YaNanNallari

The results are a lot faster with kriya especially once the basics build up in I'd guess 3-4 months

Don't worry too much about just "completing the game" as in completing life. Having a blissful world and that's it. Follow your passion instead and that will also be the best for others even if it might seem selfish at first. You can't help everyone but you can still enjoy life. If you're feeling down, keep meditating and it will pass.

Kriya invites you to a different world and approach to developing well being for yourself. It is more technical than normal meditation. It's hardly the same as normal mindfulness meditation since you use things other than your mind as well.

What if the past didn't happen in a different time (at least in our level of time)? Maybe the past happened at the same time as now, but it was different

Learn new. I definitely recommend some energy work, such as the kriya yoga video. And of course normal meditation. The more you learn the more rewarding life gets in the long term even if you have to accept the difficulties on the way there. Know that you have absolutely huge potential with spirituality and allowing yourself to do the things that get you forward will be truly rewarding.

Energy work, opening and clearing chakras. Those help. Acceptance, maybe asking help from the universe and remembering the counter-intuitive ways of how to deal with ego. Maybe affirming things like "My aura repels negative energy". There are more advanced ways but they start to get tricky

@billiesimon It's more like I wish that the person I'm with wants to be just with me because they want to. Not so that I need to tell them to not go around in a negative tone. Then we can still be just the two of us.

I don't think the quality girl you're looking for is found from tinder. I also don't think I need someone to be "loyal" to me. That sounds like restricting them. I rather have people follow their passions, not that getting around is their actual passion.

Encourage people to be more happy and follow what they want to do more. Encourage to do think and be in a way that makes them happier

Yeah seeing that they won't bring you long term happiness. It is not the end all most rewarding and fun thing there is to do even if it can be plenty of fun. Also realizing how low consciousness most women (and men) are made me at least skip a phase in this. I'd now only want a great relationship. It's fine to want good things. It is not recommended to be attached to an outcome but to accept what is now (and means accepting action as well). You could also try to just be really simple about it. What is stopping you from not chasing women? If you want then just don't. This might show you emotional things you need to accept.

Maybe spiritual bypassing. See if you have a lens or belief system you look things through. Check if you have heavily contradicting emotions deep down.

None of those things exists. Not even the things gumbo is made of

@ADD If you're into chakras, enpower and open your bottom 3 chakras to increase masculinity

For me I noticed it to come from anxiousness or fear. Not allowing pleasure joy and peace. Not allowing myself to be content. Of course the reasons for this can vary a ton and they can be deep.

See how you really feel about the situation. Try to see what you'd be doing without the other person. This was allowed to happen because you had an "unresolved" part of you wanting this. See if you could either have some other way to express or get what you want out of the relationship. There is really no long term "justification" way out of this the way I see it. Try to just see how you truly feel and follow what you want to do yourself. Might this end up with the relationship breaking? Maybe. But you can't tell if that's a bad thing or not.

You probably act some way that gives off a young vibe or your nature is not built for being charismatic right now. See what are your expectation for your interactions with women. Are you in the back of your mind thinking you'll just end up in a friendzone? Or rejected? Or thinking you're not grown up? Or thinking you're too naive? etc Please see that them thinking won't change your self image much at all if you're already comfortable with yourself and doing your own thing.

A balance between an open root and crown chakra.

You're allowed to feel safe without being in a relationship. You can do an affirmation for it, for example "I always feel safe and secure"

Many agendas and trying to make some things look bad and others better have a big influence with this. For example hell might not be as bad of a place and who knows if satan is even evil. Heaven and hell might be certain kinds of reincarnations right?

I wouldn't worry too much about how to attract a certain kind of a girl. I have found just being myself and expressing my passions to lead to best results. I'd think many attractive qualities work for many kinds of people. Being open to humor, expressive and reliable for example. Working on chakras has helped me understand this as well. I often prefer being feminine guy myself so I too like slightly more masculine women. I have found many of them don't mind me acting a bit feminine, but they definitely enjoy it when I'm not boring and bring the expressiveness and joy they might lack. So variety is how I do it and having a balance with myself in general so that I won't try to fit into a role so much. This way you can switch the roles around mid flight as well. If you have to pretend with the person you're with they're not your dream match.

I think women can lose energy from orgasms the same way as men can. This was also in some book about sexuality and energy I read. Orgasms can be clear and even empowering and open up things or they can be then lacking and draining. Having open and empowered chakras makes it a ton better imo

Maybe gentleness and patience isn't what she needs right now.

If you want you can do an energy shield mantra. This of course does not deal with the root issue but prevents you from being drained. Also know that accepting the person instead of resisting them will take less energy for you personally. Worrying takes energy. If it is possible for you to not worry about it then let go. Most likely you can at least reduce worrying about her.

Probably some lower your vibration in general and some don't. This is all I know.

Don't care about overthinking, overthinking stops. How to get there? others probably told you