Nahm

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  1. @Fuku What is the fundamental reason, your principle, as to why you don’t respect the work? Are the women guys in the videos actually enjoying sexual degradation, or are they doing it for the money?
  2. @Fuku Are you working / gainfully employed / financially independent?
  3. @Fuku What are five activities / interests / categories in your life you just totally love & feel great doing?
  4. Creating the life worth waking up to is the most lasting & woke approach possible. This is done effortlessly. Literally.
  5. @GreenWoods Great work, very interesting. Looking forward to hearing more of your journey!
  6. When you wake up in the morning, you might have fleeting memories of the remnants of a dream. At that waking point, is there really any question about wether there was another, separate “you” inside the dream, or is it clear you were dreaming, and everything was the dream? It’d be clear that it was a dream, and not people, objects, places, planets, air, etc. The ‘trouble’ with the orientation of your inquiry is the assumption there are ‘seekers’ and ‘enlightened people’. That inquiry begins on step two, and step one which was blown past was not-two. I say this not to bust balls, but in hopes you discover there is not a physical reality of separate objects, it is all you, and it wants to play with you, if you will. Heard the chant “all the way over here” in your dream.
  7. Thanks, and you too Just a strong intuition. Give it a search on YouTube tonight. Things have a way of working out for you. I hear on the ‘give me a house with millions of dollars and a great career’, meh. I felt the same way. Can’t recommend the dreamboard enough. Trying to think of what will inspire and evoke passion is difficult to impossible. But seeing everything you like, love, want to experience, do, be, have, etc...in front of you, in one big picture, is very different. It’s like you’re whole life ‘clicks’, and that which you are uniquely inspired and passionate about comes to the surface. It’s both completely unexpected, and yet makes sense of your whole life this far and going forward. But it’s a direct experience thing. After adding to it for x number of days, it culminates, coagulates, and reveals. Also, the ‘what I want to be’ is a tricky lens, and might be feeding into the ‘behavior pattern’. I’ve found ‘what I want to experience’ to be more flow-ish in filling the board from the heart. A short stoic ‘I indeed will die one day’ meditation stokes the fire as well. And whatever ‘comes up’ for you, comes up for you. You can’t ‘get it wrong’. However, it is highly likely that ‘click’ is going to be along the lines of sharing with the world what is unique about you, and what you love.
  8. When you no longer judge people you begin to see the true beauty of your own innocence.
  9. @Jaka Pirs Hanzic No, there is no longer the experience of perception of the world. The duality of language can only point, but maybe contemplate ‘what would it be to experience no-experience’? And or ‘how is ‘experience’ ultimately defined?’...’is the defining itself...experience’?
  10. Attachment is only to thought, not ‘things’, not ‘emotional problems’. In mistaking this, a narrative of the ‘it’ is weaved and unnoticed. “ ‘It’ seems to rob me of motivation.” Of course, one ‘robs’ oneself of motivation, but, how? The motive is to limit oneself as to protect against feeling any suffering. The motive employed is actually working perfectly, it’s just not what you want anymore. Inspiration is what you want. The difference is living to avoid circumstances, vs living in creating them. Video on this later today. Inspection wise, start with the thought “ I “, which is being credited with caring or not caring.
  11. @Someone here Set up a monthly subscription / donation. A dollar is in this case is worth more than thinking. (Thinking & progress happen hungry or not).
  12. @Preety_India *second most awesome ‘thing’. “You are born to enjoy the beauty of the earth, you don't have anything to lose on earth” ― Dr.P.S. Jagadeesh Kumar “If there is ever a magical beauty that can be watched hours with great admiration, and that is the beauty of a strong light falling from the everlasting skies into the heart of the dimness!” ― Mehmet Murat Ilden
  13. The discord is from your thoughts & perspectives. It’s not coming from other people. It can be liberating & humbling to admit you don’t even know if other people are thinking at all. You have only your interpretations. It’s hard to create the experience of embarrassment when you realize you don’t know what anyone else thinks. What is “I”, and “me”? Stand up, walk towards these and look at them.
  14. Unpack that a bit? How does meditation ‘remove desire’?
  15. @Preety_India Infinite love for you. And for God’s sake...dreamboard? Bout to bring this place to life.
  16. @Preety_India Self love...top of mind .... Enough sleep. A clean diet. Daily exercise. Daily meditation. Aligning thoughts with feeling. Some time spent each day on what you enjoy, and specifically activities which highlight and expand on your unique gifts. Break routine. Take a solo trip somewhere new. Order / try something new, outside your typical day to day. Could be a new food, a more expressive flamboyant blouse, anything. Body pampering...not sure what the options are over there in India but things like mani & pedi, massage, float tanks, etc, etc. Anything whatsoever which is creative. Drawing, painting, clay, anything. To ‘connect’ in creation is ‘connect’ in self love. Then, happiness, peace of mind, love, etc, all the Goodies, are far less contingent upon relationships with others. Sun’s just gotta shine that’s your thingy. ? Narcissists would avoid you like the plague.
  17. Got some simple steps for how one goes about this?
  18. Nice! Keep probing. If I’s just a thought, how is there a ‘my insight’, how does asking if this is correct make sense, who’s asking, who’s being asked?
  19. With the collapse of the dualities of working for money vs living for people and the world, and time...Leo is basically the modern day example of what you’re talking about. Why not make youtube videos sharing your wisdom and insight? If it’s high quality and folks connect, they’ll share it and you’ll make money doing what (it sounds like) you want to do (living for people & the world / helping people with awakening). That’d probably naturally lead to opportunities to help people beyond the videos. You could start right now for free. I’ll watch it and subscribe and share it today. Assuming it’s reasonably insightful, which I think it would be. The first video could be introducing what you’re kicking off, and why you’re not going the ‘typical route’. That’d be interesting imo. Inevitably yes. The more hungry, the less picky.