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Will you feel better, perhaps more passionate, elated, enthused, energized, eager, or maybe even more whole or complete, when you realize or know what your purpose is, or maybe even when you are actualizing it or have actualized it… than you do right now? It’s from Abraham Hicks & the emotional scale. Commonly people believe they need to do something to feel truly outrageously amazing. So they try a great many things. When nothing works, they consider the true nature is like the cork, that without the ‘holding down or holding underwater’ of beliefs, they naturally ‘float’, or, feel contentment. They’ve dropped the condition, and thus feel unconditional, in the now, present. Momentum builds as goodness arises, and we communicate that distinction with terms like passion, as compared to say, fear, doubt, etc. Those emotions are no longer experienced, because they were the discord, of the belief(s).

Someone else experiences, shares, and you call that vibrational experience enlightenment theory.

@Vision That you aren’t filled with passion, and so there is a belief to let go of. Then you float like an unfettered cork.

@Kksd74628 Manifesting what you want is one hell of an enlightening practice (ime). Helping others do the same isn’t too shabby either (as a practice for ya).

@Javfly33 Damn it! I bamboozled myself with the all caps.

@Javfly33 Come on man.

@Alysssa Nice. I just meant to see what animals are.

@Kksd74628 What are some things which help people which you do want to do? Also, self inquiry isn’t about thinking but about feeling.

Really depends on one’s connotation of ‘do’. We can turn a light on, or kick a football for example. Maybe you mean do about something specific…? Those are labels. Science can explain sex for example, but then when you experience sex it isn’t the connotation, or, the idea, or, labels. I wonder if what you’re really wondering is if believing thought labels in regard to feeling is delusional. In that case the label of ‘evidence’ could be let go, for the ‘real thing’. All labels are essentially delusional, yet no one is delusional. Edit: Just read some of the op… the issue at play is thought attachment. ‘Brain scanner’ isn’t a separate thing, it’s a thought, which believed, does seem like it is actually this separate thing, but of course… ‘separate thing’ is also just a thought. Without thought attachment it’s more readily realized one is believing ‘evidence’ which is really hearsay, and one is not actually ‘going out’ and checking the evidence for oneself so to speak. From a helpful, practical, useful standpoint… just literally label the hell out of everything on purpose. Doing so on purpose makes it clear it’s something one’s been doing all along. Similar to getting angry, or being serious on purpose.

Go outside.

Lot of thread to catch up on… is there maybe a specific question or two? @caelanb

@Kksd74628 Not sure what you mean by bashing. I’m saying anything you do which earns income helps someone.

@Kksd74628 There is virtually nothing you could possibly do which makes even 1 dollar which is not helping people.

@EmptyVase ? Something fun is even better than silencing the mind, but also they are often two in the same.

@somegirl You’ve got to notice that you are the one saying this is how it is. You have the power to put how you feel well above your perspectives and thoughts about her or anyone. That is your true power. Imo, you need some space, a break from this thinking, from these discordant perspectives. In the smokescreen of so much mental resistant activity, the truth that you are only feeling your own perspectives, thoughts & beliefs, is going unnoticed. It’s not new to you to hear the idea of empowering yourself, by nourishing your mind, body and emotions. Nor is it a new concept to become independent emotionally and financially. One can do this, and one does not need to employ the opposite, or, resent those who took care of them. These things can only be done & accomplished now, not in a past. From Byron Katie… when you look at her, see her with all your post it notes stuck all over her. All your labels, beliefs, projections, etc. Peel them all off. Then you will really see her for the first time, and you will love & appreciate her more than you could ever imagine. You will feel liberation, and you will feel more amazing than you ever felt. More than you even knew was possible. And then you will be saying to someone (probably your own daughter one day)… “it’s about putting feeling first”. In doing so you will not experience these battles in that relationship, and in doing so you will have literally changed the world.

Responsibility for your life is a thought. There is no ‘your life’ in perception. A ‘your life’ is contingent on you being an object moving through linear time, which is also thought and never in perception. Response ability is a slight change of perspective, with the focus shifting away from an abstract ‘big picture’ of ‘my life’, and is the mind returning to responding in alignment, now. And it is only ever, now. This is most key in regard to anxiety and or depression, which are about a past and or a future, which isn’t ever actually experiences. This recognition is most impactful for the habit of ‘ballooning’ / ‘spider webbing’, or, taking how one feels just in this moment, and mistakenly extrapolating that as if it were indicative of ‘my whole life’. When the wandering mind wanders back to here & now, presence is, alignment is, happiness is.

Animals live in impulse. You’re not an animal.

@fopylo That is definitely a ‘real’ thing. Egyptians called it ‘anking’ or something close to that. I think the only missing component to what you shared is realizing the energy goes up & out the top of your head, and then downwardly around you and back into you in all directions. It does have an odd ring to it, but she can do this too, and the two of you can simultaneously, and the word orgasm doesn’t do it any justice. Fortunately, it takes some practice to tune in & feel the subtle energy, and then it gets less and less subtle, in the best possible way.

