ajasatya

nah. just pick a name that reminds you to practice NOW. that's what i did. it's a tool.

i picked ajasatya, which means "unborn reality"

ask the dojo mentor about people/places he/she knows. maybe he/she knows about retreats etc. also, check this out.

get in touch with zen practitioners near you. are there zen centers? i live in brazil, but i only got to know about monasteries and such because i started practicing zazen in a sangha.

fruits and honey

i've done open relationships. the results were very little growth: few opportunities to face my fears (too much comfort zone) the same cycles of sexual neediness weak intimacy / superficial friendships

the Mind is a sharp tool. don't cut your own fingers.

i know

non-duality is full of traps perfectly fit for deception. the sense of individuality is also part of Reality. we have to embrace BOTH duality and non-duality. be a no-one and a grown man at the same time. this is the true meaning of wisdom.

c'mon leo grow up

what is the point of open relationships? and just to make it clear, you don't live in an open relationship. all of your relationships would have to be open.

open relationships are for lazy and undisciplined people. they don't work towards mastering their sexual energy thus they become slaves of unstable sexual urges. they fear intimacy and get attached very easily.

do not let it die. it's a rare feature for men.

@willybilly30 i'm not telling you to make videos. i'm telling you to go for straightforward mindfulness practices/retreats.

why don't you do it? what are you waiting for?

giving up completely

that's accurate. but lemme fix something for you.

find a way to start now. even if you only dedicate 1 hour/week. make it come true.

yes. a healthy body/mind and a healthy planet.

laborious task, but i'll do agroforestry. agroforestry is a way of getting lots of healthy food in a healthy way. and i work hard towards my health, thus it's a godlike choice. i want mankind to realize that we're the gardeners of this world. and i like to demonstrate stuff by being the perfect example.

where does the desire to defeat the ego come from? give up already.

computer science, zen, agroforestry and intimate relationships (sexuality)

no

succeed at something else. you must be your own portfolio. 99% of the life coaches are frauds. they sell empty shells of success, as if you could be successful at being successful at being successful at being successful... this is why i am telling you. become a master of a specific field first. then you can teach people how to become successful at something.

developer, gardener, baker, accountant...