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The Truth.

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@Noahsteelers34 But you feel it. That is unmissable guidance. If you care more about how you feel than what you think.

That’s a memory. Let it go. Once let go, it is clearly seen it wasn’t “a memory” at all. Just a self imposed veil. There’s nothing you can do which can’t be done, nothing you can sing that can’t be sung.

@Chosendeer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1wXf08-42x4 You’re right, this is a major growth step for many people, but it hasn’t been about conspiracy per se for decades. That just means two people broke a law together. That ship sailed long ago. Laws have since been rewritten to accommodate and exclude people from the judicial system, and all legal & civil accountability. So it’s more a matter of legal reform or not.

@Endangered-EGO You’re judging, analyzing and imagining steps in this peace.

It doesn’t.

Maybe, but you are thinking about a yourself too, and there is no more a you which is thinking and a yourself which is thought about, than there is a secondary source of feeling, such that the good feeling (which is really what’s sought) is coming from interactions with people. Flip the script from how do I interact with people such that I feel good, to how do I interact with people such that they feel good… and now you are drawing upon that well, the source that you are. Pure selfless, non-self-referential-goodness. This is your place to pour yourself into.

@emind ? Such ineffable innocence & beauty you are.

@KennedyCarter Infinite can not know finite, there is no such thing as a beginning or end, life is via a-parent.

@Zega ?? Phil@ActualityOfBeing.com.

@KennedyCarter ?

Adopt a more mature perspective. You’re calling the way of the peace you most want gibberish. You’re right on point about not getting sucked into the thinking, the grandiose etc. Grounding is the way. The transmutation is happening. With daily expression, the mind doesn’t venture out so far as to project demons etc into perception. Without expression, it gets worse until it gets so bad, one expresses.

@Alfonsoo No, the opposite. Limiting beliefs are not something you work on, they’re more like a pack of jackals. “Working on them” = feeding them, which keeps them around. The nature of a belief is that it isn’t true. That’s what trips reveal or show you, so to speak. If you go into a trip with “something to work on”, you’re goin in with conditions, ‘my problems’, expectations, and with an a prior assumption something is wrong or broke and needs to be fixed. Trips show there’s nothing wrong, nothing that needs fixing… same as focusing on breathing from the stomach (meditation) which you can do any time, namely, in a trip. ‘Going into’ solving & fixing in a trip is just askin for looping and resistance. It’s called a trip because you leave, you know? It’s not called ‘my same everyday shit’. It’s more ‘literally… leave it all, let it all go… very literally - all of it. Relationships, the past, the future, others, the “self” of thoughts & fixing & problems & solutions, reality… let it all go’.

Make a dreamboard. Get all the juice of wanted outta this whole experience. You quit college initially, with a lot of unwanted in mind. Write it all in detail on a sheet of paper, then write the opposites in detail, what you do want, on your dreamboard. “Figuring” it all out is just one way. Writing what you want, not “figuring it out”, and just enjoying the inspiration & watching it appear is also one way.

@Ilan Priceless recontextualization. LMAO! Nice!

Agreed. Neither helpful nor considerate to anyone, yet no one is disappointed, and no one cares about projected expectations. They’re fictitious. The top of Maslow’s pyramid is a complimentary sentiment, but of course take it how you might. Something an exceptionally small percentage of people experience. The mugglfication of the pyramid points to the good news, that there is so much more. That you’ve not really even started yet. Realizing you’re creating this via dreaming, basically. Understanding what you’re attracting & why, and consciously proceeding. A real step beyond, also as in actual expansion, vs trying to pack everything into an existing box. What’s this need based on? How are you so certain? What does meaning have to do with a relationship? Doesn’t sound like it. Sounds like he’s avoiding his own intimacy, and in doing so unknowingly, avoiding the relationship. It melts the armor, getting ‘too’ close. The Light’ll melt all that “meaningful” stuff away. That’s just how you’re choosing to take it. Always up to you.

Yes & no.

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That ‘afterglow’ is you. If we hold fearful or discordant beliefs about ourselves, our reality, our future, etc… the more we ‘look at or into them’, the more relief (afterglow) is realized (truth). Careful not to swing the pendulum too far to the nondual, in regard to relative matters of expression / emptying. Talking (expression) with someone could by far be the path of lessor resistance. Either way, good for you on addressing this stuff you’ve been carrying. Happy for you!

Even “the present moment” is a projected layer. Just advice, but… stop conceptualizing nothing. Knowing / thinking the path is 1%, walking it is 99% (daily practice, diet & behavior changes, retreats, trips, etc, etc).

@Alfonsoo I’d ‘clean your house’ prior to the trip, for a more assured ‘good’ trip. Daily morning meditation, daily expression journaling, a clean diet, and a full dreamboard. The trip would be more of a reward, a taking of all that having cleaned up the house to the next inspirational step, showing you the way / connecting dots / meeting you in co-creating / helping shed light on underlying limiting beliefs.

@Seeker531 ?? @Zega She can pm or email me anytime if interested. It’d be helpful to chat. A lot doesn’t add up here, as in there is much projection of unrelated discord onto the awakening experience, clouding / confusing it / herself. She kinda has to want to experience something like that though (a call w me). I wouldn’t suggest it too heavily. She might not be ready to sort through it even if there is some suffering.

@Vzdoh Sounds like you both are at the very pinnacle of Maslow’s pyramid for muggles…. but that’s it. Neither taking the real step beyond. You’re not satisfied, and looking to him. He’s not satisfied, and isn’t even looking yet.

Could also not be the case at all. Write what you want on a dreamboard. Let it go from mind. Reality becomes it. Talking with someone is great for the harboring of any anger or resentment.