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@Bogdan If you search the forum, there’s a recent thread about this & a video where Rupert explains this as well, more clearly & more nuanced.

@Mjolnir It’s been this simple all along. Let me know if you have any questions. If you choose to stop pretending you experience a past or future it gets immediately clear as well.

@Nemo28 You’re at code zen slap brother. I’ll happily take a few bullets from ya. ?ZEN SLAP? Witness! Rather than asking other people. Obviously. ?ZEN SLAP? Inspect (read the link) and respond rather than reacting (to the comment without having read the link). Obviously. As in let these things be obvious. Have a laugh, or a dozen. Which emotion did you get stuck on? Take big, deep stomach breaths...and straighten up your posture. Your heart sits on your diaphragm which sits on your stomach. Simply by sitting and or standing up straight, breathing from your stomach and relaxing, your heart rate goes down, your mind clears, and focus doubles. Like gd magic. Pineal to follow with momentum.

@AuthenticSelf In kindergarten there was not ego, survival, material world, life purpose, strategic mother fucker’s, your enlightenments, your benefits, jokes unseen, no responsibilities for no movements, no negative reactions, no confirmations - and you were AWAKE! As if samsara & suffering were not warm enough blankets for sleepers...dualities, paradigms of self referential thinking & the weight of the world. Mind as well be an academic.

@nistake https://www.artstation.com/ntsk89 - WOW!

@Nemo28 It was more a comment for potential easily influenced onlookers, you know, our kids etc. You do you.

The birds have the advantage of not being of this world, and thus are not enslaved.

Seek a source outside yourself to change your behavior, and you’ll see you already have seven billion. Inspect what is actual and you are the effortless One.

“The mind can not serve two masters” - Jesus ? https://www.actualityofbeing.com/tools

Drugs like heroin are highly addictive and a lot of young people innocently throw their lives away and destroy families this way. I wouldn’t take it so lightly folks. Care about each other, not just your selves.

@Someone here ?? Love=Truth=you. So if you think, believe, and or say anything about yourself which doesn’t feel good...it ain’t true. That’s how simple Truth is. That’s how simple Love is. There’s no catch! Truth is so Good - it’s unthinkable! Unbelievable! Inconceivable! Unjustifiable! Unrationalizable! Unexplainable! Unimaginable! Not a single thought is needed. A single thought detours. Simple and self evident. ?? “Buy. Stock. In. Kleenex! - for those with two good ears had better listen”

Push what? Discipline, what?

That there is no such thing as psychedelics. But you can’t, cause you’re God, which is why “psychedelics” are so God damn funny. First you forget, then believe you’re not God / imagine there is a God. As the “separate self” (that belief) it seems like there’s “two”, and so “you” can have a “purpose”, which “you” (separate self) can’t, because “you” aren’t. But you can create that you are, and then that you can. Not two...&... states - is an oxymoron. Psychedelics are an appearance, a “thing”, and do not produce any “thing”. Except for the “separate Self”. For the “separate Self” psychedelics produce “nondual states”. You don’t need to create at all. Might want to though. And here “we” are. Truth does set “us” free. ?

Nonduality is “not two”. The materialist paradigm is essentially “two”, “my (1) consciousness (2)”.

Congrats on recognizing the matrix. Very few make it this far on the path. Well done Onelove, well done. ?? As you’re experiencing, “stopping the urges” does not work. This is also referred to as suppression. Expressing the emotions, such as anger, and continuing to express totally, totally works. The holy grail of expressing & understanding emotions, is the liberation from the matrix of duality... ...the realization there is not an I which feels mad at a myself. Nor a you which told a yourself. Expression is the way. The heavy lifting is done. It’s all expression and letting go from here on out.

Mind is not a duality. Thoughts are dualistic. The thought about “it” is a thought. There is not a you & an “it”. In mistaking thoughts about a you & a mind...it’s missed there are not actually two. This is what is meant by “asleep” in the “matrix” of the mind, and what is referred to as “monkey mind”. Likewise, there isn’t a “my mind” which creates problems. “Problem” is the dualistic thought. It’s devicive, as the thought implies a you & that which could be the problem. As there are not two, and these are all thoughts, it can be glimpsed that no mind is no dualistic thoughts, no narrative, no thinker thinking. Meditation & expression is the way.

