YaNanNallari

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  1. Seems like not a miracle barber, but maybe a decent one
  2. Instead of getting stuck trying to reach heavens you do what you can do now, making it the brave move
  3. There's a very primitive reason for keeping people in check which we do and sometimes it is very good. Because this is so close to our identity we do it a lot. So this is why I think it's good to learn how there's more than that, a higher sense of understanding available to us
  4. different things for different people at different times. Maybe researh something that seems interesting, maybe look at your habits, maybe practice more. It varies
  5. There seems to be emotional discomfort being created. So your system seems to see it as "bad", whatever you're doing
  6. Didn't read but, if you are afraid of closeness and relationships, you will make the act of rejection an enjoyable one. Just how if one wants to get into a relationship, they will easily paint getting into one a flowered path in their mind
  7. I'd think he dislikes the part of it being used as an ideology for justifying stuff
  8. Ok so consciousness wouldn't maybe protect you from this, but then why would you need to be protected from this? What's wrong with the fate? Why would it be the sole purpose of your life? You would have your whole life before that. This is I guess what my previous comment pointed at. who cares about him being hailed as a hero. wouldn't it be great that he became conscious? Why assume that your life needed to continue?
  9. If you become more conscious this probably won't happen to you. Saying that something is your ultimate purpose because it happens is in many ways really dumb
  10. he does? https://youtu.be/CIPE5YH2zgc?t=3716
  11. It might open you up a bit. Don't go for it too hard if it doesn't come naturally
  12. Haha he does it on purpose you silly person
  13. I'll write the following a bit arrogantly, but. If you look at it, from her point of view it only makes sense to do what makes her happy. You're asking her to crash and burn most likely. The success, the money, the healthiness wouldn't bring her joy. Her joy comes out having validated emotions, which is a completely normal thing. It comes out of allowing her to be how she is. Trying to run away from her emotions, to do this and that what other people want, isn't exactly a good idea when there's a better choice of attempting to heal. She must be going crazy by now if she has been told her whole life that she should not like how she is and instead just work from fear even when she doesn't have to for now.
  14. Well yeah we don't owe and the world doesn't owe us if there are no deals made. It's almost like some people like to just help others
  15. he posted this, but yeah nice to hear that
  16. Yeah it's common to start out from there. If you for example take a colored piece of fabric or paper against a lighter background, you might see colors. But really, not a very useful skill until maybe very much later on
  17. It can work, but of course the more open you are to it working, the better it works. The deeper it reaches, the better it works
  18. If I remember correctly (first of all read the whole book before applying tbh since it can be a weird and new area) it also said to not try to focus on an area if it does not feel helpful and loving to the area and that if that's the case, return to it later and or meditate more. If it indeed makes you more controlling and it's hurting you to do it, you don't have to. You can either return to it later or do things another way, maybe even something you haven't thought of yet Some of these more advanced things can take some time and learning, to uncover big things. It is kind of expected to not just roll through with it 100% successful and in a breeze as the past conditioning is often strong.
  19. They talk down to themselves too, you're not the only one. It is a way they are used to behaving. To compare, analyze and such.
  20. I do not know what it is based on that it makes you feel more grounded. I could see for emotional reasons for why some people, many, would feel more grounded after eating meat. For making you healthier, I don't think it's necessary
  21. I think it's fair to say that they exist, but really most common reason? Don't they also just leave once you give them no power?
  22. You can master enlightenment yes, but many people are not in a situation where they can afford to do that