you think is ideal, in general?
  20. @Scholar What do you think about perception = sentience? In the sense, the delusion is required, thus making the intelligence of a plant, incomprehensible, based on the illusion one is comprehending (a delusion which the plant is not under)
  21. Awesome. Actuality of memory is a key to no mind, and I can’t help but wonder, did you see the love / attention ‘answer’ you were looking for?
  22. @Swagala Great resource. I remember once, seeing the Efficiency, it popped into mind from years prior....why did Ra always prefaced the answers with the redundancy of “I am Ra”.