That’s not going to work out in the longer run, as loa is inseparable of Truth. Happiness fills life with happiness. You seem to be missing that manipulation is quite delusional as there are not two. This is a sure fire way to remain ‘asleep’, or on the seeker’s rollercoaster. One only manipulates oneself, and then fills that hole with seeking short term good feeling from outside oneself, such as with meaningless sex, substances, self image inflation, demeaning others to feel ‘superiority’, etc (samsaras). None of which is satisfying. It’s one gaming oneself. You might say do to the law of one, there is no exception to this. Yes. Truth is unconditional, and paradoxically therefore fulfilling of every aspect and venture of your life, relationship(s) & creating. I’d swap ‘express’ for ‘tell’, and ‘amazing feeling’ for ‘brutal’. Truth, unconditional love, and loa are inseparable, One whole experience. Release of conditioning = being aware of attracting, and is for you. Sharing what remains, the whole world smiles with you, everything magically works out, because reliably is pure magic. This is the pinnacle of being and living, the best of ‘both’ worlds, effortless creating in joy, co-creating with Truth ya might say. Right. Loa & conditioning wise, life would fuck you, and you’d be believing in two, missing you’re attracting it, fucking yourself. Don’t do that lol. There is no one here to manipulate. Don’t ‘fill the hole’ with objects & objectifying, release conditioning, aka the identity of / as a manipulator. There are not two, and so this is a foundation of delusion and falsity. The ‘straw house’ of the three little pigs. Don’t wolf to compensate, there was no problem to begin with, without manipulating others. Brick house yo’ self of Truth, simple honesty. ? Experience doesn’t attract, you attract. Notice, listening to intuition & feeling, even considering this ‘duality’ is extremely low hanging fruit on the path. Pass it up readily, and dial into intuition & feeling, Oneness more so (brick house).

@EmptyVase ☺️

@VeganAwake ??

The named is the mother of ten thousand things.

Should be said, these are ‘story time’ answers about ‘Phil’, but happy to help nonetheless. It would be entirely relative to that someone. To give a general answer though, for a seeker... loving, responsibility, a clean diet, fitness, Maslow’s pyramid, using the dreamboard & emotional scale, daily proper meditation, guitar and or piano & singing, solo retreats & trips in nature, the books Ask & It Is Given, and The Nature Of Consciousness, law of attraction, law of one, law of as above & so below, all of the immutable / universal laws really, basic economics, psychology, neurology and quantum mechanics. Again, very general here, the much preferred answer is entirely a one off from talking to the seeker, if they’re still a seeker by the time we’re done talking, which is highly unlikely. To someone who wants to start a similar business I’d suggest scheduling a session. That’s not a sexy answer I realize, but it would be entirely relative to that someone. There really is no generic answer I could say here that would not be misleading. Imagine someone advising Ester to be like Rupert, or Rupert to be like Ester. Can’t be generalized really, other than to say it would be best if they had many years of experience talking with individuals, couples, and families about wants, needs, & life dreams, and have already met their own needs, are manifesting their wants, and living their dream life. Generally speaking, the best experience for helping people create successful businesses is having created serval successful businesss, like any other line of work in that way. No. None. It’s been a great joy in my life. That there were no challenges is basically the result of the answer to question 1. Fall in love with truth and being alone, or find something more fitting that one is passionate about, maybe life coaching or the like. That is not to say be alone. I’ve a wife & family, friends, coworkers, etc. Offered what came to mind. The only real answer is I never thought of any it. It really is just experiencing what’s happening so to speak.

It’s not what others say that gets your goat, it’s your own vibrational resonance with it. Do what they have not, use the scale. Harmonizing is for the studio, not the muggles. ? Put ideas on dreamboard, make them literally in your reach. See them visually, perceptually, rather than as thoughts which come & go. Then watch them manifest & use the emotional scale for any discord along the way.

Check direct experience. The seeker is illusory. Ineffable. Inspect, de-condition, self realize satisfaction beyond asking. There is only the words to go on here. Reading into it more, as in thinking more isn’t inspecting, de-conditioning, self realization.

Thinking that way doesn’t feel good, yet feeling is blamed. Nothing “personal”, I couldn’t love ya more, but you’re already deluded. You’re not God. Take that one slow my friend... not two. Sometimes what seems popular is really poopular. Use the emotional scale to release. You create your reality, so why claim of ten minute molehill is a lifetime mountain? On a Jesus kick lately, bear with Me... "Whoever blasphemes against the father will be forgiven, and whoever blasphemes against the son will be forgiven, but whoever blasphemes against the holy spirit will not be forgiven either on earth or in heaven." Curse God, no biggie. Curse other people, no biggie. Curse your life, you screw yourself. Understanding emotions, using the scale, is amazing. It uncovers the magic of reality. No one can make you understand yourself though, you’ve got to put the armor down and willingly choose to. Home slice is coming from truth & wisdom. We just love the giggles outta ya man. Living life without emotional releases is like having sex without orgasms. There would be a “what the hell’s the point” kinda vibe. Totally understandable. You’re missing out bruh.