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Oh Goodness me too. Took years of meditation. Infinitely & as you say, absolutely most worthwhile.

A riddle is a question, not a statement. You can say you are asking a question when you’re actually making a statement, but you will feel the discord of this. No longer making statements while believing you’re asking questions… and being direct rather than indirect… and just asking sincere, articulated straightforward questions… will resolve this for you. If that seems zen, riddler-ish or vague, I’ll say it this way: this is existential rumination. This has absolutely nothing to do with existentialism, and it is a game of pretend to believe it does. This has only to do with your desires, and your doubt, and your closing of the gap between the two. There is chronic disease, and there is chronic dis ease. The body & health therein are not separate of focus on thoughts, and most relevant, aversion from accountability, responsibility, and properly addressing conditioning and karma. Do not pretend aversion and focusing on one resolves the other (disease & dis ease). It does not. Notice the lengths people go to in the avoidance of the addiction to existential rumination & discordant conceptualization. Notice the dualistic relationship therein, that is, how it’s playing out in one’s life, and in one’s health & well being. See how you create it. Be willing to. Text is not supplemental for actuality, for an actual face to face conversation. Text, like book, and videos, is void of substance. Rarely do I directly self promote sessions here. You’ve been suffering too long with this. If what was said here is still not clear, book a session. This matter will be clear, and this suffering will cease permanently, in 90 minutes.

@Preety_India Yes. Meditation is literal brainwashing.

“His neediness” is a thought which arises in your direct experience. When you don’t judge yourself there is no one left to judge. When there is not neediness in your experience = there actually isn’t neediness in your experience. How can you know if anyone truly loves, when you don’t know what true love is? The Immutable Laws. For those with two good eyes. The Path. For those with two good ears. Basic & deep indeed.

@dflores321 Awesome. Beautiful man.

Right. A variation, but same point. There is no limitation for the exact same reason there is no sound / experience without a tree and an ear (‘someone there to hear it’). One or the other won’t do. If you have a tree but no ear, there’s no sound, no experience. An ear but no tree, no sound, no experience. Both are required. But… the enlightened one is well aware there is indeed, not, two. Tree 1, ear 2. Tree & ear 1, sound 2. Limitation 1, no limitation 2. If that doesn’t click, just relax, look around, see that everything’s cool, bring those you love, the best of times, and great things to come to mind, and change the inquiry to ‘what is unlimited’?

That’s a psychedelic ad if ever there was one. The peak of Maslow’s pyramid is sweet. What it’s made of is unthinkably sweeter. There is clinging, and there is Clinging.

@tsuki If a tree falls in the woods & no one is there to hear it, does it make a sound?

@Vzdoh Ok, must be my bad, and I apologize for going there. I don’t know if the bio clock gives any regard to thought really, but I’ve no direct exp there so I’ll leave that one alone lol. Just guy perspective (op), from one guy… the reply of ‘you are very special to me’ to ‘I love you’ is concerning. I’ve not found ‘love at first sight’ to be a thought or belief, but the actuality of love basically taking over and turning everything inside out and upside down in the best most cosmic way possible. All normality & logic goes out the window. Again, just one guy here, but my mom is ‘very special to me’.

No, you don’t. That’s your belief. There’s literally no such thing as death. That is love, and every time you say, label, call it “death” - you feel the discord with The Truth… with actual consciousness, actual infinite being, actual love. The ‘whole thingy’ that all the seeking & hoopla is about. That is what you’re feeling… but you believe you know what it is, and thus create the discord, the suffering. Literally, out loud, with conviction - directly - speak to it… ask it “are you love?” Feel the difference. Feel the answer! (‘Old you’ & love.) Nobody knows what it is! It’s a total Mystery! You start calling it love, you don’t have no pain no more. Check right now, notice the difference, feel for yourself. Love is also hysterically funny -> @infinitelove<-. It’s ok to laugh. Enlighten-up. Also, stop calling love anxiety! Call it love - experience the feeling of alignment for yourself. Not conceptually, right now. Check & see. Let the ‘exit the state’ & ‘climb the spiral’ nonsense go man. Speak out loud, literally, actually, talk directly to love. Ask love if it is what you’ve been calling death & anxiety. Feel the relief, feel the answer.

Guys, this “episode” never happened.

@Vzdoh I’d make a list on paper of what you want, so it’s ‘out of your head’ and in front of you. Generally, relationship wise (not what you want from him per se). Then I’d lightly contemplate each ‘item’ on that list, and bring to mind tangible (or not) aspects of him & your relationship with him, to bring some validation to that you are seeing & experiencing what you want in & with him, vs possibly projecting what you want onto him. It is possible a biological clock & emotional time family wise is influential in an underlying manor. If the previous question was off putting or triggering, more so. Want the best for ya, also, ain’t nobody lookin for heartbreak. Keep in mind, your experience is your creation. Whatever he is, so to speak, that is what you’re attracting. Puzzle & all.

@Logan Sweet. The stillness is a game changer.

Wow you must’ve had one heckuva vision. On the other hand though… what you’ve seen can not in truth be inevitable.

@Vzdoh Does he say / identify as a ‘true alpha guy’ or is that your projection?

@Vzdoh Oh, you’re thinking of asking him if you can move in with him. How’s the ‘true’ & ‘alpha’ relevant?

@Vzdoh It’s kinda your place in this sense. You’re free to ask whoever you want to move in with you. Curious, how is his wealth relevant (mentioned again)?

Just add “art” after whatever, in objectifying there is no accountability. Super easy. Was today years old when I learned pua is an acronym for pick up artist. ?

@Thought Art The mistake is conceptualization vs actuality, pointing ineffable vs claimed, known. The relevance is, who’s ‘mistake’?

@HereToLearn Attempt to point to ‘somebody’ and ‘dies’. Where, what is, what you’re talking about? Heaven.

Tackling is for the opposing team in a game of football. Meditation is without opposition. (But thought makes it so). Pushy and stubborn are self referential thoughts, like a mirror is not hair. You are not these, which is precisely why these thoughts feel as they do, and you’re lookin for peace. What is an ego you never heard of?

Samadhi is never a thing or scene of perception, but the absence of. Samadhi is not that brand of shocking. That’s judgement.

Proper meditation is the key. There is not a you being or remaining present. Meditation eases and naturally drops the suffering, which is the duality via believing the thoughts in regard to all the claiming. When focus and goals aren’t clung to as yours, beauty & presence are clearly you, and all experience is the icing on you-cake, and all apparent unfolding now is a mysterious miracle. No ‘you in a past’ or ‘you in a future’ or ‘you being improved’ or ‘you being helped’ confusion. Transversing traps (concepts) isn’t realizing no trap, it’s a still yet lingering ‘what I should be’, the same “I” which meditates, but no one every has, will or could, meditate.

The path of trust is communication.

That isn’t really projection or actuality, it’s the belief in assertion. Some people just are arrogant, and will always be. It works for them, and that’s all they care about, the matrix of ‘themself’.. The ‘error’ is overriding of ‘one’s own’ source & intuitive seeing, with the (projection) belief they care. It’s like projecting onto Donald Trump that somewhere deep under that ignorance there is care. It’s entirely possible to desire them to care, to be authentic, such that the mind refutes what it sees as obvious. If you don’t ‘should on’, there is no discord. Simply allow obviousness to be seen. Recognize & accept what ‘the third eye’ sees, or, let your colleague simply be, your colleague. You be you.