You can’t stand what she says, yet take issue with ‘the silent treatment’ / her not talking. Only when it is inwardly admitted that you’re hurting yourself, everything changes. Know your power by noticing your conflicting perspectives & behaviors. Align them instead with what feels good to you, and include the ways you think about her in your aligning. The love within you is greater than all things, all people, all situations, all perspectives. Perspectives are like movies. If you don’t like what you’re watching, you can change the channel.

There is an underlying belief you somehow adopted that you are not already good. That something is wrong or subpar with you and needs to be improved. Attempts to ‘fix’ this don’t work. Changing the belief works. Recognizing that it is a belief, that it feels off because it isn’t true about you, works. You’ve got to change the story you tell. If you tell the story that everyday I feel like I am drowning…. You miss that that story is what doesn’t feel good. In missing that, you miss that it is your perspective which feels bad - not something about you which needs to be improved, so that you could feel better. You are already the greatest feeling possible… which keeps being covered up by the perspectives which aren’t resonating with… you … the greatest feeling possible. This is an example of one of those discordant perspectives. It’s based on that original belief, that something is wrong with you, or you aren’t good, or good enough, and need to be improved. From there, the perspective that ‘it’s all failed miserably’ arises and is believed. But it’s just one perspective, and it doesn’t feel good. You got to let go of perspectives that don’t feel good, rather than believing and repeating them. It could just the same be said that you progressed, as you explored much and it is helping you to realize going outside yourself is holding those discordant beliefs. Go inward to discover that in fact you are fucking awesome. Don’t try to add, to figure, out, to fix, etc… let go of perspectives that don’t feel good. The world, your experience, your life, will follow. When one is heavily judging themself, one projects this onto ‘other people’. When one let’s go of judging oneself, everyone else is revealed to be perfect as well, exactly how they are. You could scrutinize these discordant perspectives, and that can be difficult feeling wise, but that is good because it’s actually letting them go, rather than averting. When you think & say people are deluded, that is judgement, which doesn’t resonate. You’ve got to choose how you feel over what you think. If in fact that even is what you think. I don’t feel like it is. I feel like you learned it and believe it. It might seem like it’s easier to keep believing that, as if it puts you on a pedestal or higher than other people… but as I think you’re finding, it doesn’t pan out to work that way. Notice spiraling. One could have a bad moment, or a bad day… but sizing up a whole lifetime as miserable isn’t true or accurate, it’s just a discordant perspective. There is only actually this moment now. That is where the discordant perspective is. There isn’t actually a ‘whole life’ ever experienced, it might seem so, but that is actually just the repeating of the same perspectives. Gotta change perspectives, to those which feel good for you. You are believing there is a huge problem… and then expecting a huge solution. There isn’t a huge problem. Every moment is a fresh new opportunity to change the way you’re thinking in alignment with feeling good. When how you feel right now is believed to be because of a past, notice, there is no past here… that perspective is what is here now. You do have the power to choose a better feeling perspective - but - you must let go of the expectation that a ‘huge solution’ is needed. You must change perspective only for, only because, it feels good, right now. This is essentially choosing to care about how you feel, to care about yourself. You have to genuinely choose that for yourself. You are most worthy and most deserving of knowing the happiness that you are. You must allow this… by being willing to let go of beliefs & perspectives that are not indicative of you, that don’t align with the truth of your inherent goodness & deservedness. As you let go of perspectives & beliefs that don’t feel good to you… you will find there is no lack of inspiration or focus. It is precisely because you are inherently inspiration, focus and goodness - that some perspectives don’t feel good. I feel for you, I’ve been there, and I am wishing you the absolute best. It can be most helpful to talk with someone who’s experienced challenges like this, and made it through so to speak. If you’d ever like to talk together, send me an email through the link & site below. No charge. Actually would just like to help. In any case, you can bring well being about, this is not only within your power, it is your inherent divine nature, and the greatest possible joy to discover. In a way I’m actually envious, a pinch jealous, that this discovery lies ahead of you, that you get to experience your greatness a new. I’m excited for you. Ended up typing a lot… to draw out a single point I feel would be most helpful and impactful… it’s feeling the relief of choosing a better feeling perspective. And then experiencing how momentum builds as you continue to do so. It will change everything. You can. You have that power.

Value is a rationalization & justification for aversion / seeking, perpetuating the activity of thought or thinking, which is the only veil. It seems like you’re on a track in this way, and that if you keep going you’ll find the value eventually. But that is more of a hamster wheel. In silence truth inevitably becomes unquestionably clear. Insight only arises within you, and you can experience all the insights you’d like to about the multiverse. They will come from, so to speak, the source within you… once the activity of thought settles. Foolish or wise, true or not true, awakened people or unawakened people, authority or no authority… these have no actuality. That is the thought activity. The veil.

All which are possible isn’t quite the same as all which are, or, what is. Unless human minds & the laws of physics are concepts. Then all possible is the same as all which are.

@tuckerwphotography Even the knowing of your biases is one condition too many for God.

Feelin the love, thanks