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Mastery is a river ride, not a destination. It’s now or not at all. Never in a past or future.

The beauty of music is that there are not particles, writers, writing, nor claimers of. All evidence points to the no lose situation of waves... Fuck you.

There are literally limitless ways to make money. It’s not actually a do what you want vs make money to be able to retire scenario. That’s more of a ‘first glance’, and the matrix is already perfectly at quota on agents. Why not take Leo’s LP course now? Life’s quick. Let the “thinker thinking” concept go. Receive instead. Infinity’s not running out of insight, passion or inspiration anytime soon. All ‘you’ gotta do is utter the words so to speak, ‘move mountain’. “When I’m feeling stuck and need a buck I don’t rely on luck because” JP

@jasonjp1016 It’s not negative. You’re kicking some leaves off the truth. It shakes the reactionary out of the bushes. Good on you sir. “The first time you feel it, it might are you mad. The next time you feel it, it might make you sad. But you’ll be glad when you’ve found, the power that makes the world go round.” HL Yet, if you’re to continue calling us rats, make sure it’s consciously, on purpose.

The easier way is letting go, not doing. Letting go of beliefs, primarily that how you feel is caused by what other people think. Then, focus upon what you want is revealed to have been effortless all along... and it is seen that what you were focusing on, was what other their people think. Which didn’t jive with direct experience, because you never actually experienced it. That’s how ‘deep’ your beliefs are. That’s how much effortlessness stands to be uncovered. For God’s sake my good man, lay claim to your own life.

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Well of course I believes it. That’s the whole game.

@Matt23 That she is your landlord isn’t relevant. But it is to you, which is why you led with it, and aren’t seeing why that’s triggering. Yet. I bet she doesn’t “rant”. Everything you’re feeling, namely, that you don’t want to continue or repeat feeling… are your perspectives about her. You are not feeling her perspectives about you. And the perspectives about her which aren’t resonating, aren’t resonating due to the underlying indirect beliefs about yourself. Make the distinction… if she or someone else physical harms or hurts you, then someone else is behind your being physically harmed or hurt. If someone else is not, the suffering is ‘in the lens’, amidst your own thoughts, perspectives & views, and there are beliefs about yourself to let go of. When this is missed, there is a false narrative that others should behave in a certain way to accommodate your beliefs or perspectives. To the extent you self-love, is the extent which you peacefully talk with anyone, un-rattled & appreciative of the conversation for what it is, and the person for who they are, as they are now - free of judgements, conditions & projections. They key is peace with who you are, as you are, now. Put another way, the truth is that there is nothing wrong with you. In a way, she might represent a yet-realization… that conceptualization doesn’t amount to much actuality of change in regard to changes you desire, both in your life & inner world harmony… but aligning thoughts / perspectives with feeling, changes everything. When people react to negative inner talk angrily by outwardly hurting someone else, this is easy for anyone to see, because it’s visual. When people react to negative inner talk angrily toward themself, this is not readily seen by most as it is empathically felt. The key point is these scenarios have the same root - thoughts about oneself which are not true and therefore feel, ‘not true’. In the analogous sense that when a sprinkler expresses sincerely, the expression is that of the water… when we express earnestly, the expression is that of Truth. It feels amazingly awesome to express honestly, to ‘come clean’ with ourselves. It illuminates our discordant beliefs and is simultaneously the action of relinquishing them. Expressing each emotion up the scale is a simple, fruitful way to go about this.

He didn’t actually comprehend what Deepok said.

@ivankiss Blue hasn’t considered this ‘separate selves’ situation. Orange firmly believes in the separate self, missing ‘it’ is self-defined by accumulation & self image, via self referential thinking, subject-object thinking & the belief in & thus identity of a ‘thinker of thoughts’. (Monkey mind) Yellow orientation… ‘why does this feel so unsatisfying’? (Leads to inspection of monkey mind). Turquoise is happy & joyful with or without accumulation & self image, for having gone through yellow, inspected, and seen through illusory nonsensical discordant thoughts. To orange (monkey mind) this (not believing thoughts) is a total mystery… so orange projects & pigeonholes, ‘that’s just how she is’, ‘wow she’s so nice’, ‘she’s so loving’, ‘she has such clarity’, ‘she has vision’, etc, etc. Which of course feels off, because orange is projecting the separate selves concept, onto turquoise. Which is what leads orange to yellow, and is why orange can’t hear this message via dualistic communication. So how is turquoise brought to orange? Literally by you being there. By reaction observing nonreaction. Trigger witnessing non-trigger. Thus orange can say ‘there’s something I’m missing here’. Orange see’s a ‘turquoise person’, whereas turquoise does not see an ‘orange person’, but more, orange thinking, actions & behaviors. And that is the profound Beauty of it all. ??

