YaNanNallari

Kundalini awakening is generally thought to be an irreversible thing. That being said, kundalini energy is as far as I've understood more concentrated normal energy. Many energy things do come and go too. Energy is indeed a topic not very common to talk about for several reasons, but you can find advice for it too. It is not talked about much for although it can be good to acknowledge, it can be something easy to get lost in, and normal principles of meditation still hold pretty much regardless of the experience.

It sounds like it might be caused by a split between wanting solutions, approval and wanting to feel free, unconditionally loved, powerful. Oh and if this is the case, the solution is very simply to recognize those sides

This video talks about entanglement very similar to the "empath" identity

Yes it does help. Just being a more aware likable person helps

Who knows. Maybe he is meeting women right now

@NoSelfSelf I'm suspecting that you're leaving something out of your awareness leading to not wanting to take action on anything, or the action is indeed not taking action and waiting for a better opportunity, which could be a good idea.

When you control something the wrong way, there's something left out. When something is forced, there's a drawback. You might get what you want, but it won't be satisfying in this case I suppose.

my bad used the wrong word

Yes. It is a choice. A man can be polygamous, be attracted to multiple women, yet still choose to have a special relationship with only one. But it doesn't mean that that man wouldn't be polygamous by nature. Is a man polygamous by nature or not? I'd say yes, but in a way it is trivial question. The reasons, the studies don't matter that much. You see that there is bullshit in his reasoning, that is fine. There is bullshit in your claims too. That's ok. The real issue here is something a bit more underlying, which you can discover for yourself. Whether he is willing to discover or not, I do not know.

why does this matter

Leo shows him his shadow

Seeing the pain that the voice transmits and not needing the voice anymore is what makes it go away from my experience

@Hellspeed Good stuff you've been writing on the forum. Found some stuff useful

Every man and woman has manly and feminine things about them by the general categorization. So it would be stupid to reject the feminine in a man for no reason.

@Leightonm Looked it up a bit. Seems like a pretty fun way to create a positive feeling and transform things.

@Echoes The thing that's not the situation is the now, present, thing that can't be described, stillness, consciousness that is always there. Because that is always there, you don't just go from situation to situation in life.

You can improve yourself to attract those good girls and also be good enough for them. A change of perspective can sometimes do a lot. Then you can also improve your situation, which at 15 would probably mean being active socially to find more people and options.

I wouldn't focus all too much on manifesting specific things and being desperate about it as is also done by many, but seeing is law of attraction a thing (you can confirm this on your own, take your time) and then see how it helps you direct your life. This way you won't end up spiritually bypassing (overly focus on positive) too, as is also done by many of the youtubers.

Situation is the concept you have of the moment. So they are very useful for thinking about things, and then you can balance improving your own view in your situation and improving your situation.

One thing I heard is that people who think about things a lot might even talk out loud. But from my own experience I've seen that people who have a very quiet mind might be desperate for thoughts at times, ending up with talking to yourself. And another things is that you might be asking for outside perspectives, creating thought patterns of talking with yourself or creating people/perspectives to talk to. This might happen especially when lonely. I doubt you'll need to think about being crazy right away

The sure way and the reason the technique works is the concentration part

It could be plenty of things, I honestly feel like not providing more answers, as I'm afraid it would only leave you with more questions.

I think the smartest devils might admit that they're devils to other people, yet not fixing the problem themselves and saying "that's just how I am" to themselves. But of course we know devilry is way more complex than that.

Maybe go towards accepting that you don't know the answer, accepting a bit of confusion and trusting that you'll figure it out if it's necessary to figure it out. This is what I've done and I feel better

It's slippery cause you're trying to grasp it