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Enough said, isn’t it? Maybe she’s wasting her time, depending on her knowing of what she is wanting.

@Yoremo HOW TO USE THE SCALE Choose the emotion on the scale which is experienced. Express simply & earnestly that the emotion is experienced. Then do the same with the next higher emotion on the scale. Don’t skip over any emotions or stop before finishing the scale. Feel for the subtle shift of feeling better with the expression of each emotion. Emotion is guidance… to the experiencing of… what is wanted. Expression of emotions experienced is not ‘about myself’. It’s just about the expressing. Keep it simple. ?

@TheAvatarState Inspect all of the thoughts. That below is the stickler, and what opens the valve to what’s desired. What makes sense of it all. Who consoles when there is loving? Just saying. This is nothing to laugh and make fun of.

You’re definitely not a narcissist. Overemphasized focus on thought, suppression of perception & feeling, and thus experience reduced to dualistically conceptualized interpretation is most common, the norm actually. Meditation changes focus such that there is more pronounced feeling and more recognition of perception. The believing of one’s own justifications falls away, seen as activity of thought. Illusory. Literally actually disappears. Impulsive reaction & suppression is then felt more, as if sensitivity increases. One stops stepping in the same hole, and heals, understands the emotions / no longer justifies the so called unconscious, and begins considering consciously creating. The relationship’s not difficult really, it’s perfect. The communion isn’t yet underway. Projection also falls away, as the illusion of thought activity. Seeing through one’s own justifications & rationalizations, ‘unsolicited advice’ magically becomes the invaluable priceless feedback of the universe. It’s unseen due to it’s infinite abundance, or, that it is whole & all encompassing (not people). For what it’s worth, you can not think yourself. None of the thoughts are accurate about you. Very loosely speaking, you might say what is not expressed emotionally, arises as a narrative / justification as thought, and is believed to logically reason & explain how one feels. All illusory. The grand finale if you will of this meditation, expressing, healing & understanding, is cessation. And indicative of the nature of illusion, you never happened. ‘You’ & the universe are inverted. Nothing changes, and nothing is the same, and there’s certainly no longer apathy. I wouldn’t disagree if anyone said life is definitely way better, but it has nothing to do with he or anyone else being involved or not, as that’s that dualistic lens. Just that communion matters.

The Loophole Shake!

Since this is a dream, make a dreamboard and let the guidance of emotion teach the allowing & receiving of what’s on the board. Simple & intrinsic, prior to man’s incessantly manipulative capture my audience meddling (apparently). No thought, meaning, point, value, or purpose required. ?? Fun. Enjoyment. Peace. Crazy, I know.

There is no difference, no boundaries. There’s thoughts, and believing them or not, such as a separate self and it’s boundaries. The thoughts about a yourself and an others, are in plain ‘sight’, thoughts. The believing of thoughts is the denial of reality and the compromising of happiness, apparently, as in experientially, but never actually.

Self is undefinable. There’s no such thing as identity.

Thoughts attract thoughts, and this reality is infinite mind, and swiftness in letting discordant thoughts go, ‘nipping it in the bud’ is the key. It does seem it’d be a matter of levels and achievement, but it isn’t. That is a conceptualization which, like all conceptualizations, is actually health adverse. Creating reality by default, is quite literally ‘done by’ well being. Interventions via beliefs are felt as discord, and manifest as ‘blockages’, and are unnecessary (cause we can nip it in the bud). The Loophole Shake. It really is a loophole. There’s virtually nothing man made / synthetic in it (comparatively). Direct experience applies. Meditation. Emotional scale. Dreamboard. Alignment is with, well being.

The Loophole Shake.

Let the conceptualization of states go, and use the emotional scale instead. I promise you’ll soon be sleeping like a baby. Not a typical baby, but one of those rare sleeps through the night babies. https://www.actualityofbeing.com/the-emotional-scale

@TheAvatarState

How to not take life for granted? Bring attention back to perception and feeling.

Why do so many people believe that religions believe?

@blankisomeone No, they just wanna help you. Heck man, we all wanna help ya! They aren’t looking to do or say anything that would make you feel uncomfortable. I would just dial, call now, and not think too much about it. Just hear what they have to say.

Happiness is unconditional.

‘The devil is in the details’. Both are true. Not, two.

@Someone here Always! ??

@JuliusCaesar “Aerosmith” (arrow smith). There’s some parable happenin here. https://exploringyourmind.com/the-poisoned-arrow-buddhist-story-about-living-present/

@Someone here Kind of ‘the push & pull’ routine, or, inquiring but ‘hey no inquiring!’… chalked full of misinterpretation, assumption, and projection of.

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And a little bit of this as well.

I don’t recall saying any of that. Perhaps these are interpretations & assumptions?

@WokeBloke @Someone here Awesome. ? Happy for ‘you’s’.