@Manusia It seems like you are feeling their actions of rejection, but you are feeling your perspective, arising of some unprocessed internalizations… which you are… rejecting. If you accept that sometimes people embrace someone or something, and sometimes people reject someone or something…then you become aware that you do the same thing… and then you are not ‘triggered’ or affected, because you understand & embrace this truth. In hindsight perhaps, you will feel more of the connective-delight for unknowingly having honored your preferences, and this will spill into your life as insights and more intuitively certain direction & guidance. Lot of truth and freedom in what @RobertZ shared. Reminded me of the old sales training advice in regard to rejection… “some will, some won’t - so what.”

It’s like when you post something insightful but no one is interested. Or maybe when everyone is interested but the content isn’t insightful. Not sure

Watching violent film to achieve detachment I’ve found this can be a means of detachment as in emotional suppression, or a means of expansion via connection more prior to emotions. You could watch some disturbing movies, and right when it’s really ‘getttin ya’… pause it and feel the deep ‘off ness’. Might make you angry for seeing the injustices, or deeply sad and disturbed, but you’ll be feeling being, and odds are, releasing and thus experiencing clarity & understanding. If interested, you could watch a whole list of disturbing movies, or you could imo just watch Handmaid’s Tale all the way through. If you can make it.

@ivankiss I employ this mindset at the office by seeing the ‘stuff’ (products, processes) etc, through the lens of ‘only people & experiences’. It feels ‘right in the pocket’ of only what matters. (2 Cents ??)

@Fearey Really nice! Well done.

How to stay aware that you are aware? By not staying.

@BipolarGrowth ??

Why do Buddhists say there can be freedom from the cycle of birth and death? It is freedom from the carrousel of thoughts, which no one ever exits. It is a reference to thought activity, not a reincarnation of separate selves. The ‘wheel’: Subject object thoughts. Self referential thoughts.

So they don’t get hurt again. Which unfortunately is the creating of suffering, the defense of ‘the separate self’, as there aren’t actually arrogant, ignorant, egotistical or delusional people. @allislove ?

I do that. 28 years familying experience. Link below if interested.

Something else isn’t more important to you yet. When it is, you’ll naturally change the way you’re thinking, or rather, what thoughts you’re focusing on and why. Might question ‘when did fear & feeling bad become the priority?’. ‘What did I experience which led me to even start thinking this way?’. Much more so ‘what can I let go of, what can I set free, what can I unfetter of?’ When how you feel is more important to you than even what you think, do, or say, everything changes in accordance with good feeling, and everything in your life flows of the goodness accordingly. Whatever it is / was, it is not your fault. Moving on = healing. “The Moving Finger writes: and, having writ, Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line, Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it” - Omar Khayyam

In your direct experience there is only the present, and a thought arises about there being twenty eight years. Attempt to point to that which you’re claiming, that there is or are ‘twenty eight years’, and it will be noticed that is exactly as it appears… a thought. It seems true if you keep saying & believing it. It’s clear it’s a thought, when you no longer say & believe it. If you don’t feel you are attracting what you desire, tell the story of having it. Then you will. There is no other possibility.

@Gabith When it is said, “my house”, something is pointed to. When it is said, “my consciousness”, nothing is actually pointed to. What if you are what if.

Actually unconditional.

The ‘my ego’ thinking is twice removed, or, the adding of layers of abstraction which are not (imo) necessary or helpful. ‘Go back’, or, recenter, or, re-ground as awareness aware of the thoughts. Inspect the ‘why’ as to why some thoughts don’t resonate. Inspect self referential thoughts as Well. “The moving finger writes; and, having writ, moves on: nor all thy piety nor wit shall lure it back to cancel half a line, nor all thy tears wash out a word of it. -- Omar Khayyam